Mo you keep talking about for you...and these women keep telling you what they see. There are several guys saying the same thing.
ya'll kill me on this board thinking that how you think...and what YOU may be...is the majority.
Black men in GENERAL. Like women with big butts.
3 women(now 4) have told you that this is what we see. My story is JUST like honeydips. My wife is my husbands physical body type. Body wise? She's inbetween Buffy and Serena. She's chocolate, thin waisted, big huge booty. Out in public? Black dudes break their necks trying to peek at her when she walks by. I've seen them do hair slitting precision turns to spin around to get at her.
2 out of the 4 guys in this thread said they agree with what was said.
And Mo another thing you're a fitness nut. How many black men do you see around you like that? My husband wasn't, none of the men i know currently are. They all prefer soft looking women. That's how i call them. They're not all cut and lean and what we call skinny. They like women like me, my wives. Women who are voluptuous. Curvy frames.
When i was in africa, curvy women? Just fawned over. When i was in South America? Same thing.
I think you're just in the minority on stuff bro-ham.
LI, what I'm talking about is women who now are purposely (so they say) putting on weight to gain attention. I'm talking about women who are going out of their way to put themselves into bad health just to get a man who may or may not stay with them anyway. I knew a woman who did this, she put the weight on and got a man, who left her a year later.
I'm not saying I don't like big butts believe me I do, so don't get this twisted. This subject is bigger than my personal likes or dislikes.
There exist another group of women who I see daily at the gym. They fall into one category, they are all obese, some grossly. They've tried to lose the weight but failed. They tried dieting but just can't get the weight off. They lack the energy and the will power and focus to succeed. Exercise is no fun when you have to do it. Neither is dieting. The weight is easy to put on but difficult to get rid of. So where's the next stop? Obesity? Diabetes?
Obesity leads to HBP (High Blood Pressure) and diabetes, neither is a joke. These diseases lead to all kinds of other health issues like heart disease, kidney failure, blindness and even death.
The problem with getting that big butt is it usually comes with a big gut. I don't want my woman to have a big butt not if it means a big gut.
Fortunately I see more fit women making the effort to stay fit rather than those who feel the need to plump up to get a man. These women don't rep the entire black women population while those looking to increase their size don't rep all black women either. The gym is packed everyday with women trying to either maintain or lose weight. I salute them all.
As for us black men yes we want curvy soft women but that doesn't mean we don't want our women in shape. Trust me we do.
back into reality. 
but I don't like little flat backs either. 
