when a woman constantly flip flops with her emotions is that a sign of something?

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It's an ex. One minute she's telling me how great this guy is, next minute she accuses me of lieing when she asks have I been seeing any girls lately and I say no, next minute she's asking why I don't text her, next minute she's asking what do I want from her when I ask her about why she did me dirty. I confronted her about this and I basically said: 'one minute it seems like ur trying to make me jealous and try to get me to step my game up to get you back, next minute it seems like you don't want me and then it seems like u just want to be friends. Knowing u ur emotions change like the weather so it could be all of them, just a matter of how u feel that day'. She said 'your usually pretty good at reading me so what emotion am I on right now'. I don't know what the hell to make out of this I just started to ignore her recently.
 
you post some of the most idiot ass shit man.

"get you back"? why do you want this kinda bitch "back"? rhetorical question.

Is she worth what she's putting you thru, or trying to put you thru, or what you will be put thru? rhetorical question as well.

why are you subjecting yourself to this kind of treatment when you don't subject others to this kind of treatment? (assuming you don't dish out what she's dishing you) Also rhetorical :hmm:

"if you knew how much you was worth, you'd ask for more than you're getting" - Mike Bigga (aka Killer Mike)
 
Why do kats remain in contact with females they break up with? Stop responding to this chick and your problem will be solved.
 
Why do kats remain in contact with females they break up with? Stop responding to this chick and your problem will be solved.

I have to admit, I'm guilty of this.

Its easier to call up an ex, fuck the shit out of them, and leave with nothing on your conscious. Instead going after new pussy all the time in a lot of cases... Plus, 90% of my ex's were off of good terms...
 
I have to admit, I'm guilty of this.

Its easier to call up an ex, fuck the shit out of them, and leave with nothing on your conscious. Instead going after new pussy all the time in a lot of cases... Plus, 90% of my ex's were off of good terms...

Believe me I understand the lure of recycled pussy. But my thing is, if a chick is getting to you that bad, why not just cut her off and find a new chick or at least recycle some other pussy? If recycling is your thing it'll be there later.
 
you post some of the most idiot ass shit man.

"get you back"? why do you want this kinda bitch "back"? rhetorical question.

Is she worth what she's putting you thru, or trying to put you thru, or what you will be put thru? rhetorical question as well.

why are you subjecting yourself to this kind of treatment when you don't subject others to this kind of treatment? (assuming you don't dish out what she's dishing you) Also rhetorical :hmm:

"if you knew how much you was worth, you'd ask for more than you're getting" - Mike Bigga (aka Killer Mike)

you a clown and dont even know why
 
you post some of the most idiot ass shit man.

"get you back"? why do you want this kinda bitch "back"? rhetorical question.

Is she worth what she's putting you thru, or trying to put you thru, or what you will be put thru? rhetorical question as well.

why are you subjecting yourself to this kind of treatment when you don't subject others to this kind of treatment? (assuming you don't dish out what she's dishing you) Also rhetorical :hmm:

"if you knew how much you was worth, you'd ask for more than you're getting" - Mike Bigga (aka Killer Mike)

Your lack of respect when trying to do something good really brings out ur personal insecurities...what they are I don't know. Kats like u wonder why people don't take u serious when u r/ r not dropping knowledge. The day I take advice from someone that's insecure as you are will be the day you can put me 6 ft under.
 
I said this before and I'll say it again, bgol is to niggas what facebook is to bitches. A place where u can get gassed the fuck up. Instead of bitches rejecting niggas on facebook to boost they ego you have niggas that wait to try to talk down on a nigga and prove to others that your better then them. All an ego boosting thing. Do I post dumb shit, yeah jokingly sometimes, sometimes it's pure blissful ignorance. But I learned when and when not to hide my ignorance. A place like this isn't somewhere that I will hide it because it's smart cats that can challenge what I think. so what if I asked a question...I never said I wanted her back. Never even said my side of my feelings. I jus want to fuck her like someone else said. Ya'll niggas need to act like men not bitches. That's what makes us men.
 
