Desire, I've dated nothing but for at least the last few years, it's been great, it can be challenging as with any other relationship. I have found no hidden wives, nor do they need me to be their wife for citizenship, they're legal, some people say they're possessive, but I don't have that problem, they're attentive. I don't even get hooked up on worrying about what the black american male is doing anymore.
Just like Lone said, there are some cultural differences, but it's nothing we can't get passed.
Don't get me wrong, I love my brothers from all countries, but I'm just like the black american man now, I don't have time to wait for them to get their shit together anymore and because of my age, most have been in the US for years now.