Fellas: Did Your Pops Talk To You About Infidelity?
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He aint speak on it, but he did it. I undesrtand now that I'm grown, but it was a problem when I was a kid.
I dont want my kid to be affected by it, so I try not to do it.
yup
i was 13. said you're young now and you're starting to feel mannish which is ok. after you get your first little piece of pussy don't fall in love and at the same time don't commit to any woman unless you really mean it. women are crazy and if you wrong them they'll fuck you up in some way or another. you're too young for all of that commitment shit. when you become a man fuck until you find one that you want and once you pick her stick with her (marry). if you feel the urge to fuck other chicks, just go fuck her. if you ever find yourself fucking someone that isn't her...then reevaluate your relationship cause she might not be what you need..
i was 13. said you're young now and you're starting to feel mannish which is ok. after you get your first little piece of pussy don't fall in love and at the same time don't commit to any woman unless you really mean it. women are crazy and if you wrong them they'll fuck you up in some way or another. you're too young for all of that commitment shit. when you become a man fuck until you find one that you want and once you pick her stick with her (marry). if you feel the urge to fuck other chicks, just go fuck her. if you ever find yourself fucking someone that isn't her...then reevaluate your relationship cause she might not be what you need..
My pops will never speak about it w/ me...but I'm pretty sure he stepped out a couple times. Honestly, I try not to think about the shit as best I can...pops is just a man, not Superman, and I've witnessed my mama nag the shit outta hit more than once.
Boy, who you tellin
Damn...
Wished my pops would have broken it down to me like that at that age.
Wished my pops would have broken it down to me like that at that age.
That's real game
Boy, who you tellin
I'm like this...my pops grew up in the projects in the '60s and was able to make it out and make something of himself. We always had food on the table, the lights were never cut off, and I never wanted for anything as a kid. That man handled his business, and if in the course of doing that he stepped out, I'm not really trippin.
Now that's real shit...I can tell u and your pops had/have a good relationship
Damn... I swear is seems like 2 ONE 3 got a picture of you and your pops having that conversation Deacs!
I never really caught on to chicks hitting on my pops until I got older.
When I think back & see how these chicks would look at him and cheese all in his face then have the nerve to pinch my cheeks, kinda fucked with me.
When I think back & see how these chicks would look at him and cheese all in his face then have the nerve to pinch my cheeks, kinda fucked with me.
didnt really have a relationship with my pops til my teens thats when i first started coming to ATL during the summers.......Man i figured out why him and my mom aint stay together my dad is a dog that nigga old as hell still be pulling young hoes in his caddy and he always promoted me to be a slut jr. We go to the club and he pull more hoes then me! He would put me on to so many bitches special the Ethiopian and Nigerian bitches on Memorial Drive thats that niggaz stomping grounds. Nigga just a savage he promoted cheating saying you only live once fuck as much as you can. Funny thing is he loves the girl im with now and always tell me that she is a keeper and i should do right by her............i told that nigga if he try anything with my girl ill fucking kill him
true story
true story
Yeah the first time I saw a grown pussy I was six looking up the skirt of a puerto rican bitch hitting on my pops.
First of all I love my mother because she birthed me,but she is crazy and not a good person.She is irresponsible, an alcoholic, and a weedhead.As a child, I always wondered how my dad could deal with her.She kind of "ran" the household and it seemed like my dad was afraid of her.Growing up,I really had some resentment with my dad because I felt that him being the man, it was up to him to insert discipline in my mom who was destroying herself and the family.As I got older, I forgave him and we got closer.
As we got closer, we started to talk alot more openly. I remember as a kid, my mom chased my dad into a bathroom with a knife screaming at him for cheating on her. We were kids,but she was so hurt she told us that she found a dildo and a letter to another chick(true story).A few months ago, me and my dad had an open talk.He wanted to get shit off his chest.He told me that as a kid,he was thinking of leaving my mom for another woman.Evidently he was cheating with this woman for months.Even talked to a divorce attorney about the ramifications.This woman had a kid and he brought me over to the woman's house to see how I got along with the kid.This convo was long as hell and really didnt have a "point" at the end.I think he just wanted to get it off his chest.