Your lack of respect when trying to do something good really brings out ur personal insecurities...what they are I don't know. Kats like u wonder why people don't take u serious when u r/ r not dropping knowledge. The day I take advice from someone that's insecure as you are will be the day you can put me 6 ft under.

dude you totally missed the point
homeboy is 100% correct!
WHY did you break up if all you want to do is get back together

thats why people stay if fucked up abusive relationship they don’t have any self respect or know there self worth

It really is simple either you’ll need to work it out and get back together or tell her to BOUNCE!!
 
True story…
Broke up with this chick because she needed to explore her relationship with a high being (Zen Buddhism) I was a big sexual “distraction” form her real nirvana…
OK cool im not one to hold people back. I called a few time after to check on her, she told me to BOUNCE and gave me back all my shit
Since then I have got here a job, help her mom move, drove her friend to the hospital and we haven’t spoken. I don’t give a fuck that she hasn’t even called to say thank you for any of that WHY because I’ve moved on and calling and texting her makes me fell and sound sad and pathetic.
 
one more thing...
Who the fuck cares that she has a new man or whatever… let me tell you something! the same why dude want to call a ex to have the sexual need fulfilled is the same way chicks call to have there emotional fiends fixed, she calling you for you to listen to the relationship bullshit but withdrawing the sexual aspect

So you tell that chick if I have to go to bgol and jerk off, you need to get a journal or something and write down how your day was because a nigga just don’t give a fuck!!!
 
dude you totally missed the point
homeboy is 100% correct!
WHY did you break up if all you want to do is get back together

thats why people stay if fucked up abusive relationship they don’t have any self respect or know there self worth

It really is simple either you’ll need to work it out and get back together or tell her to BOUNCE!!

Never once said or stated I want to get back together. Nor did I give her thee impression I want to. Going over board
 
one more thing...
Who the fuck cares that she has a new man or whatever… let me tell you something! the same why dude want to call a ex to have the sexual need fulfilled is the same way chicks call to have there emotional fiends fixed, she calling you for you to listen to the relationship bullshit but withdrawing the sexual aspect

So you tell that chick if I have to go to bgol and jerk off, you need to get a journal or something and write down how your day was because a nigga just don’t give a fuck!!!

I don't care that she has a man. I had to mention her new boyfriend to explain how she is trying to make me jealous and then trying to lead me to some other shit. I'm over her. I expect to fuck if we are going to remain friends and she wants to flip flop with this shit. I don't care I have tons of self respect. I said she's trying to make me jealous not she's making me jealous. Sometimes I don't know if it's me not making sense or ya'll not understanding what I type. Maybe I'm misunderstood or maybe I'm not as good at expressing myself. :dunno: but the part where she wants me to be her shoulder, yeah it seems like that sometimes. And she flip flops and seems like she wants to fuck, then she flip flops and seems like she wants to make me jealous.
 
It's an ex. One minute she's telling me how great this guy is, next minute she accuses me of lieing when she asks have I been seeing any girls lately and I say no, next minute she's asking why I don't text her, next minute she's asking what do I want from her when I ask her about why she did me dirty. I confronted her about this and I basically said: 'one minute it seems like ur trying to make me jealous and try to get me to step my game up to get you back, next minute it seems like you don't want me and then it seems like u just want to be friends. Knowing u ur emotions change like the weather so it could be all of them, just a matter of how u feel that day'. She said 'your usually pretty good at reading me so what emotion am I on right now'. I don't know what the hell to make out of this I just started to ignore her recently.
dude, she is using you for some attention...

the first time she contacted you after x amount of weeks after the breakup with some sideways shit was a way to see if she could still pull your strings...

now whenever she wants a laugh, or some attention by a man she doesnt desire to boost her ego, she hits you up.....

take all the shit she is doing as fake, from the compliments to her inane small talk...she is stringing you along and dont be suprised if she makes up some victim story about the dude fucking her to provoke you to put your cape on.

flip flopping is a sign of an ulterior motive...
 
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