Under a patriarchy. But seeing that the black community is a matriarchy and black women subscribe to it....and thus making them the leaders regardless of who she should be....the logic should be the fault rests on the leader. Which would be women in the black community most of the times seeing we are in a matriarchy.
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Under a patriarchy. But seeing that the black community is a matriarchy and black women subscribe to it....and thus making them the leaders regardless of who she should be....the logic should be the fault rests on the leader. Which would be women in the black community most of the times seeing we are in a matriarchy.
You bohemian-ass nigga
I peep game though.... women love hearing shit like that. You must be a magnet for them earthy bitches.
Married one. 
Right. She holds men to a certain standard based on the kind of man her husband was. The leadership thing is huge. I've seen her and other women say that if a huy is a leader and shows initiative and that he can and will hold it down for himself, his woman, family, and community, he is a man. Anything less than that is considered a male (just some dude). As we all know, there is a difference between men and males/boys. Men hold shit down no matter what. We're supposed to do that. Women recognize men and respect them. No matter who that woman is, and how she lives her life, when she is in the presence of a real man, she will recognize and respect him as such. When it comes to relationships a woman with a (real) man will follow him to the end of the Earth. So, while we might not agree with every single example LI or any other woman may choose to illustrate their points, it's important to understand that as men, if we lead properly everything else will fall in line (e.g. our women). Women seek that in us. When they have it, they know it and will do ANYTHING their man asks or demands. She'll gladly do it because she knows that the man she is with is worthy of it and that he commands it by his actions more than his words. It's the males/boys who have a tough time with the chicks. Not the real dudes...
Because none of what you posted here is logical. People are people. Men fuck up and so do women. Blame doesn't fall squarely on the man, for the sake of him being a man. And anybody who believes this shit your wrote above is beyond a nut case.
It's good that you don't, people would think you were crazy as well.
A man that allowed his wife to sleep with other women in front of him is the standard for the rest of us men? Ummm...okay.....
I really don't have any skin in the game with this, but I will continue to keep advocating that females on BGOL be SEEN more and HEARD FROM less.
The opinions above are typical of the defensive, condescending replies from females when they are know someone just read their simple asses. If you can't have a logical debate w/o getting emotional, then STFU.
Niggas...if they ain't showin' shit, PLEASE stop caping this attention whores! They need to be run off the board.
If I want the opinion of some no-name female who trolls men's forums cause they can't get men (or quality men) in their offline lives, I'll give it to her.
-CTF
u got it backwards sweetie
women arent going to show SHIT in a hostile environment...why would a woman post a tittay pic or ass shot if she knew the men would shit on her
sol had a contest awhile back...prizes and everything...each week had a theme....tits...legs...feet...that shit lasted 2.5 seconds...why? cause the boys would go in there and be assholes
and quaid put the last nail in the coffin....i know yall thought that shit was funny...and it was id admit...but now every woman who posts on here got in the back of her head that you niggas are gonna turn a part of her body into some super internet character and make tshirts and shit
I really don't have any skin in the game with this, but I will continue to keep advocating that females on BGOL be SEEN more and HEARD FROM less.
The opinions above are typical of the defensive, condescending replies from females when they are know someone just read their simple asses. If you can't have a logical debate w/o getting emotional, then STFU.
Niggas...if they ain't showin' shit, PLEASE stop caping this attention whores! They need to be run off the board.
If I want the opinion of some no-name female who trolls men's forums cause they can't get men (or quality men) in their offline lives, I'll give it to her.
-CTF
Well Said!!!
A man that allowed his wife to sleep with other women in front of him is the standard for the rest of us men? Ummm...okay.....
That's the only part of what I said you wanted to comment on huh?
Come on man, you are better than that. You know that we are supposed to be the head of our households and communities. You also know that if we do what we're supposed to there is nothing to stop us. Whatever happened in LI's bedroom is what it is, but the fact remains that as men we're held to a different standard. And to speak to the point you made, for most cats, having sex with multiple women, and/or watching lesbian action is something they seek. Think about how many girl/girl scenes we watch. Put Roxy Reynolds, Nyomi Banxxx, Skin Diamond or Millian Blu together on some lez shit and majority of BGOL will watch that shit. So, if that chick's husband got to see and/or participate in sexual activity with more than one woman at a time, is he really "losing"? 
Maybe that's why she and I get along. I don't give a shit what the "Black community" does, in my house with my Black wife, it's a clear patriarchy. If we focused more on our own homes and less on other people, a lot of the confusion would go away in our relationships.
