BGOL: Why A Dude That Like Big Girls Gotta Have Low Self-Esteem?

i'm sorry, bruh, but i'm not buying it. a rich nigga might have some fun with that first bitch, but the second one? nah, that bitched arms look like hamhocks. the average nigga that has better options available to him, aint looking twice at that bitch. you could be the exception, i'm just saying on average.

and not fucking with fat chicks don't mean you gotta fuck with stick figures. shit, if i was in hollywood, i'd be harassing this bitch.

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Dude, upbringing means a lot.

I'm from the rural southeast, and that is more than likely why big, curvy, women aren't repulsive to me. I'm cool with a left-coaster from BGOL, and he definitely does not share my taste in women. Do you think that, living in an area where the standard of beauty is different, influenced his taste in women?

Of course it did.

I have a RICH cousin, who owns a cement business in South Carolina, and his wife is a big, curvy, woman. She was that way when they met.

Wide hips, thick thighs, and big asses are glorified in my neck of the woods. Been that way longer than I been alive. That's what the fuck we do. Don't let her have a cute/pretty face.
 
Dude, upbringing means a lot.

I'm from the rural southeast, and that is more than likely why big, curvy, women aren't repulsive to me. I'm cool with a left-coaster from BGOL, and he definitely does not share my taste in women. Do you think that, living in an area where the standard of beauty is different, it influenced his taste in women?

Of course it did.

I have a RICH cousin, who owns a cement business in South Carolina, and his wife is a big, curvy, woman. She was that way when they met.

Wide hips, thick thighs, and big asses are glorified in my neck of the woods. Been that way longer than I been alive. That's what the fuck we do. Don't let her have a cute/pretty face.

Upbringing does have alot to do with it too.
 
Part of being rich is having things, and living a lifestyle, that will make others envious of you.

While I'm not as rich as Da Don, I do well for myself. I don't like rolling up in the mall, for instance, with bigger women, dressed the way that I dress, and driving what I drive. People expect you to have the ideal woman on your arm, and that varies from town to town, state to state, and city to city.

If I were in H-town or Atlanta, I'd gladly waltz into The Galleria or Lennox with a chick built like Miss Koi or Maliah Michelle and feel PROUD.

If I were walking around in the Beverly Center, on the other hand, I might feel a little self-conscious walking around with Maliah or Miss Koi.

Not saying that I wouldn't, but my chest wouldn't be as stuck out.

I'm human just like everyone else. I want to be admired and envied too.

So, there is no way in hell, if I'm rolling in a Bentley, I'll EVER hop out of a car with a chick built like pornstar Angie. It just doesn't work. However, deep in the night, when no one is paying attention, I got Angie big ass bent over in my crib.

More than just homosexuals live a DL lifestyle
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:lol::lol::lol:thats actually pretty funny.

Dude, upbringing means a lot.

I'm from the rural southeast, and that is more than likely why big, curvy, women aren't repulsive to me. I'm cool with a left-coaster from BGOL, and he definitely does not share my taste in women. Do you think that, living in an area where the standard of beauty is different, it influenced his taste in women?

Of course it did.

I have a RICH cousin, who owns a cement business in South Carolina, and his wife is a big, curvy, woman. She was that way when they met.

Wide hips, thick thighs, and big asses are glorified in my neck of the woods. Been that way longer than I been alive. That's what the fuck we do. Don't let her have a cute/pretty face.

i guess i can see your point there. :dunno:

up here in the midwest we got big burly bitches too, but the only niggas that fuck with them are broke or just plain old thirsty. i'm sure it's different for other parts of the country, so i get what you're saying. :cool:
 
Part of being rich is having things, and living a lifestyle, that will make others envious of you.

While I'm not as rich as Da Don, I do well for myself. I don't like rolling up in the mall, for instance, with bigger women, dressed the way that I dress, and driving what I drive. People expect you to have the ideal woman on your arm, and that varies from town to town, state to state, and city to city.

If I were in H-town or Atlanta, I'd gladly waltz into The Galleria or Lennox with a chick built like Miss Koi or Maliah Michelle and feel PROUD.

If I were walking around in the Beverly Center, on the other hand, I might feel a little self-conscious walking around with Maliah or Miss Koi.

Not saying that I wouldn't, but my chest wouldn't be as stuck out.

I'm human just like everyone else. I want to be admired and envied too.

So, there is no way in hell, if I'm rolling in a Bentley, I'll EVER hop out of a car with a chick built like pornstar Angie. It just doesn't work. However, deep in the night, when no one is paying attention, I got Angie big ass bent over in my crib.

More than just homosexuals live a DL lifestyle.

