there is only so much that can be done to get that special someone to open up to you about everything. i do the same shit. i put on a front when i know damn well i'm hurt or pissed off about something. when i'm ready to talk about it that special someone will know. i think all we can do when we're on that end is just let the person deal with it the way they know how. trust me if they want your help they'll ask. if they wanna talk they'll blab lol