My late paternal uncle(we have the same last name), divorced his wife in the early 70's. They had two daughers together. His ex-wife kept her married name. She had a son by another dude and give him OUR family name. I guess she wanted to be consistent. Would you be okay if your ex-wife kept your last name, had a kid with another dude and gave that kid your surname insead of it's father's name? I have no idea whether my uncle even knew or cared. Me and my little sister kind of joke about this and think,"Dafuq?"
Would you be okay if you ex-wife did this?
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I dont think it would bother me much. I get her having the children be consistent name wise. Ive heard from young adults who never felt that they belonged simply because their name was different.
It is foul as fuck to her son and to the so called "sanctimony" of the marriage, when a female marries she takes on the name of her "forever life" if the marriage fails that's not forever, thus she gives up the right to have the name or use it.
Not cool, and people who don't care are not respecting who they came from or themselves. You came into the marriage whole, your everyone should leave it the same way.
Shits complete nonsense.
Not cool, and people who don't care are not respecting who they came from or themselves. You came into the marriage whole, your everyone should leave it the same way.
Shits complete nonsense.
The irony...Some overly emotional ass men around here...lol.
I wish I the fuck I would spend anymore time than it takes to type this reply worrying about some hoe shit like this...
Some overly emotional ass men around here...lol.
I wish I the fuck I would spend anymore time than it takes to type this reply worrying about some hoe shit like this...
A simple “Yes or No” would’ve worked. But instead of not thinking about it, you thought it about and deemed it not worthy of answering because you already thought it out.
To be quite candid most of our surname are inherited slave names.
None of my goddamn business fuck that bitch and her lil bastard child.
I'm only going to use first names. My cousin, Lee was messing with this hoodrat named Shirley. Shirley was married to this other guy. My cousin was a dump truck driver, and he had money. He got Shirley pregnant. He told me himself that the kid was his.
Shirley gave the kid her husband's last name, even though the husband wasn't the father.
My cousin had a heart attack in church and died. My cousin Hayes (Lee's brother) came to the house and took everything. Shirley's dumb ass couldn't get anything of Lees for her son because her son didn't have Lee's last name. Hayes knew the boy was Lee's but he didn't give a fuck, he was like, "Prove it." There was no DNA test back then it was the late 80s.
The kid was cheated out his inheritance: Four houses, 67 Stingray corvette, two dump trucks, two old caddys ( a 56 and 74). That was just a sad situation.
Shirley gave the kid her husband's last name, even though the husband wasn't the father.
My cousin had a heart attack in church and died. My cousin Hayes (Lee's brother) came to the house and took everything. Shirley's dumb ass couldn't get anything of Lees for her son because her son didn't have Lee's last name. Hayes knew the boy was Lee's but he didn't give a fuck, he was like, "Prove it." There was no DNA test back then it was the late 80s.
The kid was cheated out his inheritance: Four houses, 67 Stingray corvette, two dump trucks, two old caddys ( a 56 and 74). That was just a sad situation.