What I find funny is that folks think being with a big girl means you have low self esteem. When in fact folks that have to impress others are the one's with low self esteem period. This post is a perfect example. You are not doing what you want to do. Instead you are allowing others to determine how you live. A person with (real) confidence doesn't give a fuck with others think of their choice.
 
:lol::lol::lol:thats actually pretty funny.



i guess i can see your point there. :dunno:

up here in the midwest we got big burly bitches too, but the only niggas that fuck with them are broke or just plain old thirsty. i'm sure it's different for other parts of the country, so i get what you're saying. :cool:

Well be glad you were born up here. For all the bad shit they say about Ohio, fucking fat chicks was never in up here. Shit, in high school if you tried that shit you better make sure she went to a different school or cats was going in. :lol:

 
What I find funny is that folks think being with a big girl means you have low self esteem. When in fact folks that have to impress others are the one's with low self esteem period. This post is a perfect example. You are not doing what you want to do. Instead you are allowing others to determine how you live. A person with (real) confidence doesn't give a fuck with others think of their choice.

That sounds good...

...but very few people have the courage to TRULY be themselves. Most people conform, but to varying degrees.

However, even most non-conformists still feel a little self-conscious even if they have the courage to do their own thing.

Believe it or not, I'm a major non-conformist. Where I'm from, I've been called damn near every negative thing under the sun, mostly because I march to the beat of my own drum. For instance, both sides of my family are VERY musically inclined, and I also spent A LOT of my youth in church. As a result, even though I'm not Christian, I still like gospel music. For about two years, I was head of the young adult choir at my church. You know how many people would assume I'm a homo because of that? I am a little self-conscious when people I KNOW are clowning me see me dealing with choirs, but I don't let that shit stop me. I love music down to my core.

I can't say that I don't care what people say at all.
 
Well be glad you were born up here. For all the bad shit they say about Ohio, fucking fat chicks was never in up here. Shit, in high school if you tried that shit you better make sure she went to a different school or cats was going in. :lol:


:lol::lol::lol:real talk. we just wasn't raised that way.
 
That sounds good...

...but very few people have the courage to TRULY be themselves. Most people conform, but to varying degrees.

However, even most non-conformists still feel a little self-conscious even if they have the courage to do their own thing.

Believe it or not, I'm a major non-conformist. Where I'm from, I've been called damn near every negative thing under the sun, mostly because I march to the beat of my own drum. For instance, both sides of my family are VERY musically inclined, and I also spent A LOT of my youth in church. As a result, even though I'm not Christian, I still like gospel music. For about two years, I was head of the young adult choir at my church. You know how many people would assume I'm a homo because of that? I am a little self-conscious when people I KNOW are clowning me see me dealing with choirs, but I don't let that shit stop me. I love music down to my core.

I can't say that I don't care what people say at all.

We are humans not robots and therefore we have feelings. Yet at the end of the day who is controlling/guiding your life and the choices you make. If most (or even half) of what you do is dependent on what others think (or will think). Then you are living a sad life.
 
To the O.P lemme see some pics of what you consider "big". Everyone has different definitions of that word.

I like chubby chicks, mainly due to the fact that I like big ass titties and phat asses. Now don't get me wrong I've had smaller girls with both, but the types of chicks I get with that have the whole ass and tits combo I desire are chubby. I love that shit, them bitches can cook, clean, and like my current girl got they shit together. I like some smaller women but they usually aren't as curvy as I would like.

I like a bitch that look like Brandy Taylor basically, but black, even though White girls have gotten it too
 
To the O.P lemme see some pics of what you consider "big". Everyone has different definitions of that word.

I like chubby chicks, mainly due to the fact that I like big ass titties and phat asses. Now don't get me wrong I've had smaller girls with both, but the types of chicks I get with that have the whole ass and tits combo I desire are chubby. I love that shit, them bitches can cook, clean, and like my current girl got they shit together. I like some smaller women but they usually aren't as curvy as I would like.

I like a bitch that look like Brandy Taylor basically, but black, even though White girls have gotten it too


This chicks body type is IDEAL, for me:

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As I said, these two women are my IDEAL size. However, if they are able to maintain the proportions, I will go bigger.
 
What I find funny is that folks think being with a big girl means you have low self esteem. When in fact folks that have to impress others are the one's with low self esteem period. This post is a perfect example. You are not doing what you want to do. Instead you are allowing others to determine how you live. A person with (real) confidence doesn't give a fuck with others think of their choice.

right on :yes:

This chicks body type is IDEAL, for me:

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I was lookin for this chick to post too :yes:

I fucks wit a frame like that
 
Fuck what y'all say. I LOVEEEEEE me a girl like the one in this video.



