Exactly.
And far more of those other combos that Black/White. Black folks would really have something to bitch about if we married other races as much as Asians and Latinos.
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Exactly.
And far more of those other combos that Black/White. Black folks would really have something to bitch about if we married other races as much as Asians and Latinos.
I was about to say the samething. Why do people automatically make it a white and black thing. There is other races besides white people
LoneStar29
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No I get it
I HATE to agree with these white women worshipping coons but my feelings would be REALLY hurt if I was dating a diff race guy and his fam said I couldnt come in cuz I was black ... so I wouldnt treat another person that way ... thats just my own opinion thats why I said to each their own, I aint knockin your rules. And like I said if I had that rule 3/4 of the bm in my life would cut me off ... you know bm are MOST passionate about ww and I doubt he'd still wanna be my friend if I said the white bitch couldnt come in
But they arent different so no I wont recognize them as such
He shouldn't be. If my woman isn't good enough to come in your home, neither am I. A man that doesn't think like that, needs a Manhood booster shot.
You don't know most of them so you don't know that, that's just how you feel. Some can look at you and feel the same way about you and have the same amount of legitimacy.
I understand what you mean. But isn't that on him for trying to bring you to their house in the first place? Just how we see it. It's about respecting the rules. We have the same rule about no shoes past the foyer. Would you bring a girl over to your house and let her wear shoes past the foyer? It's disrespecting the house rules. And he knew better.
And yes bm will defend to the death their entitled belief that they can stick their penis in anything they want too. And i do not begrudge them that.
LoneStar29
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Having shoes on in your home is different LOL but you know this so I wont get into it with you
LOL I know for a fact that one of my brothers would cut me off if I said he couldnt bring his white girls over ... the only time I hear bm get extremely passionate is when it comes to their ww especially when they feel they have to defend their salts of the earth from us evil bw. In real life I dont even give my boys opinions on their white girls, I just smile and nod to whatever they say cuz they will flip the fuck out at the mere mention that this white bitch isnt perfection. Like you can criticize a bw all day long but the second you have an opinion on the white bitch they label you a hater so I keep my opinions to myself and just watch tghem play themselves
Nope, they cant
cuz I dont throw around stereotypes about bm or drink the koolaid that white is right like you simple basic brainwashed kneegrows do
Doesn't everyone? We have that right and women have the right to get stuck by whatever/whoever they want.
And on this portion of the discussion.... its a moot point
Its moot because of the fact just because you have ancestors of another ethnic group in your tree doesn't mean that line is readily accepted as kinfolk or an excuse to be included in anything.... this could be said of the black descendants of the founding fathers of this nation , the US, where most of the former slave family bloodlines were not accepted by the affluent white line which they gained their name from....
There are some family lines which stand proud with no anglo blood in their veins and are offended by it because of their past grievances never punished. As are there are anglos which are proud of their line being pure without interbreeding... that's the onus of the family line.
Now the no whites crossing over her threshold is the family ruling which was set and now she defends... it wasn't an admission of hate or anger, its that of honoring the wishes of a law within their household which all which were born of that house or raised it know the rules.... the disrespect comes from one trained within that household bringing the malefactor to the home despite the pre-established rules... which is the sign of disrespect.
If I am not mistaken... that's merely a house rule... which means any other threshold is fine to allow your woman through the door. Or even family functions not in that threshold...
Thank you.
A lot of people are simpletons with "binary" mindsets, that is, it's either one or the other with them.
You don't find that disturbing? That he'd cut you off. His sister. His blood? Over some white girl that he's just running through?
No, i believe it's different with black men and white women. It's a constant observance. I've seen asians be in other outside relationships and i've never seen them fervently defend white women like black men do. It's not the same.
I understand you'll disagree. But it's what i've seen.
LoneStar29
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Fuck...thats just black men for you though ... what are you gonna do
Its fucked up cuz these guys will DIE to be with a ww, cut off their fam and hang themselves if need be ... then they love to laugh at bw and say 'see? no other race of man would do that for YOU"
rotfl I really cannot stand these kneegrows like for real lmaooooo
I wont ever date another one again
If he's just "running through" her, I doubt he cares but if he cares for the woman, his sister's rejection of her is a rejection of him and his choices. If this is a wife/woman he's serious about, he should cut his sister off if she behaves that way.
