Wise Beyond Her Years: Little Girl Snaps On Her Dead Beat Dad!
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That's commendable worthy of respect and I truly appreciate what you're doing (assuming it's all true). With that said (and there's no need to respond to this either), there are literally situations regarding parents that you just wouldn't believe, in a million years. I only say this bc up until recently I pretty much agreed with you in every way, regarding parents and specifically dads, who are deadbeats. However, very recently my eyes were opened through a very personally situation (brother-in-law), where the dad is trying to be there... pays support, wants to see the kids, attempts to see the kids but gets cops called on him if he gets close. One of the daughters is graduating from HS this coming weekend and the mother has threatened to call the police and have him arrested... he's going to fly to Chicago (from NY) anyway just to be there... the mother is a sociopath. She poisons the kids... she previously harassed his job and got him fired (he had to move to NY last year), posted his picture around town, etc. And this ain't no dumb dummy... this is a very accomplished person. And to make matters worse... the reason the marriage ended was bc she cheated on him. It wasn't until late last year, when all of this evidence was finally presented before a judge, that the mother was finally slapped with a restraining order and threatened with jail time and loosing custody of the kids. The judge couldn't understand why a woman would harass a man at work and then bring him to court for not paying child support (which he was able to pay anyway). The judge scolded her... said she didn't believe her story... but let her keep the kids and upheld support payments. It's moot bc the girls are so turned against the father they'd never live with him.
I say all this to say, there are some very heartbreaking situations out here and it's not always the absent parents fault. I have two kids and I very much, prior to this, looked at this guy like he was a prick (I would tell my wire "no excuses"). Again, his oldest is graduating high school... they got divorced when she was 9. This has been going on for a decade.... she's been dragging him into court and f'ing with his employment. He's never missed a single support payment... and the daughters treat him like shit. The mother has totally turned these girls from their father... and he feels awful... like he failed. While the mother has used them as a weapon against him. I'm seeing it with my own eyes. The ex-wife is mad at herself for not being able to close on the upgrade (the guy she cheated with was a former friend... and she thought he was gonna leave his wife for her... didn't happen... everyone left and now she's BITTER).
Dude, you have no idea. I don't condone the deadbeats at all... but there re some good guys out here catching pure HELL from some of these damaged woman. Shouldn't paint everyone with the same brush.
I have a family member who deals with the same thing. She calls the cops, tells his daughter that her father doesn't love her. He pays his child support, buys clothe and shoes for his daughter. When they were together the mom didn't even know her daughters clothing size and would defer to the husband. Since they divorced this woman (I use that term losely) has done everything and anything she an to come between, the father and the child. She even called the cops and tried to accuse the grandmother and grand aunt if abuse.
It's beyond foolish to think women like this don't exist. The fact that this woman made this child produce a video is very telling about the character of the mother.
It's beyond foolish to think women like this don't exist. The fact that this woman made this child produce a video is very telling about the character of the mother.
Bottom Line!!!
She picked a looser to be the father of her child and now the child is suffering!
Pick better men to be fathers for your children!!
That's what i'm saying... kids are forgiving and understanding until their taught not to be. What the mother is doing is actually compounding the harm the fathers absence is causing.
My brother-in-law, feeling guilty, bought a ticket for his youngest daughter to spend spring break in Florida with one of her classmates family. This girl is 15 or 16, can't remember, and treats her father like shiiiiiit... I wouldn't have bought her a ticket... Never the less he did. Wouldn't you know that the mother canceled the ticket and never told her daughter. Was going to let her daughter show up at the airport with this other family and find out that she didn't have a ticket to go on her spring break trip. This was in March... just happened. The airline called my brother-in-law to ask whether he wanted his card charged back or a voucher... otherwise he wouldn't have known and would've been blamed for not buying the ticket. That's how evil this woman is. Do you know he re-purchased the ticket and never said a word to his daughter or ex-wife about it. The woman was willing to embarrass her daughter like that to make the ex seem like a dead beat. The airline canceled the ticket bc the mothers name is the same as the daughters... they had no idea what was going on. This is the shit people don't see and it starts with coaching a 5 year old to dismiss her father. Sad shit. And the OP said "wise beyond her years," Get a life... "insanely irresponsible" more like it.
Not gonna lie and say I read all of that but I skimmed. I'm not talking to guys making an honest, consistent attempt to be in their kids lives, but crazy women are stopping them. That's not a deadbeat dad. Far from it. In fact, that's very honorable. He could've taken the easy way out. To be honest with you, the same thing happened to my own father. We now have a great relationship, and me and my mothers relationship is strained. The niggas I'm talking to know who they are. And don't try and play me. I've been on this board a long time and have always been open about my profession and family life. There are members on this board, in this very thread even, who've seen pics of my children. Peace.
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This is why those "no pull out" comments just cause a light skinned bitch with a nice ass is showing her ass for the world to see, make me sick. That should be the last broad you want to drop your seed in.
All that neck rolling....emotions...she's emulating her bitter mother.
None of us know the back story...so to attack the Father OFFTOP is silly. Everyone needs to be held accountable when fuck ups (unwanted births) occur..
No matter if her dad is there or not...the person who chose to record this foolishness and put it on the internet...because they thought it was cute or justifiable....is a lousy bitch; Male or Female.
None of us know the back story...so to attack the Father OFFTOP is silly. Everyone needs to be held accountable when fuck ups (unwanted births) occur..
No matter if her dad is there or not...the person who chose to record this foolishness and put it on the internet...because they thought it was cute or justifiable....is a lousy bitch; Male or Female.
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I feel you.
My only point was that what might look like a deadbeat ain't always a deadbeat. Your scenario with your father could be similar to this little girls scenario... and my brother-in-laws scenario.
You went in on deadbeats and rightfully so. When a mother spoon feeds a child contempt for the other parent there's almost always more there. That's it. No innuendo no hidden meaning.
I know of a so called dead beat dad,
who fled to the islands...
he said his baby mama and her family put
him through so much stress... by making his
children hate him.. and verbally abusing him
right in front of them..all the time.....
he said he rather be known as a deadbeat dad
then a family murderer... so he left....
started all over again in trinidad....
who fled to the islands...
he said his baby mama and her family put
him through so much stress... by making his
children hate him.. and verbally abusing him
right in front of them..all the time.....
he said he rather be known as a deadbeat dad
then a family murderer... so he left....
started all over again in trinidad....
The catch here is you can't give up trying. Eventually the kids will grow up and hopefully start to analyze the situation without the bias or less bias.
