Where’s the Roach?’: Classmates of South Carolina Girl Who Hung Herself After Alleged Bullying Snuck Into ICU to Take Photos, and Circulated Them

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The parents of a 12-year-old Black girl who attempted suicide last year are suing her teachers and the school district in Greenville County, South Carolina, for negligence in how they responded to alleged bullying and harassment of their daughter.

Ty Turner says she found her daughter Kelaia hanging from a belt in her bedroom on the evening of March 18, 2023. She told WYFF that her daughter was already cool to the touch and bleeding from her nose and that paramedics couldn’t find a pulse or heartbeat for a full eight minutes.

“She had fully committed to what it was that she was attempting to do,” said Turner.


Kelaia suffered severe brain damage and was in a coma for weeks, staying in the hospital for 101 days. Now 14, she is nonverbal and still has no control over her body, says Turner. She is dependent on a tracheostomy tube to breathe and a feeding tube and requires around-the-clock care from her parents and a part-time nurse.

According to the lawsuit filed in U.S. District Court in South Carolina, Greenville Division, Kelaia Turner first experienced bullying at Dr. Phinnize J. Fisher Middle School in August 2021 and reported it to school officials.

In December 2021, fellow students called her “a man” and “a roach” in teacher Olivia Bennett’s class, the complaint says.

“Ms. Bennett was complicit in the bullying and said nothing to the other students to stop it. One student asked, ‘Where’s the roach?’ and Ms. Bennett pointed to [Kelaia].”

Ty Turner emailed Bennett and the principal to complain, noting in her email that “children had committed suicide from this type of behavior in the past.” The next day, the principal acknowledged her complaint and said they were “working tirelessly to repair whatever is damaged.”

Both parents then met with the teacher to address the incident and discussed the need for the student leading the bullying to be separated from their daughter. On Jan. 26, 2022, that student confronted and “cussed out” Kelaia for telling her parents about the bullying incident but was not disciplined, the lawsuit alleges.

The bullying continued throughout 2022, “with no actions taken by the Defendants,” according to the complaint, which details other incidents and reports to school officials by the girl’s mother, including a fight between her daughter and another student in March 2022, after which Kelaia was suspended and “the student who caused the fight was not.”

On May 23, 2022, one of Kelaia’s classmates played a song and video on YouTube called “The Black People Song.” Defendant John Teer, a teacher, “allowed the song to be played without any comment on its offensiveness, nor any reprimand to or discussion with the student who played it,” the complaint says.

After her mother emailed Principal Smith and Metris Cain, another teacher, to complain about the video, Cain allegedly replied the following day that faculty “had been speaking with other students and that the investigation would be continued the next day. She concluded by stating, ‘Just wanted you to know that we are not taking this concern lightly.’”

In October 2022, Turner informed the school that another student “had been pushing [Kelaia] several times over the past month.” The lawsuit says the offending student was not punished and that the only reaction by the faculty was to tell the girl to inform them if it happened again.

The bullying continued, the complaint says, including an incident when Kelaia’s clothes “had water poured on them and were then thrown into the trash.”

Students made more disparaging comments about the girl’s appearance in the ensuing months, says Ty Turner, including that she looked “like a man.”

She was also called “Trans,” “Mustache Face,” “Nappyhead” and “Ugmo” in the presence of teachers and school staff members “with no repercussion,” despite the school’s “zero tolerance to bullying,” according to a Facebook post by Turner in October.
 

The parents of a 12-year-old Black girl who attempted suicide last year are suing her teachers and the school district in Greenville County, South Carolina, for negligence in how they responded to alleged bullying and harassment of their daughter.

Ty Turner says she found her daughter Kelaia hanging from a belt in her bedroom on the evening of March 18, 2023. She told WYFF that her daughter was already cool to the touch and bleeding from her nose and that paramedics couldn’t find a pulse or heartbeat for a full eight minutes.

“She had fully committed to what it was that she was attempting to do,” said Turner.


Kelaia suffered severe brain damage and was in a coma for weeks, staying in the hospital for 101 days. Now 14, she is nonverbal and still has no control over her body, says Turner. She is dependent on a tracheostomy tube to breathe and a feeding tube and requires around-the-clock care from her parents and a part-time nurse.

According to the lawsuit filed in U.S. District Court in South Carolina, Greenville Division, Kelaia Turner first experienced bullying at Dr. Phinnize J. Fisher Middle School in August 2021 and reported it to school officials.

In December 2021, fellow students called her “a man” and “a roach” in teacher Olivia Bennett’s class, the complaint says.