Are they as publicly castigated like Black men are for their choices? We can't say what goes on privately (though it must not be too severe since Asian women marry non-Asian men at a 50% clip) but publicly, is it the same?
Of course, so why would they have the same response as Black men, who have their "Blackness" challenged for who they choose to live their lives with?
ok heres a question to the racist in this thread. What if your child brought home someone who was mixed? (Half White/Black)?
Bitch, you have no point. The only point about that's proven by anyone is the fact that you're a salty, bitter, batshit insane bitch who couldn't get and keep a man if her pitiful life depended on it. Many people DO "just fall in love" -- just not with you. If you had a man (that isn't looking to make an exit the moment he figures you out) in your life, you wouldn't be so salty trying to tell people what to do. Just buy some cats, accept your spinsterhood and shut the fuck up. Your constant bitching won't change anything in my life (or in the lives of the others you've mentioned) and it won't do anything to fix the sad state of affairs that characterizes your existence. Seek some help. Post fucking haste.
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This is 1 of them. But i feel it's not worth discussing because i don't see how it matters.
Pretty much. This guy knew the rules of the family. He though because my husband was dead for some reason the rules no longer existed or didn't apply to him.
Yes merely a house rule. He could've gone to his mothers house with his becky and i wouldn't have said a word. If we were having the party at Nana's house he could've brought her there. We would've been giving him the side eye fierce. This family doesn't approve of it. But they won't kick you out of it. Uncle's house. Park. He could've brought her anywhere. But MY HOUSE.
And he knew this.
Fuck...thats just black men for you though ... what are you gonna do
Its fucked up cuz these guys will DIE to be with a ww, cut off their fam and hang themselves if need be ... then they love to laugh at bw and say 'see? no other race of man would do that for YOU"
rotfl I really cannot stand these kneegrows like for real lmaooooo
I wont ever date another one again
I like it when they want you to accept their decisions. Like you just should. As if you can't dislike the action and love the person who acted. I've heard that alot from other households. Where the children get angry at the parents and say, fine i won't be coming back to this house then!
Of course their selfishness doesn't make them understand that in reality they're the ones who are doing the cutting off. When you divorce that glorious and wonderful white woman. What then? Then your pride won't let you come home with hat in hand and ask for forgiveness for cutting off your family for the love of a white woman.
And yes, besides a few, i've never seen black men in general defend black women like they do ww.
You may disagree with it... which is your right to do so and maintain rules in your household different from this... but as one should not judge the behaviors of one culture while living in another... one can't dispute the laws and rules of your home... your backyard... because its not for you to dispute.
For instance... I am biracial by numerous bloodlines, Hispanic, white, and african... one white line never accepted us because of us not being white, the other didn't care and we have relations with them, the costa ricans deal with only the lighter ones while the carribean and Panamanians couldn't care less as long as you hold the blood and the name...
From those attitudes unspoken rules and known rules were created to ensure peace and understanding... does this shape you? Yes it does. Is it right? Don't think of whether its right or wrong, its just is and it works.
I married into a family of full blacks... no whites in their line.... a majority don't care for whites and let them know straight up, since my skin passes for black, they didn't ask my background until many saw my family.... yet those who married white men got shifted on regardless of what they have done previously.... I think its bullshit, but a rule is a rule and it doesn't govern personal relationships.
Well she didn't say her brother married the ww. She said girlfriends. And that's pretentious and stupid. If i'm rejecting something i don't agree with, doesn't mean i'm rejecting YOU. You just should respect me enough not to bring it to my domain. Which is something i was trying to get out of that other poster before. Why the disrespect for us in our homes?
Asian men marrying white women doesn't effect us black women. Black men marrying white women. And the whole belief that white is better, effects black women. Which is why black women publicly castigate them. In my view anyway. Like i said before. I do not agree with it. But i know it won't be stopped. And it's foolish to try to fight black men who are fighting to get them a ww.
I don't disagree with that, I'm telling you how a man sees it. He should respect your house rules, it's your house. But due to the very private nature of who people choose to enter relationships with, a rejection of my choice is a rejection of me.