A man that allowed his wife to sleep with other women in front of him is the standard for the rest of us men? Ummm...okay.....
Well, in a marriage between two people, if they decide to allow third parties and everyone's okay about it, that's a good thing. I do seem to remember that it was the two of them that had a second woman, not just her but she can correct me if I'm wrong.
That's the only part of what I said you wanted to comment on huh?
Really.
That's the problem,she always say people are responsible for their actions but when it comes to women they have no responsibility at all, according to her .....A woman can kill 5 people and some how she will try to spin it by saying that woman never had a father in her life or some other nonsense...
People,especially grown men can't tell women what to do because these same women that say he's trying to control them and all this bullshit but she will switch it around by saying that woman never had a man as a leader...She wants it both ways when it comes to men and women..If the father disciplines his kids she will say he is a bad father and if the father isnt there he's a bad father.
Just last week,a mother beat her son with cable cords just because the son made a facebook page this is her response:
This is totally the opposite what she said when the guy who discipline his daughter for receiving sex messages from some boy, a few months back...
When the father was disciplining his daughter all you read was he was a bad father and should take responsibility....
Like I said,I have no beef with LI but its ridiculous that she will go out her way just to throw men under the bus but co-sign women's stupidity....
That's the problem these women want to act like men but never the responsibility of being the man....
Who said, I have a problem with that? I believe that 100%. But I believe that I don't believe women are children. And I don't treat them as such. I lead my household and take care of my family. But if my wife acts up, and does something outrageous, I'm not responsible for her actions - that's the same stupid ass logic she was spitting on so many other posts. If a chick fucks up and kills her kids, the man is somehow responsible for her actions? If a father catches his daughter sexting on her cell phone, somehow the father is at fault and the (according to her might be molesting the daughter)?
WE? Who the hell is we? I don't watch gay porn, in fact I don't really watch that much porn at all anymore as I've gotten older and a lot busier.
if that chick's husband got to see and/or participate in sexual activity with more than one woman at a time, is he really "losing"?
I wouldn't let that shit in my house. The idea of me fucking some chick in front of my wife ain't the type of shit I'd wish on her and that would severely change the make up of our marriage.
Who said, I have a problem with that? I beleive that 100%. But I believe that I don't believe women are children. And I don't treat them as such. I lead my household and take care of my family. But if my wife acts up, and does something outrageous, I'm not responsible for her actions (unless I had something directly to do with it, if not then shit lies on her)....
WE? Who the hell is we? I don't watch gay porn, in fact I don't really watch that much porn at all anymore as I've gotten older and a lot busier.
I wouldn't let that shit in my house. But that's just me. The idea of me fucking some chick in front of my wife ain't the type of shit I'd wish on her.
Aight playboy, I can respect that. If you are the leader of your house, that's what's up. You're doing what you're supposed to. Keep holding it down, and keep handling your biz as you see fit. That's all anyone can ask...I think the main point I was making, and the point LI makes in her posts about that is that the leader is always the first person who is looked at no matter what the team does. If the team wins, you get the props for leading them to victory. If they lose, it's your fault. And if a teammate goes out and gets a DUI at 4 in the morning, people look to you to straighten him out. That's the weight of being in the lead. There is responsibility involved with it, and no matter what happens, people ask who's in charge, or who is leading. So, the boss, leader, team captain, etc. is held to a different standard right or wrong. People expect them to set the example, and the standards that everyone goes with.
*sips nonexistant coffee
*raises eyebrow
What do we have here?...
*reads
*reads some more
*reads a liiiiiitle bit more
*puts down nasty ass coffee
Some of ya'll got problems. For real. You say women here should not be heard but yet you do realize that if we were all gone it would be the equivalent to a circle jerk.
With that one dude that stare a little too hard.
Sideshow that wasn't me. If the board hadn't been reset there was a pic of me here but now all you gonna get is hair shots in the natural hair thread on the SOL side
Either you get LI or you don't. You don't have to agree with everybody, dang. At least she woman enough to apologize when need be...
OP :
*blushes*
Maybe one day...
...long live Xat!
(You dudes have no idea how many good looking, intelligent women ya'll have discouraged on this board. And doing it again to Desire... )
*raises eyebrow
What do we have here?...
*reads
*reads some more
*reads a liiiiiitle bit more
*puts down nasty ass coffee
Some of ya'll got problems. For real. You say women here should not be heard but yet you do realize that if we were all gone it would be the equivalent to a circle jerk.
