Is it the woman fault for letting niggas go raw no pullout or is it that our brothers are some scared lil bitches to take care of the kids.
Intelligent Answers Please
Intelligent Answers Please
Why are there so many Single Moms in the Black Community
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The vetting process has become expedited to the point ninjas hitting on the first date is now the norm. Most of these single mothers were just jumpoffs that got knocked up, not girlfriends who the dudes ran out on. Thats not to say that the dudes arent at fault. But allot of these chicks are getting knocked up by aint shit ninjas and the same aint shit ninjas at that. There arent any more aint shit ninjas than in the past. Sex is just so damn easy that they are allowed to beat, skeet, and bounce that allot of chicks are getting caught with their panties down. Then once they have a kid, theyre forever damaged goods in the eyes of the quality brothers who may have built with them had they not gotten pregnant. The cycle will continue as more and more kids grow up without positive male role models. Sign of the times I guess. In reality the asnwer is simple... Get to know the person. It really doesnt take that long to know what kind of person youre dealing with. No you wont know everything about them, but youll know if hes a standup guy, or if shes a crazy bitch though.
you could've just stayed a lurker
how you ask for intelligent answers when the question posed is an idiotic one?
Why are there so many single moms? Because the dudes have kids and the dudes ain't shit.
its THEIR fault too.
how you ask for intelligent answers when the question posed is an idiotic one?
Why are there so many single moms? Because the dudes have kids and the dudes ain't shit.
its THEIR fault too.
right
Why do you have to be an asshole. Did i hit a nerve....oh you must be a product of daddy not ever claiming you. Lets talk about...let it all out or shut the fuck up and bounce....this is for the bgol intellingent brothers
Who sent you?
The reasons are many and in the end, these women make a CHOICE which is their right and have these children.
After the "CHOICE" is made, the tragedy begins.
dudes need to stop CHOOSING to go raw and CHOOSING to not be there.
Low key attention whoring. Dude got 4 pages yesterday with his "Chinese Restaurants in the hood" thread. Now he's back for more props.
At least those other clowns spike their discussion threads with an Op-ed or a rehashed article.
The mods should move some of this shit to the appropriate subforums.
Dont be a dick. It was just a question. Lol dam these niggas salty. If it bothered you why even come in the post. Ignorant motherfucker
Smh......niggas start a simple discussion and you gotta pull ya skirt up and play with ya clit. Be a man and stop acting like Queenaddies
Thank you brother for an intelligent answer
Naw nigga.... it's a dead horse....and your one trick pony ass keep coming with the same shit. The hood this, the hood that....get the fuck out of here cracka. ... fucking Oreo
Naw nigga.... it's a dead horse....and your one trick pony ass keep coming with the same shit. The hood this, the hood that....get the fuck out of here cracka. ... fucking Oreo
Far from a cracker. You sound like a crack baby... Just answer the fucking question or keep it noving.....niggas man
because they not focused on the long term, bad choices, ignorant of the systemic traps laid out for our people and most of all too busy being rich minded!
Good point.
Here is another....
Women could "Choose" to take the Pill and protect themselves since they "NOT" CHOOSING to make the Brother's wrap up.
If a woman doesn't want to get pregnant, she won't get pregnant.
Not placing blame, but we can start with that fact right there.
Eat a dick honky.... Your question was rhetorical at best... you knew the answer before you asked it.
community has always been matriarchal so really it's nothing new, at least till civil rights passed then everything was geared towards protecting women by giving them food stamps and welfare. black women for the most part don't have a mindset thst warrants marriage, nikkas should know better but alot of niggas just smash to smash with no repercussions.
also society is way more securely. free these days, some women just want a jump off from a dude and some convo, not with the long dating process.
you combine the history of our communities being run completely different from white and other communities combined with being more securely free and you gonna have a big issue.
white women get down alot they just usually strap up.
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also society is way more securely. free these days, some women just want a jump off from a dude and some convo, not with the long dating process.
you combine the history of our communities being run completely different from white and other communities combined with being more securely free and you gonna have a big issue.
white women get down alot they just usually strap up.
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This is true but nobody gonna acknowledge what you said.
If you really cared about the discussion aspect you would go to a forum/site focused on family issues, take a civics/sociology course or use one of the subforums on this site which compels cats to give you a serious answer. Otherwise we troll attention whores here.
Here's a tip. Post a few pics and I'll give you the pseudo seriousness of 10 Dr. Phil, Dr. Drew, Montell Donahue, etc and clown anybody that tries to derail that particular thread. Prove you're part of the team and pay up otherwise, GTFOH.
You're an Oreo at best...black on the outside...double stuffed cream on the inside...ano Oreo mini... your lack of empathy is a dead give away cracker.
Dont be a dick. It was just a question. Lol dam these niggas salty. If it bothered you why even come in the post. Ignorant motherfucker
so just hurl insults.
i came in here because its stupid and i wanted to tell you how stupid it is and how ignorant you are. and i will continue to do so
No woman has ever made me have sex with them and I didn't want to.
No woman has ever made me go raw and I haven't wanted to.
Woman cannot get pregnant without my sperm.
If I'm not giving it to her she can't get it she can't have a kid period doesn't matter what she wants. doesn't matter how much convincing or talking or reasoning or pleading or teasing or seducing or enticing she does.
If I don't give it to her, she can't have it period. and there is no kid.
And also if a man doesn't want to get a woman pregnant he doesn't have to get her pregnant. That's also a fact. She can want you to go raw if you say no what can she do?
my point is that both people have 50% responsibility in this.
woman end up with 100% of it after because dudes leave
but in creating its always 50/50
There is no another, Bruh. A female ain't controlling a man's dick, period.
Sex, for the most part, is consensual. At the end of the day, between the couple, one person has COMPLETE control on whether they should go raw or not. We really need to stop with this whole what women chooses to do crap. It doesn't even make logical sense to put the blame on the woman at all unless the man was deceived.
Dont be a dick. It was just a question. Lol dam these niggas salty. If it bothered you why even come in the post. Ignorant motherfucker
I come in because I don't like tour punk troll ass.... now what faggit.
I been around since the days of darth harlem and esco. I dont have to prove shit to ur bitch ass. Last i checked your name is not HNIC
Smh....seems im dealing with a Memphis crackbaby child....
It's a combination of many things but the mains ones that at the surface is that it's now normalcy for a woman t be raised to look at a man as something disposable if anything doesn't go as planned.It's also the lack of responsible black men for a number of reasons but a good majority straight suffer from the'baby boy' syndrome.
Topic's like this usually draw the worse out of black men who might of gotten the bad end of a relationship who internalize that and turn around to bash black women especially for the things that is just a life lesson.
Black women this,black women that,that's the black man that needs to be exterminated if he doesn't get that in check because he does nothing but usually adds to the dramatics,the confusion,and all of the bullshit that people tend to focus on.
Topic's like this usually draw the worse out of black men who might of gotten the bad end of a relationship who internalize that and turn around to bash black women especially for the things that is just a life lesson.
Black women this,black women that,that's the black man that needs to be exterminated if he doesn't get that in check because he does nothing but usually adds to the dramatics,the confusion,and all of the bullshit that people tend to focus on.