Don't change it up. You brought Asian men and how they conduct themselves, I merely ask you follow it all the way through and not just stop when it's convenient for your argument. If Asian men don't get the same treatment publicly for dating/marrying non-Asian women, why would they have the same response as Black men?
Personally, I don't know why any Black person who marries/dates non-Blacks gets defensive. Fuck them.
He's supposed to, just as she's supposed to cut off any outsiders who bring negative shit to their marriage. If more people understood that, there would be fewer divorces in the first place.
And that particular thing happens, no matter the woman's color. All that cutting off bullshit hurts both parties when we're talking about parents and their adult children and the hurt is worse and deeper when there are children involved.
I didn't change it up. Where was the change up? You asked why didn't they get publicly berated. I'm saying from black women; We don't care what asian men are doing. But from the asian women i know? They don't seem to care either.
The asian men have been complaining lately about asian women with white guys. And wasn't there a study done about the 2 least desirable race-sex's being asian men and black women?
I dont give a fuck who some dates but I do think black men and women work together better. I'm against interracial relationships and would be heart broken if my daughter was to bring home a CAC.
I didn't ask that at all. I asked if they get the same public treatment as Black men who date/marry outside their ethnicity. If you're saying from the Asian women you know they don't, then why would they have the same response as Black men when challenged on it? If I have to constantly defend my choices, I'm going to be a bit sensitive and defensive about it (admittedly, some Black men pick White women for the wrong reasons but I'm not talking about that either).
Yes there was and I've mentioned it several times only to be told I'm saying talking bad about Black women from crazy people. As I already said, Asian women marry non-Asian men by at or around 50% (I've seen higher). They have something to complain about. For Black folks, men and women, it's just whining and placing blame for their loneliness on someone else.
u can call it what u want but morally its wrong, u cannot justify racism
i remember when i was around 12-13 i had my first girlfriend. and she was a white girl. i met her at a white church we attended. now my mama was always talkin bout how church shouldnt be about color and this and that. but god forbid when i start talkin to a white girl all hell breaks lose. she sits down with the girls parents and gives them a story bout how im too young to be dating and thats why we couldnt talk but i knew it was bullshit. how the fuck are you gonna be halfway racist? u live in a white mans world, interact with them on a daily basis, go to their churches, eat their food, shop in theyre stores but when it comes to dating u draw the line?? dont be a fucking fake if ur gonna do it then do it all the way, dont just say in my household, apply that same rule in every aspect of your life, otherwise it makes no sense to do so at all!!!
to this day i dont tell my mama shit about what i do when it comes to dating. for shes knows i could be gay, but i dont give a fuck what she thinks, she let me know what she approves of when it comes to that aspect of my life, i dont agree with her, so why argue about it? id rather she didnt even know.
as a teenager i fucked hella white girls, i was white girl exclusive for a while matter of fact, until i moved to college. now like ive said before, i love women of color, thats my preference, hell my girlfriend now ismixed with asian, black, and white. im not too much attracted to white women for various reasons but its not my place to judge anyone who is attracted to them, its not my place to even look down on white people as a whole. judge folks on an individual basis, not on a racial basis. i can sit her and preach all day but an old fool is set in their ways
Fuzzy_McNut
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It's a sad day in bgol when people would be more cncerned about their child bringing home a white woman/white man then bringing home a single parent of two.
Id be more upset if my child brought homse a woman that had 2 kids
Id be more upset if my child brought homse a woman that had 2 kids
even if your child is 45 and her kids are grown?
heartbroken? its her life not yours. wtf is wrong with you? she is living in a different time and judge the dude for who he is, not in general.
absolutely nothing just want my daughter to marry a black man. Just like I want my son to marry a black woman.
Bullshit certain traits that Asian and white women find attrative that that many black women don't
Hell Wayne Brady is considered lame to most black women ,but some white and Asian women wouldn't mind a black man like that
It's all good,everyone have their own thing,what they beleive in,whatever.But from threads like this you know the cats who are either not black,all black or black and the mentioning of "snow white" they are going to argue their point,even after he has established he doesn't give a fuck what anyone thinks.
Something to simmer things down...becky.
Something to simmer things down...becky.
Bullshit certain traits that Asian and white women find attrative that that many black women don't
Hell Wayne Brady is considered lame to most black women ,but some white and Asian women wouldn't mind a black man like that[/QUOTE]
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