As we got closer, we started to talk alot more openly. I remember as a kid, my mom chased my dad into a bathroom with a knife screaming at him for cheating on her. We were kids,but she was so hurt she told us that she found a dildo and a letter to another chick(true story).A few months ago, me and my dad had an open talk.He wanted to get shit off his chest.He told me that as a kid,he was thinking of leaving my mom for another woman.Evidently he was cheating with this woman for months.Even talked to a divorce attorney about the ramifications.This woman had a kid and he brought me over to the woman's house to see how I got along with the kid.This convo was long as hell and really didnt have a "point" at the end.I think he just wanted to get it off his chest.
words to live by cause i really had no idea what was going on. i was finger banging chicks and thinking i was doing something. and i was calling them my girlfriend and shit. he cut that out. he always said don't be mean be real. its never mean if you're being real and women whether they admit it immediately or come back later will respect it always.
that's never failed me.
im gonna do exactly what he did and say it how he said it too cause i didn't even know what to really ask or how to even talk about it and he said it straight up so i didn't even have time to be awkward just listen and take heed. drove me past dope houses to show me the difference and tell me to stay away from em, took me to where the prostitutes were and said to leave these women alone they'll get you arrested and they'll be out while you're in jail.
just the little things like that kept me from being game goofy. so i always avoided it BUT i wasn't a mark.. you couldn't run game on me, i just wanted no part of it cause of what i was told about it
good man
Damn... I swear is seems like 2 ONE 3 got a picture of you and your pops having that conversation Deacs!
Close enough, it was in a 1982 buick regal on nostrand ave and president ave...
all of our conversations were in a vehicle without witnesses, also so he could do his pick ups as well. He taught me principles or rules while my mom and second pop forced religion on me... so the car and condo was his way of cleaning out their garbage...
POPS......WHATS THAT ?
my dad coached me in baseball
so it was me and him
and then all the mothers bringing their sons to practice
i do remember my mother having a talk with one of the women before the game..about what i do not know. all i know is her son went to another team
but it was unavoidable to be honest with you. me and him did everything together so i was ALWAYS with him at the store, fishing, playing hookie to go to an a's game, you name it we were there... so i've seen it more than a few times. he never really paid them any mind in my presence though
Mos Def...
I would love to follow his motto in raising my boys if I'm blessed to have some.
I would love to follow his motto in raising my boys if I'm blessed to have some.
Yo....
im so serious bruh.....like this nigga be borderline flirting with my girl. I told him in a laughing/joking kinda way to chill out but then i really had to pull this nigga into the room and tell that nigga fallback
He apologized and of all things this nigga ask me what her mom looked like..........Im like come on dude are you serious. My girl and her mom look damn near like twins only thing different is there cup size he seen a pic of her on FB and this nigga was right back to his old tricks. My brother was like you better watch the old man he trying to make you and your girl brother n sisters
Only thing i ever learned from my pops was how to treat women like shit. We never talked about Infidelity because in my pops eyes one pussy hole was never enough. I believe a young man should play the field but do it tactfully like when i was younger and in the military i told women str8 up that i was not a relationship person and just cuz you fuck me im not going to change my mind. My father methods was different he would lie lie lie and tell them anything they want to hear. He was one of them type that would say anything to get the prize
"yeah baby of course i love you"
"Baby you so sexy i do anything to be with you"
"Im trying to be your man, i can see a future with you"
Knowing damn well that he didnt mean none of that shit. See thats the shit that turn hoes crazy. My brother was the one who told me to keep it real with women and when you do find one you like and she a good girl lock her down!
im so serious bruh.....like this nigga be borderline flirting with my girl. I told him in a laughing/joking kinda way to chill out but then i really had to pull this nigga into the room and tell that nigga fallback
He apologized and of all things this nigga ask me what her mom looked like..........Im like come on dude are you serious. My girl and her mom look damn near like twins only thing different is there cup size he seen a pic of her on FB and this nigga was right back to his old tricks. My brother was like you better watch the old man he trying to make you and your girl brother n sisters
Only thing i ever learned from my pops was how to treat women like shit. We never talked about Infidelity because in my pops eyes one pussy hole was never enough. I believe a young man should play the field but do it tactfully like when i was younger and in the military i told women str8 up that i was not a relationship person and just cuz you fuck me im not going to change my mind. My father methods was different he would lie lie lie and tell them anything they want to hear. He was one of them type that would say anything to get the prize
"yeah baby of course i love you"
"Baby you so sexy i do anything to be with you"
"Im trying to be your man, i can see a future with you"
Knowing damn well that he didnt mean none of that shit. See thats the shit that turn hoes crazy. My brother was the one who told me to keep it real with women and when you do find one you like and she a good girl lock her down!
Wow fam,
Pops is a true go getter for the hoes...
You would think dealing with several bitches at a time would get old/stressful for older playas.
I hope you never open your FB page around him again
Pops is a true go getter for the hoes...
You would think dealing with several bitches at a time would get old/stressful for older playas.
I hope you never open your FB page around him again
