you love everything about him.......but he CAN'T GET IT UP !
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Wow@ this thread....LOL
I will be a man and step up and say...Hey it has happened to the best of them...It is unexplainable and to some cat's it has been devastating...LOL
I have friends who have went into depression afterwards..but that is when you have to crack your knuckles and get your fingers and TONGUE ACTION POPPING OFF...
Ladies expect it to happen sometime or another but if your man..cant get it up 3 4 times a week...You might need to trade that Car in and find you a new One...Tax time coming soon LOLOL
I will be a man and step up and say...Hey it has happened to the best of them...It is unexplainable and to some cat's it has been devastating...LOL
I have friends who have went into depression afterwards..but that is when you have to crack your knuckles and get your fingers and TONGUE ACTION POPPING OFF...
Ladies expect it to happen sometime or another but if your man..cant get it up 3 4 times a week...You might need to trade that Car in and find you a new One...Tax time coming soon LOLOL
LOL. . .
This happened to me srecently. . . I was dating a man, 10 years older than me, and things started off really cool. We would spend hours on the phone talking about any and everything. Go out and have a good time. . . So things were going well. So one Saturday, he invites me over, and we start to get close. . kissing, touching, etc. So mind you the whole time I've known him he's been talking big shit. . . like he can do this, that, and the other. . and it will be so good that you will be writing home about it. So I'm excited. . . just off that. . dripping wet. . thinking about all the shit we've been talking the last couple weeks. So we're doing our little foreplay thing and I'm noticing his dick is slightly hard. . . just slightly. . . so I'm like ok. . . let me work all little harder. So I'm giving him head for about 30 minutes. . . and he's still just not really hard
It was weird. So then he gets up. . puts the condom on like he's was gonna put it in 
. . . . that shit didn't work. . .
That was the most frustrating night of my day and night of my life. .I kept trying and he just couldn't get it up. . I mean couldn't even get it hard enough to slide in. And then the head wasn't even good.
Just sad
This happened to me srecently. . . I was dating a man, 10 years older than me, and things started off really cool. We would spend hours on the phone talking about any and everything. Go out and have a good time. . . So things were going well. So one Saturday, he invites me over, and we start to get close. . kissing, touching, etc. So mind you the whole time I've known him he's been talking big shit. . . like he can do this, that, and the other. . and it will be so good that you will be writing home about it. So I'm excited. . . just off that. . dripping wet. . thinking about all the shit we've been talking the last couple weeks. So we're doing our little foreplay thing and I'm noticing his dick is slightly hard. . . just slightly. . . so I'm like ok. . . let me work all little harder. So I'm giving him head for about 30 minutes. . . and he's still just not really hard
It was weird. So then he gets up. . puts the condom on like he's was gonna put it in . . . . that shit didn't work. . . That was the most frustrating night of my day and night of my life. .I kept trying and he just couldn't get it up. . I mean couldn't even get it hard enough to slide in. And then the head wasn't even good.
Just sad
LOL. . .
This happened to me srecently. . . I was dating a man, 10 years older than me, and things started off really cool. We would spend hours on the phone talking about any and everything. Go out and have a good time. . . So things were going well. So one Saturday, he invites me over, and we start to get close. . kissing, touching, etc. So mind you the whole time I've known him he's been talking big shit. . . like he can do this, that, and the other. . and it will be so good that you will be writing home about it. So I'm excited. . . just off that. . dripping wet. . thinking about all the shit we've been talking the last couple weeks. So we're doing our little foreplay thing and I'm noticing his dick is slightly hard. . . just slightly. . . so I'm like ok. . . let me work all little harder. So I'm giving him head for about 30 minutes. . . and he's still just not really hard
That was the most frustrating night of my day and night of my life. .I kept trying and he just couldn't get it up. . I mean couldn't even get it hard enough to slide in. And then the head wasn't even good.
Just sad
umm.....where you live?
LOL. . .
This happened to me srecently. . . I was dating a man, 10 years older than me, and things started off really cool. We would spend hours on the phone talking about any and everything. Go out and have a good time. . . So things were going well. So one Saturday, he invites me over, and we start to get close. . kissing, touching, etc. So mind you the whole time I've known him he's been talking big shit. . . like he can do this, that, and the other. . and it will be so good that you will be writing home about it. So I'm excited. . . just off that. . dripping wet. . thinking about all the shit we've been talking the last couple weeks. So we're doing our little foreplay thing and I'm noticing his dick is slightly hard. . . just slightly. . . so I'm like ok. . . let me work all little harder. So I'm giving him head for about 30 minutes. . . and he's still just not really hard
That was the most frustrating night of my day and night of my life. .I kept trying and he just couldn't get it up. . I mean couldn't even get it hard enough to slide in. And then the head wasn't even good.
Just sad
The brother needed a blue monster! You had the man scared!
LOL. . .
This happened to me srecently. . . I was dating a man, 10 years older than me, and things started off really cool. We would spend hours on the phone talking about any and everything. Go out and have a good time. . . So things were going well. So one Saturday, he invites me over, and we start to get close. . kissing, touching, etc. So mind you the whole time I've known him he's been talking big shit. . . like he can do this, that, and the other. . and it will be so good that you will be writing home about it. So I'm excited. . . just off that. . dripping wet. . thinking about all the shit we've been talking the last couple weeks. So we're doing our little foreplay thing and I'm noticing his dick is slightly hard. . . just slightly. . . so I'm like ok. . . let me work all little harder. So I'm giving him head for about 30 minutes. . . and he's still just not really hard
That was the most frustrating night of my day and night of my life. .I kept trying and he just couldn't get it up. . I mean couldn't even get it hard enough to slide in. And then the head wasn't even good.