With that one dude that stare a little too hard.
Sideshow that wasn't me. If the board hadn't been reset there was a pic of me here but now all you gonna get is hair shots in the natural hair thread on the SOL side
Either you get LI or you don't. You don't have to agree with everybody, dang. At least she woman enough to apologize when need be...
OP :
*blushes*
Maybe one day...
...long live Xat!
(You dudes have no idea how many good looking, intelligent women ya'll have discouraged on this board. And doing it again to Desire...
)Not to mention her well documented hatered for men. Saaying once to jd walker (a guy that clearly hates bw) I feel the same way about men as you feel about black women.
What happend t tat theard "y'all ran followup off to". That described her well. The female at the mans bar looking for attention. She hates (excuse me feels the same way but men as jd walker feels about black women) but keeps coming back. . . .
What is a dyke with multiple kids doing coming back to a board like this....it feels. Some kind of void for her
What happend t tat theard "y'all ran followup off to". That described her well. The female at the mans bar looking for attention. She hates (excuse me feels the same way but men as jd walker feels about black women) but keeps coming back. . . .
What is a dyke with multiple kids doing coming back to a board like this....it feels. Some kind of void for her
No telling what se thinks she contradicts herself so often. It's like this. If we all know the black community is a matriarchy. Which means women are in control/leaders. And we all agree the leader gets the blame if shit goes good or bad.
Then why hold men accountable? Not all bw/bm relationships are femae headed. But since a lot are, why do we constantly hear this dyke blame bm when for all she knows he could be the matriarchal type?
Why blame tyrone when it's a good possibility he comes from a matriarchy?
*sips nonexistant coffee
*raises eyebrow
What do we have here?...
*reads
*reads some more
*reads a liiiiiitle bit more
*puts down nasty ass coffee
Some of ya'll got problems. For real. You say women here should not be heard but yet you do realize that if we were all gone it would be the equivalent to a circle jerk.
With that one dude that stare a little too hard.
Sideshow that wasn't me. If the board hadn't been reset there was a pic of me here but now all you gonna get is hair shots in the natural hair thread on the SOL side
Either you get LI or you don't. You don't have to agree with everybody, dang. At least she woman enough to apologize when need be...
OP :
*blushes*
Maybe one day...
...long live Xat!
(You dudes have no idea how many good looking, intelligent women ya'll have discouraged on this board. And doing it again to Desire...
To add to this...the wife should always speak to her husband and not cheat. I don't like cheating. I think it's dishonorable. Cowardly. I don't care HOW exactly it came about. Ultimately....i say don't do it. I say if he's being a jerk ass to you? Leave. If he's neglecting you? Leave. That's my real solution. Leave.
Don't cheat because it degrades YOU.
Now the child misbehaving? Yes this is the father's main stay. My job as a mother is to nurture. Maintain the home.
To care for. To grow. My husbands job is to instruct. Teach. Discipline. Instill values.
So when there is a child who's sexting boys? That comes from the father not instilling values of that childs worth to her. I teach her how to be a lady. But he shows her what a lady should expect.
So when a child is sexting at 12? And the father makes a spectacle of himself? And then lets it be filmed and put out for the world to see? No he doesn't get props from me. My husband would never do that, because 1....he showed young females how ladies are supposed to be treated and how they're supposed to be spoken too.
So what that guy was doing? WASN'T discipline. It was him acting out his frustations at himself for not showing her how to be a young lady from the get go. He realized he'd fucked up and instead of taking it out on himself and figuring out how to best rectify this situation like an adult? He behaved like a child.
So no, no props. I've seen girls like her my whole life. And they all have 1 thing in common, lack of paternal guidance. If you're sexting at 12? That dad has done some things wrong.
Smashing up a phone isn't going to fix the damage.
Im not expecting her to agree with every single guy on here but she constantly blames men for shit that women does it makes no sense...
Their was an article around March or April about a woman who drowned herself and her kids(One got away)....Instead of blaming the mom for doing a despicable act on those kids she comes in that thread and blames the father....Me,Dray and a fews other was like...........WTF....
Another example their was a story on here where a guy was disciplining his daughter because she got a sex message from some boy on her phone instead of saying he did the right thing she goes on to say he's a bad father....Again me,Dray and a few others was like
She always throws little jabs at black men every chance she gets and nobody calls her out for it because she's a woman....I have no beef with her but its ridiculous that she always blame men for every single thing even if the woman is at fault....
