Women who bring up there man in general convo.

[Bigmario23]

Okay I have been the victim of talking to women sometime
trying to hold a nice lil' conversation(instead of being all
quick to try and get the number) or what have you.
Sometimes I ain't even close to trying to book yet
just having some convo......and they
relate something I'm expounding on to
there man like Oh yeah "my boyfriend likes that too" or
"my man is about your height" (last week)......

The worse part is when I'm in jokey joke mode and got a chick laughing and I'm
thinking to myself I might have a chance here. Then outta
nowhere there mans name pops up in the convn some unrelated shit
like a self-reminder goes off. I was getting to that question
but some of yall sisters wanna answer unasked questions for me.
In the words of charlie murphy in perfect holiday NOT SEXY
Thanks for the info though much appreciated
Do yall really be having men like that or trying to get rid of my ass
in a nice nasty way?


And fellas what's the cut off point for you? Do you continue
the convo on some......"Are you happy? Or do you just step off?

On the contrary I've been successful with the quick Hi, name,number
combo sometimes in the past. It all depends on the female though I guess.
Some chicks be in a cut to the chase mode while I'm just on
chill status trying to converse I think.

 

[Sunny B]

i will talk to you. i won't say my man likes... but if you don't bring up i will let you know. i'm not trying to lead you on but business is first. you never know who you are meeting.

 

[Mo-Better]

Would you rather she "bring up there man in general convo" or as he puts his key in the door? Just my 2 cents...

 

[GET YOU HOT]

If she is mentioning her man, in terms of a general topic of conversation, it's probaly is a good sign, that she is happily involved and is telling you, indirectly to back off...???!!!

 

[Bigmario23]

Would you rather she "bring up there man in general convo" or as he puts his key in the door? Just my 2 cents...

 

[lilsexii]

Okay I have been the victim of talking to women sometime
trying to hold a nice lil' conversation(instead of being all
quick to try and get the number) or what have you.
Sometimes I ain't even close to trying to book yet
just having some convo......and they
relate something I'm expounding on to
there man like Oh yeah "my boyfriend likes that too" or
"my man is about your height" (last week)......

The worse part is when I'm in jokey joke mode and got a chick laughing and I'm
thinking to myself I might have a chance here. Then outta
nowhere there mans name pops up in the convn some unrelated shit
like a self-reminder goes off. I was getting to that question
but some of yall sisters wanna answer unasked questions for me.
In the words of charlie murphy in perfect holiday NOT SEXY
Thanks for the info though much appreciated
Do yall really be having men like that or trying to get rid of my ass
in a nice nasty way?

Either way you're good - they're heading you off at the pass. They must have anticipated the convo turning toward flirtation, so they threw that out there. If they're not interested, you don't waste your time. If they were feelin you, but they're not available, they were honest enough to let you know up front and you still haven't wasted your time.

 

[femmenoire]

If I'm not interested I will always bring up my man/boyfriend, even if I don't have one.

 

[BrownTurd]

Okay I have been the victim of talking to women sometime
trying to hold a nice lil' conversation(instead of being all
quick to try and get the number) or what have you.
Sometimes I ain't even close to trying to book yet
just having some convo......and they
relate something I'm expounding on to
there man like Oh yeah "my boyfriend likes that too" or
"my man is about your height" (last week)......

The worse part is when I'm in jokey joke mode and got a chick laughing and I'm
thinking to myself I might have a chance here. Then outta
nowhere there mans name pops up in the convn some unrelated shit
like a self-reminder goes off. I was getting to that question
but some of yall sisters wanna answer unasked questions for me.
In the words of charlie murphy in perfect holiday NOT SEXY
Thanks for the info though much appreciated
Do yall really be having men like that or trying to get rid of my ass
in a nice nasty way?


And fellas what's the cut off point for you? Do you continue
the convo on some......"Are you happy? Or do you just step off?

On the contrary I've been successful with the quick Hi, name,number
combo sometimes in the past. It all depends on the female though I guess.
Some chicks be in a cut to the chase mode while I'm just on
chill status trying to converse I think.

Your post are crazy. Bro you got hella game but you keep talking past the close...lol Fool If you are having a convo and then she brings up her man out of nowhere and comparing you then you got her...lol She played her cards. Now you need to play yours. I hope you reversed the question. When she said "my boyfriend likes that too" or "my man is about your height" Hope you said "Well it sounds like me and your boyfriend have alot in common. He must be a really nice guy" You just made her validate you and also compliment you. what makes a man attractive is when he can't be fully read. You have now created a mystery about you and she is wondering what are your objectives. This will cause her to continue talking. The key to reversing is never answer a question without knowing why the question was asked.

 

[Adam Knows]

you don't approach and talk to women, you let them approach and talk to you.... duh....

 

[owl]

Man, fuck that, we are adults, I'm not going to drop a lug like that for no reason. Either she's just letting you know, like Mo'Better said, so you don't hear the keys and the shot without being properly forewarned. Or the shit is a shield,i so fuckin' hate insecure women, in hopes of you not pushing it. But that's basically letting you know you could take it further. Why bring up your man, and I didn't ask that shit? If we are talking about conspiracy theory forty-five, and you bring up your man, that's a dead give away that we could fuck. If I'm not trying to holler, don't fucking get nervous. Personally, I'm pretty persistent, I'll go with the friends bit, I mean, hell, she let you know you are her type, she's curious, all you need is time and the right space for biology to do it's thing...


my dime and a nickel...

 

[thismybgolname]

Anytime a woman brings up her man I'm out.

 

[onyxfemme]

If she is mentioning her man, in terms of a general topic of conversation, it's probaly is a good sign, that she is happily involved and is telling you, indirectly to back off...???!!!

Co-Sign!!

 

[SEXY_SCORPIO]

you don't approach and talk to women, you let them approach and talk to you.... duh....

Both ways sir

 

[tripleds3]

Most times when I bring my man up I want you to know I'm not interested so stop while you are ahead. If it is good conversation, I will be slow to bring my man up. I will be patient and wait for you to ask me if I have a man. Though like some of the other sistas said, sometimes I ain't got a man, just want you to keep it movin.