A woman's nature is not to be trusted! You have been warned!
Women's big secret
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go to sleep bruh
Women and men usually love differently, men commonly love via agape love, or love with action.. Men will fight and die for the women they love and will do what's right for her.. Many men can fucking other women yet love one, this is because he is not emotionally attached, and he sees his sex different from his act of love.
Women on the other hand, usually love with Philo love, or feeling base love.
Oftentimes their sex is emotional based that is connected to their feelings, even the most slutiest whores wind up suffering emotionally by having many sex partners, due to their inability to emotionally detach the pleasure from the emotions, something most men can easily accomplish.
The problem occurs when women start to lose their emotional bond with a guy, often leading to a sense of emptyness... But when men lose their emotional bond, they still have their Agape love or their need to protect and honor.. Some women see this as a flaw in men and know how to use this to their advantage, especially due to the fact that most straight men have some degree of Agape towards attractive women. Women know this and this is the heart of to most of their jealous nature..
Women on the other hand, usually love with Philo love, or feeling base love.
Oftentimes their sex is emotional based that is connected to their feelings, even the most slutiest whores wind up suffering emotionally by having many sex partners, due to their inability to emotionally detach the pleasure from the emotions, something most men can easily accomplish.
The problem occurs when women start to lose their emotional bond with a guy, often leading to a sense of emptyness... But when men lose their emotional bond, they still have their Agape love or their need to protect and honor.. Some women see this as a flaw in men and know how to use this to their advantage, especially due to the fact that most straight men have some degree of Agape towards attractive women. Women know this and this is the heart of to most of their jealous nature..
I will add that if she is insecure, all it takes is a man to tap into those insecurities and make her feel the opposite (making her dependent on them for validation about whatever the insecurity is.) These types will the backwards rationalize (aka "ho babble" shoutout to tallblacknyc) their reasons for their choices. I would wager, however, that for many women this is impulsive (like children) and not based on genuine adult maturity, they just get a pass as being "emotional."
If a man is insecure about his actions, all it takes is the right woman to validate his actions as being worthy or notable, and she will have him wrapped around her finger like a coach....only if he is insecure. If his actions do not need the validation of some of these women they will be framed as being immature,etc (projection) Many men who are not who know that the woman is running game will step out on her anyway, since the know instinctively that the desire she has for him is not there.
He makes some good points. Some of the things he talks about are discussed in the books "The manipulated man", "the red queen", and "anatomy of female power". The main thing that stood out to me in the video was that A woman will convince herself that she loves you if she feels you love her. In the book the manipulated man, the author says a man saying "I love you" to a woman is music to her ears b/c once a man utters those words, she knows she can get him to do her bidding and he will bend over backwards to make her happy, even if it's to his own detriment.
These are you things that men need to know, the quality of your "game" and how you apply these rules to real life situations will determine what quality female you deal with! And no, quality females don't always come in the form of Amber Rose or any other twitdiots you can think of!
I have seen women do shit you would never think they would do.
Game...what game...once a man gets to the point he don't give a fuck about marriage and the bullshit that we have been programmed to do we choose wisely...notice I didn't say better because any woman can be the woman
It all depends on you
Game...what game...once a man gets to the point he don't give a fuck about marriage and the bullshit that we have been programmed to do we choose wisely...notice I didn't say better because any woman can be the woman
It all depends on you
You are correct sir.
The issue here is that not all men were taught by parents (or their motherly figures) about the HUMAN nature of women, its not some inhumane demonic look, its more about removing the "damsel in distress/waif/victim" trope often used to manipulate men and avoid accountability.The truth is that many men idealize women the same way they idealize their mothers (madonna/whore) and many women attempt to control men via this idealization (presenting themselves as victims/waifs/damsels/ women that need to be "won over" OR simply his 2am booty call, those two presentations rarely go to the same man...look at devoutly religious women for evidence.)
Mind you women lose out in the end if the idealization does not stop, they sacrifice true happiness for control over the man ("get a husband who loves you more than him,etc") and often they never resolve their internal splitting (via refusing to own their desire for control) so they forfeit apart of themselves to control a man rather than own their own behaviors.