“Ms. Bennett was complicit in the bullying and said nothing to the other students to stop it. One student asked, ‘Where’s the roach?’ and Ms. Bennett pointed to [Kelaia].”

Ty Turner emailed Bennett and the principal to complain, noting in her email that “children had committed suicide from this type of behavior in the past.” The next day, the principal acknowledged her complaint and said they were “working tirelessly to repair whatever is damaged.”

Both parents then met with the teacher to address the incident and discussed the need for the student leading the bullying to be separated from their daughter. On Jan. 26, 2022, that student confronted and “cussed out” Kelaia for telling her parents about the bullying incident but was not disciplined, the lawsuit alleges.

The bullying continued throughout 2022, “with no actions taken by the Defendants,” according to the complaint, which details other incidents and reports to school officials by the girl’s mother, including a fight between her daughter and another student in March 2022, after which Kelaia was suspended and “the student who caused the fight was not.”

On May 23, 2022, one of Kelaia’s classmates played a song and video on YouTube called “The Black People Song.” Defendant John Teer, a teacher, “allowed the song to be played without any comment on its offensiveness, nor any reprimand to or discussion with the student who played it,” the complaint says.

After her mother emailed Principal Smith and Metris Cain, another teacher, to complain about the video, Cain allegedly replied the following day that faculty “had been speaking with other students and that the investigation would be continued the next day. She concluded by stating, ‘Just wanted you to know that we are not taking this concern lightly.’”

In October 2022, Turner informed the school that another student “had been pushing [Kelaia] several times over the past month.” The lawsuit says the offending student was not punished and that the only reaction by the faculty was to tell the girl to inform them if it happened again.

The bullying continued, the complaint says, including an incident when Kelaia’s clothes “had water poured on them and were then thrown into the trash.”

Students made more disparaging comments about the girl’s appearance in the ensuing months, says Ty Turner, including that she looked “like a man.”

She was also called “Trans,” “Mustache Face,” “Nappyhead” and “Ugmo” in the presence of teachers and school staff members “with no repercussion,” despite the school’s “zero tolerance to bullying,” according to a Facebook post by Turner in October.
 
It had to have been a school with mostly pale faces...calling

that sweet child a roach..??

You gotta send yo child out in the trenches with a backbone... public school,

is no place for the emotionally and physically weak.
 
In December 2021, fellow students called her “a man” and “a roach” in teacher Olivia Bennett’s class, the complaint says.
This is why some parents come up to the school and act a damn fool with other people's children because some just don't have no home training at all.

In elementary school I wasn't a bully but I would mind other's business and made sure shit was equal amongst the bullying going on and if whoever wanted to fight we could do that but no one's just sitting around targeting one person all the time.

The teachers have no control and some of em would join in on the shit just so they can get the trouble makers some what under control.It happens.

I feel bad for this little girl and any kid getting bullied in school....I tell em to go ahead and bully your ass off in school,do it til you can't bully no more cause you might end up being the next victim.
 
It had to have been a school with mostly pale faces...calling

that sweet child a roach..??

You gotta send yo child out in the trenches with a backbone... public school,

is no place for the emotionally and physically weak.

Often these parents are unfamiliar with white folks ways and perhaps- knowing or

unknowingly- place them on a "pedal stool" (could not resist). Living among them and trying to

assimilate is NOT the way to ingratiate yourself, that just makes you a target. Being around them is tricky

and you have to have parents who understand that... otherwise it's like throwing your kid to a pack of wolves.

They use and abuse and you have to pay close attention bc white folks are relentlessly insecure and jealous.
 
You know, a lot of people often ask me why I don't have kids.

I think shit like this is why.

Cause if I go up to a school about my child being mistreated & the shit gets blown off twice...it's gonna be a problem.

If my child is being picked on & only she gets punished...somebody's getting fucked up.

And now my child is basically brain damaged & tried to take her own life & them motherfucking kids took pics of her in the hospital to talk shit about?

...I'm going straight to jail. Cause I would have fucked everybody up. Kids, teachers, principals, kid's parents....everyone would get it.

And I know I'm an adult & its a better way & all that...but you don't fuck with no little kids, man...

Shit done fucked up my night...poor Keleia....

She looks almost like my goddaughter....
 
If you don't know better than to send your children to the whites, you deserve what you get as a parent. You shouldn't have had kids to begin With.
 
They should also file separate lawsuits suing the parents of those little pieces of shit directly for their behavior which the parents are absolutely responsible for and probably encourage.
 
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