Start at the :34 second mark. Thick body with a cute face=:inlove::inlove:

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The thread title, comments and true picture of what the thread starters friends were probably talking about is missing. I doubt they were talking about thick or thicker women with shape. They were probably talking about the women below. Most men don't desire women like this and that's just being honest. We all like thick women like Bria and Malia but true Big Girls are not what the average man desires.

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The thread title, comments and true picture of what the thread starters friends were probably talking about is missing. I doubt they were talking about thick or thicker women with shape. They were probably talking about the women below. Most men don't desire women like this and that's just being honest. We all like thick women like Bria and Malia but true Big Girls are not what the average man desires.

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yeah I cant get with the blob built ass hoes :smh:
 
yeah I cant get with the blob built ass hoes :smh:

See now that's an honest response. Even if a man likes slim/thin women he'll handle a woman who's stacked nicely. Now a straight up round woman most men won't deal with. I know Gabby/Precious is extreme but I don't know the names of many fat women! :lol:
 
it got sheit to do with low self esteem. i got a homie that stay in the gym and has a cool gig but only likes women with meat on their bones. the click would sometimes get together and mob to a dance spot and model beatches be tryin to get at him. he be all friendly and sheit but he ain't interested. been that way for years.

dude just like pretty faced chubby beatches. and if they can cook from SCRATCH? awww sheit, that nickah's in love :lol:
 
the most viewed porn thread in BGOL history is the BBW thread

so take all this BBW dissing on here with a grain of salt...

BBW are cool, but everywhere I go for the past 10 years or so, i've seen black dudes with fat white chicks.

and not even attractive fat white chicks...

but don't look now, the mexican dudes are snagging up all the homely white BBW's :lol::lol:
 
OP its like this! Its like this! Its like this! If yo chick is a size bigger than this li'l size 8-12 chick then it means its somethin' wrong witcha! Low self esteem :yes:


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^^^^^^

see that pussy is hanging quite nicely but look at that lil ass bitch, but damn look at her "hips"

poor thing wouldnt stand a chance :smh::lol:
 
it got sheit to do with low self esteem. i got a homie that stay in the gym and has a cool gig but only likes women with meat on their bones. the click would sometimes get together and mob to a dance spot and model beatches be tryin to get at him. he be all friendly and sheit but he ain't interested. been that way for years.

dude just like pretty faced chubby beatches. and if they can cook from SCRATCH? awww sheit, that nickah's in love :lol:

My maternal grandmother has four grandsons; everyone of them fuck with big women.

My brother - he gay, though - always had big women. He don't count, though. :lol: I've dated women of all shapes and sizes, but nothing turn me on more than a chubby chick with a relatively small waist, hips and ass. Give me that, and I'm set. If she's PRETTY or CUTE? Sheeeeeiiiiiiit!

Now, my two cousins? Those dudes had their PICK of women in school. In school, they dated average size women, but after graduation, they've dated the same type of chicks I have. Shit must be genetic.

My cousin and I almost got into a fight over this redbone that was about 5'0", and built like Pinky. Cute as hell too. That's the only thing I dislike about my taste in women: my thirsty cousins have the same taste that I do. Shit is just a recipe for disaster at some point.
 
it got sheit to do with low self esteem. i got a homie that stay in the gym and has a cool gig but only likes women with meat on their bones. the click would sometimes get together and mob to a dance spot and model beatches be tryin to get at him. he be all friendly and sheit but he ain't interested. been that way for years.

dude just like pretty faced chubby beatches. and if they can cook from SCRATCH? awww sheit, that nickah's in love :lol:

Nigga just described me...lol. I like your homeboys taste in women.
 
I've ALWAYS been attracted to thicker girls and big girls. Fuck I could care less what niggas think. I'm only trying to keep my dick happy at the end of the day.

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BGOL has too many niccas like these. Too many negros, worried about what another dude is fucking....
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I've ALWAYS been attracted to thicker girls and big girls. Fuck I could care less what niggas think. I'm only trying to keep my dick happy at the end of the day.

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BGOL has too many niccas like these. Too many negros, worried about what another dude is fucking....
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You too?

Then you're in the right city. Nobody is seeing Houston in this department.
 
I think it depends more on were you are from and the older cats that you grew up looking up too. I grew up in the south were it seems our version of fine is considerd fat every where else in America:lol:. When I left home at 18 the cats that I became freinds with was all from New York and the west coast. I would be passing up bitches that look like Lacey Duvall to fuck with hoes like Bootylicious and Crystal clear and them niggas would roast the shit out of me :lol:. Then when I started getting hoes that was what they called fine I would end up jacking off thinking about the Big Fyne bitch in the cat suit I saw at the club. Now im older I fuck what I like I know what make my dick happy. The only time I rock the lil skinny fine bitches is to make baby momma jeleaous and to attract other big fyne bitches.:lol:
 
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