BGOL: Ever been in Love???

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Ever been in love bgol? How was your experience? Did you do things you would have never done? Did you get hurt or did you hurt her at any point?
 
I wonder if this question can be answered honestly w/o the little boys coming in.

we never really hear men talk about this shit,im under the impression that most men are used to people not caring or wondering unless it serves some woman. asking for a mans view via his experience is almost taboo
 
Once you figure out which is which (love/lust), it's cool. Btw, just like parenting, there will be some pain. It ain't all lollipops and blow jobs, and it ain't for the lazy. It's a package deal. Stepped in it twice. The first time, emotionally, that bitch put my ass in the rear naked choke, and made me tap the fuck out! The 2nd time? Well, we're 22 years in, so it's too early to call.;)
 
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Yes, and I hope I never get infected with love again. Also, love or not, always keep an "ace" up your sleeve (unless your married or engaged).
 
what do you mean? please elaborate about the "Serum"

Dopamine
Scientists are finding that, after all, love really is down to a chemical addiction between people
If serotonin is the Zen-master among neurotransmitter, dopamine is Pollyanna, responsible for the highs of infatuation, new love, joy, self-confidence, and motivation. But like all roller-coaster rides, dopamine highs have their dangers

http://www.psychologytoday.com/articles/200909/the-plunge-pleasure
 
Twice, first was my first girl that broke me off in high school. She looked like Lark Voorhies and could work it like a porn star. Unfortunately she was sleeping with several dudes while we was going together. I wasted my whole senior year with that freak.
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I'm proud to say that I'm in love with my current girlfriend. We started off as friends for years and started dating a few years ago.
 
Real love is a verb so you cant be "in" it despite what popular culture says. I have been infatuated with a woman when I was younger but did not love her. As a man I know how to perform acts of love and not only am I a better man because I know the difference, but my wife is a better woman because we know the difference. People should learn to love better each day. Wouldn't be so many divorces.
 
yes, because the 1st woman that comes to mind is my mother (unconditional love),,, now have i really cared about a woman, looked out for her, treated her with respect & we had great sex? all the time,,,, have i ever been so hooked on a woman that it was hard to get her out of my system? absolutely,,, was any of that true love? i don't know,,,
 
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I don't carrre what people say..
as long as you and meeee ok cuz

i never been in lovvve beforrrre.

All of this is newww to me
as this ain't what i'm ussssed to see'in
cuz i never been in lovvvve beforrrrre
 
I have once, I think. We were together for 4 years. Took 2-3 years before I said I love you. But even then I was still being a dog, fucking other women.

When it was time to leave her, I distanced myself, let her know and never looked back. I don't think I understand love completely. I never go through the "heartaches and pains" of missing her or any girl. I just apply logic and accept the circumstance then move on.

I guess I was in love or just going along with what I should be saying.
 
Nope. Too difficult for me to let myself get vulnerable for most chicks. I've had a strong sense of like but never what most folks describe it as. I realize I'm rather old to not have but I don't know what to say. It's like me not going to prom...hasn't mattered yet.
 
Once in High School. She was 2 years behind me.

When I left for college I asked her if she wanted to remove the title so she wouldn't feel guilty for having a "friend" and she goes ":crying: nooooooo"


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I come home for Thanksgiving and find out she has a new boo.
I'm like damn you'd rather cheat than have a clear conscience??


Shit fucked me up a little.



 


Yep.

Nothing like being in love with the one you want. Makes you feel like you're on cloud 9 24/7 365:yes:

 
Met a girl back in november. Had our up and downs and today she tells me she may have to move to the East Coast. I have not let anybody this close to me in a long time. So I feel ya!
 
Once in High School. She was 2 years behind me...


wow,,, almost my exact situation except i was still in high school & she was 2 years older going off to college,,, she cried the day she left & didn't want to break up,,, fast forward to xmas break,,, she calls me to come over & hit it,,, we are in her room & i notice a framed picture of her & her new boo hugged up,,, not sure if she did that intentionally, or just forgot to put the pic away,,, that was some foul shit tho :lol:,,, those were the days tho,,, wouldn't trade em for anything
 
wow,,, almost my exact situation except i was still in high school & she was 2 years older going off to college,,, she cried the day she left & didn't want to break up,,, fast forward to xmas break,,, she calls me to come over & hit it,,, we are in her room & i notice a framed picture of her & her new boo hugged up,,, not sure if she did that intentionally, or just forgot to put the pic away,,, that was some foul shit tho :lol:,,, those were the days tho,,, wouldn't trade em for anything

Yea man. I look back on all of those moments (good and bad) with pure fondness.



 
I thought I was, but after a couple experiences, I realized that I'm just more of a lust and infatuation kind of guy. My relationships don't last long.
 
Ive been blessed to have had 4 women that I can honestly say I loved and they loved back. 1 I messed up big time with. 2 I walked away from and the last that I married. 10 years and counting. Having been w the Mrs for so long I now question the previous 2 as being true love. I walked away for a reason....
 
3 times...

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Ever been in love bgol? How was your experience? Did you do things you would have never done? Did you get hurt or did you hurt her at any point?

Yes. That love inspired my motto "It's a cruel world. I'm just trying to fit in."
 
Yes, twice.

First, girl is great... I still love her and we are TRYING to see eye to eye. We met back in 05... Was together a couple years and she was in college. Had our ups and downs... Our periods of no contact. We ALWAYS end up back talking and helping each other. We've been visiting each other on and off... Having sex all the way up until...

Second, girl tricked me. THOUGHT "WE" were in love... There was even times she cried for me NOT to leave her. All this went down hill out of no where... Bitch feelings just changed after she got pregnant. Started doing crazy shit... Lied on me... You've all heard this story on BGOL. Dirty bitch. :smh:

My first is still in the picture... I'm determined to show her that I'm ready. I know this is going to be wifey... And I'm going to do right. I don't give a fuck about the rest of these bitches. I'm a grown man. Learned my lessons and have came to my senses. If she hurts me... Oh well. Back to the playground. :dance:
 
but how to you separate lust from love...I don't think i have ever had a true love that I was both physically and mentally attracted too....there can be love without any physical attraction.?
 
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