I've always told her I would never co-sign a man's stupidity but she seems to stick up for women no matter how fucked up they are...
Like I said Im not expecting her to agree with every guy on here but to go out of her way and derail every single thread is ridiculous.......The only time,she's reasonable is when shes in my Naruto thread in the Comic section.........Me and her have our disagreements in my thread but she seems alot more reasonable than she's in the main forum which I dont understand that at all...
CO FUCKING SIGN.
I hate enabling ass niggas and bitches. When the fuck are women ever held
accountable? I dont care what kinda nigga ya man was, or What u think a "REAL
MAN" is supposed to be according to your sick sense of man-hating misandry,
GROWN ASS WOMANS actions AINT no niggas fault. ALSO, actions of children cant
all fall on daddy when MOM spends MORE TIME than daddy with the kids.
Watching over ones children is the job of BOTH PARENTS and BOTH are
responsible. Niggas aint SUPER MEN. stop with the Tyler Perry, Oprah Winfrey, Steve Harvey BULLSHIT.
Interesting and mostly civil thread, I dig it.
is grown ass niggas really fantasizin' & gettin' aroused by bitches they ain't never gonna meet...off the strength of the words on the screen? Wow.
niggas fantasize and get aroused by bitches they ain't never gonna meet... Off the strength of pics and videos. Who gives a shit?
I guess one is entitled to their own opinion on certain views and people.
The capes just came out in this thread.
Ironically, according to one of her posts a while back , she wont even give you the time of day in real life if you said hello, she'll just walk past you
qft
Now, apply all that shit you said to the mother who beat her son over creating a Facebook page. You won't will you?
*snip*
(You dudes have no idea how many good looking, intelligent women ya'll have discouraged on this board. And doing it again to Desire...
Okay I never had any issues with you but besides the Quaid thing, what makes women think they should be treated any differently on here than the guys?
And what is it that ANYONE is doing to Desire?
Am I missing stuff?
Ya'll saying that we shouldnt always expect women to agree with us on here but ya'll expect us to always agree with you or something?
Maybe im reading things wrong.
This is true.
The women on Bgol are starting to come off as wanting to just say whatever they want and get no negative feedback.
I dont see why any of them are playing victim.
Or...i could say what i think about that sort of thing. Which...i did. In that thread.
That's your belief. You don't care about the community. I do. But you understand how marriage works. You understand your place in it. Your wife understands hers. These other trolls? Don't. They can't comprehend how a marirage is SUPPOSED to go. And how a successful 1 maintains it's longevity.
Where is the 8 paragraph condeming the mother for te childs responsibility? Changing the subject to what you didn't say didn't work. If that's what you think then it's hypocritical.
This is true.
The women on Bgol are starting to come off as wanting to just say whatever they want and get no negative feedback.
I dont see why any of them are playing victim.
Let me say this. I personally expect the treatment i get. I expect much worse. I didn't make this thread. I never told anyone to make this thread. I really believe everyone should be treated the same. If you're rude and crude to everyone, well......i see no reason why i shouldn't be getting the same treatment. Because i'm a woman i don't expect any different treatment.
I've said in another post, i LIKE reading what you guys say. I like it. I like seeing the views expressed. I like seeing how this cosm of males thinks. I like seeing the differences of opinions expressed. I like how i can say something and you see who responds to what i say and where they come from.
Melon was saying you guys's brutality to females would run alot of them off. Alot of females aren't accustomed to certain types of treatment. You guys make fun of how other GUYS look.
This is the internet. We can be as BRUTAL, AND UNMERCILESSLY HONEST HERE. As we want. We can call people names, and just completely try to destory someones self as we perceive it.
So no, i don't expect to be treated differently. I'd never run to HNIC and say awww the mean boys r pickin on me! But i do understand what Melo was saying too.
There u have it. She just admitted to being a troll.
Is this not what a troll does? Needs to get a life, I gurantee any female poster on here doesn't give a fuck about what bgol members think. Apparently she does.
c/s You'll get no disagreement from me here
Question: can't a mother instill those in a child as well? My mother was my teacher along side my father.
Then i'm hypocritical. I'll be whatever you want me to be. Everything you say about me, everything you think you know about me? Isn't going to change who i am, or what i think, 1 iota. Those who know me? And have understood what i say and think? Do. And i give them the SAME courtesy.
