I'm just sitting here sipping on some Tanqueray and orannge juice, and I've come to the conclusion that marriage is out dated and not realistic, at least here in America, I believe the stats show more than half of all marriages in America end in divorce, but fuck the stats, I've seen enough proof of this in my personal life, everyone I've grown up with either comes from a broken home, or their parents got divorced somewhere along the line, including mine which are now separated. It just seems that marriage is set up to fail from the beginning, especially if you marry at a young age, like say 19 or 20, people start to change in their mid 20s, and I'm seeing this now, I got married when I was 19 and I'm 23 now, my wife has started to change as a person, to the point where we want different things in life, least to say I'll probably be getting a divorce, but nevertheless I've seen very few marriages that actually work where both parties are happy, want to be there, and aren't just hanging in there for the kids or because its "cheaper to keep her", what are your guys thoughts on this? Even if your happily married yourself, look at the people around you and count how many are in the same boat.