Just sad
That nigga ain't impotent, he dead.
He got defensive about it. . . I guess bc he was embarrassed . . Idk. So needless to say we don't talk anymore. And he wasn't really old at all. . he was 32.
Since he's older it could be a couple of things like was he drinking earlier? Did he take or is he taking medication(s)? Maybe the combination of both. Maybe you both smoked a joint, all these thing could affect him.
For women its easy just show up ready and expect the man to deliver sexual bliss. For men its another story altogether and when something goes wrong we see threads proclaiming it was the most frustrating night of my life. Trust me the night was more frustrating for him. 
Being in my 50s I watch what I drink. Although I've never had the problem you've described, I do watch what I drink and what medicines I take if I'm drinking. Even with that I know the problem could be mine the next time in bed with a lady so I do try to watch what I put in my system.
For women its easy just show up ready and expect the man to deliver sexual bliss. For men its another story altogether and when something goes wrong we see threads proclaiming it was the most frustrating night of my life.
Trust me the night was more frustrating for him. Being in my 50s I watch what I drink. Although I've never had the problem you've described, I do watch what I drink and what medicines I take if I'm drinking.
Even with that I know the problem could be mine the next time in bed with a lady so I do try to watch what I put in my system.
Since he's older it could be a couple of things like was he drinking earlier? Did he take or is he taking medication(s)? Maybe the combination of both. Maybe you both smoked a joint, all these thing could affect him.
For women its easy just show up ready and expect the man to deliver sexual bliss. For men its another story altogether and when something goes wrong we see threads proclaiming it was the most frustrating night of my life.
Being in my 50s I watch what I drink. Although I've never had the problem you've described, I do watch what I drink and what medicines I take if I'm drinking.
This thread is not all about me. . they asked. . I shared.
He was only 32. . didn't drink. . didn't smoke. .had no medical issues. .
He got defensive about it. . . I guess bc he was embarrassed . . Idk. So needless to say we don't talk anymore. And he wasn't really old at all. . he was 32.
damn, must be blood pressure medication.
Just notice you said no medical issues.
He was probably just gay.
At 32? I would be in a panic. As I said "the night was more frustrating for him."
See? that was my point about my mercy fuck. he was only 38. he must have felt SOOOO terrible. I didn't want to make him feel any worse.
LOL. . .
This happened to me srecently. . . I was dating a man, 10 years older than me, and things started off really cool. We would spend hours on the phone talking about any and everything. Go out and have a good time. . . So things were going well. So one Saturday, he invites me over, and we start to get close. . kissing, touching, etc. So mind you the whole time I've known him he's been talking big shit. . . like he can do this, that, and the other. . and it will be so good that you will be writing home about it. So I'm excited. . . just off that. . dripping wet. . thinking about all the shit we've been talking the last couple weeks. So we're doing our little foreplay thing and I'm noticing his dick is slightly hard. . . just slightly. . . so I'm like ok. . . let me work all little harder. So I'm giving him head for about 30 minutes. . . and he's still just not really hard
That was the most frustrating night of my day and night of my life. .I kept trying and he just couldn't get it up. . I mean couldn't even get it hard enough to slide in. And then the head wasn't even good.
Just sad
Sorry to hear that, but you tried. If there were issues he should have told you.
I met a guy and talking was great, we had good times together...until the sex part. He ate like a dream but couldn't get hard...I tried all i knew. Frustrated me to know end
In the end he confessed that he liked to be dominated. I did do it to him, but it was too much for me. I would have to slap him to get him going sexually, couldn't see myself doing it forever.Sorry to hear that, but you tried. If there were issues he should have told you.
I met a guy and talking was great, we had good times together...until the sex part. He ate like a dream but couldn't get hard...I tried all i knew. Frustrated me to know end
Must...visit...Montreal....
The main reason I'm not sexually active right now is because mentally I'm not into it nothing health-wise, and I know my penis won't get hard and being completely honest, the pics I took for here took me around 35-40 minutes to do, because of trying to maintain a full errection long enough to snap.
You've been through a lot. A sensible woman should be able to understand that. You seem well worth waiting for so hey if you are not there mentally, you are just not there.I understand in part because I'm a little fucked up right now too.
Take your time. Life is more minivan than two seater sometimes
It happens to every man one time or another....when it happened to me i swear i hit that ass like i was a haunted spirit after it's killer the next time we had sex (I'm glad it was a next time).....every man's Johnson will pull an Electric Boogaloo and flop on ya. Keep healthy and don't stress out that's how i do now.
You've been through a lot. A sensible woman should be able to understand that. You seem well worth waiting for so hey if you are not there mentally, you are just not there.I understand in part because I'm a little fucked up right now too.
Take your time. Life is more minivan than two seater sometimes
shit is scary tho, the mind is a crazy thing sometimes.
Very much so, and one of the things with Buddhism is thoughts have as much power as you give them. Not endowing fears and pains with the power to paralyze us mentally and emotionally is a very hard habit to break....at least for me. I'm working on it Deuce
We're going to be aight buddy- just takes time. I'm optimistic at least.