There are some men i respect pretty well on this board. Some of them know it. Some of them don't. We seem to have mutual understandings. We can disagree like adults.
And there are those of you who have shown you are incapable of doing this.
Drayonis said i hurt his feelings. I honestly didn't mean to. I honestly did not intend too. That's not my goal on this planet. So i apologized.
For you to follow me around threads like you do. And for you to always try to attack me like you do. I must have done something to hurt your feelings. I apologize for that. I will keep all responses and my thoughts about you to myself from this point forward.
Gouki? I like Gouki. I have a small crush on him. And i do not understand why he never sees anything else i may write. He will rehash the same thing over and over and over. And i will correct him on what i said over and over and over. And he'll still, he will STILL only believe what he wants to believe.
Other people have explained to gouki exactly what i meant. And he never gets it.
I don't know what i did to him. But if i've hurt your feelings Gouki. I truly and sincerely apologize. Not what i'm here to do.
I'm feeling VERY good tonight. VERY VERY VERY GOOD!!!
And Well wishes to ALL of you! And just i hope you all are like mentally OK! And i hope everyone can feel GOOD! Cuz i feel good.
I have had very very very good news. And it's ALL to the GOOD!
lol Anyone else who has a problem with me? Fuck ya. Whatchagonnado?
Then i'm hypocritical. I'll be whatever you want me to be. Everything you say about me, everything you think you know about me? Isn't going to change who i am, or what i think, 1 iota. Those who know me? And have understood what i say and think? Do. And i give them the SAME courtesy.
There are some men i respect pretty well on this board. Some of them know it. Some of them don't. We seem to have mutual understandings. We can disagree like adults.
And there are those of you who have shown you are incapable of doing this.
Drayonis said i hurt his feelings. I honestly didn't mean to. I honestly did not intend too. That's not my goal on this planet. So i apologized.
For you to follow me around threads like you do. And for you to always try to attack me like you do. I must have done something to hurt your feelings. I apologize for that. I will keep all responses and my thoughts about you to myself from this point forward.
Gouki? I like Gouki. I have a small crush on him. And i do not understand why he never sees anything else i may write. He will rehash the same thing over and over and over. And i will correct him on what i said over and over and over. And he'll still, he will STILL only believe what he wants to believe.
Other people have explained to gouki exactly what i meant. And he never gets it.
I don't know what i did to him. But if i've hurt your feelings Gouki. I truly and sincerely apologize. Not what i'm here to do.
I'm feeling VERY good tonight. VERY VERY VERY GOOD!!!
And Well wishes to ALL of you! And just i hope you all are like mentally OK! And i hope everyone can feel GOOD! Cuz i feel good.
I have had very very very good news. And it's ALL to the GOOD!
lol Anyone else who has a problem with me? Fuck ya. Whatchagonnado?
Then i'm hypocritical. I'll be whatever you want me to be. Everything you say about me, everything you think you know about me? Isn't going to change who i am, or what i think, 1 iota. Those who know me? And have understood what i say and think? Do. And i give them the SAME courtesy.
There are some men i respect pretty well on this board. Some of them know it. Some of them don't. We seem to have mutual understandings. We can disagree like adults.
And there are those of you who have shown you are incapable of doing this.
Drayonis said i hurt his feelings. I honestly didn't mean to. I honestly did not intend too. That's not my goal on this planet. So i apologized.
For you to follow me around threads like you do. And for you to always try to attack me like you do. I must have done something to hurt your feelings. I apologize for that. I will keep all responses and my thoughts about you to myself from this point forward.
Gouki? I like Gouki. I have a small crush on him. And i do not understand why he never sees anything else i may write. He will rehash the same thing over and over and over. And i will correct him on what i said over and over and over. And he'll still, he will STILL only believe what he wants to believe.
Other people have explained to gouki exactly what i meant. And he never gets it.
I don't know what i did to him. But if i've hurt your feelings Gouki. I truly and sincerely apologize. Not what i'm here to do.
I'm feeling VERY good tonight. VERY VERY VERY GOOD!!!
And Well wishes to ALL of you! And just i hope you all are like mentally OK! And i hope everyone can feel GOOD! Cuz i feel good.
I have had very very very good news. And it's ALL to the GOOD!
lol Anyone else who has a problem with me? Fuck ya. Whatchagonnado?
That's fucked up cuz I'm over here sad depressed with welts and stressing. Trying to act innocent in this thread lol.... bitch please.
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