When A Man Cuts A Woman Off Completely

[A to Dah K]

STOP ANSWERING HER CALLS/TEXTS EMAILS.

WHY DO YALL KEEP CALLING AND INSIST THERE MUST BE SOME SORT OF CONVERSATION?
EVEN MONTHS LATER?

 

[youngfocus]

closeure

 

[PC Freak]

apparently she not over you........

 

[Rick Ronson]

STOP ANSWERING HER CALLS/TEXTS EMAILS.

WHY DO YALL KEEP CALLING AND INSIST THERE MUST BE SOME SORT OF CONVERSATION?
EVEN MONTHS LATER?

If none of your exes ever call you again what does that say

Says a hell of a lot about how superficial these relationships are.

You know these relationships be some childish bullshit they way most are
accustomed to doing it.....Thats why so many people are spinning
their wheels out here...Many people just go through the motions knowing
damn well they have never been able to keep any one or be happy with
one person.....

men and women of todays society have a primitive way of dealing with
each other that hasn't evolved

 

[A to Dah K]

MIND U
I CAUGHT THE BITCH CREEPING
END UP SLAPPING HER IN THE FACE
DISRESPECTING HER IN EVERY ASPECT,USING ALL KINDA PERSONAL SHIT AGAINTS HER,EMAILED HOMEGROWNS I HAD OF HER TO HER FRIENDS. THEN I BOUNCED FROM HER SPOT AND NEVER ANSWERED NONE OF HER CALLS AGAIN.BLOCKED HER FROM TEXTING ME ETC ETC.
I THINK THIS BITCH IS CRAZY,FROM THE MESSAGES SHE BE LEAVING ME.

 

[Buttnaked]

MIND U
I CAUGHT THE BITCH CREEPING
END UP SLAPPING HER IN THE FACE
DISRESPECTING HER IN EVERY ASPECT,USING ALL KINDA PERSONAL SHIT AGAINTS HER,EMAILED HOMEGROWNS I HAD OF HER TO HER FRIENDS. THEN I BOUNCED FROM HER SPOT AND NEVER ANSWERED NONE OF HER CALLS AGAIN.BLOCKED HER FROM TEXTING ME ETC ETC.
I THINK THIS BITCH IS CRAZY,FROM THE MESSAGES SHE BE LEAVING ME.

i hate to break it to you, but there's nothing to think about. also, while you're at it, you may want to recognize that crazy people generally only fuck w/other crazy people...

the level of crazy may drastically vary, but people w/sense don't usually fuck w/crazy people.

i know this because i know i'm throwed the fuck off & i've essentially fucked w/various levels of throwed the fuck off women over the years...

i ain't mad...as you grow you know...

 

[Cleopatra_J]

MIND U
I CAUGHT THE BITCH CREEPING
END UP SLAPPING HER IN THE FACE
DISRESPECTING HER IN EVERY ASPECT,USING ALL KINDA PERSONAL SHIT AGAINTS HER,EMAILED HOMEGROWNS I HAD OF HER TO HER FRIENDS. THEN I BOUNCED FROM HER SPOT AND NEVER ANSWERED NONE OF HER CALLS AGAIN.BLOCKED HER FROM TEXTING ME ETC ETC.
I THINK THIS BITCH IS CRAZY,FROM THE MESSAGES SHE BE LEAVING ME.

Wow !! that's so mean but

There must be something she wants .. I think if she's reaching out, she has an agenda ...

 

[A to Dah K]

i hate to break it to you, but there's nothing to think about. also, while you're at it, you may want to recognize that crazy people generally only fuck w/other crazy people...

the level of crazy may drastically vary, but people w/sense don't usually fuck w/crazy people.

i know this because i know i'm throwed the fuck off & i've essentially fucked w/various levels of throwed the fuck off women over the years...

i ain't mad...as you grow you know...

yea and crazy relationships usually last the longest cause crazy pple are co-dependent on each other.
im a little "weird" but im not co-dependent on any psycho behavior.
am done with the bitch!
i just want a females perspective and WTF be going through yall mind? this is not the first time i encountered this

 

[mrjody]

You put up with her crazies more than the last few niggas she enountered after your split. You took her seriously.

Once a female is single and hits the bricks and realizes other niggas aint havin it, she wants to return to a cat that will. You validated her.

Without a man most chicks have no bearing. She needs you to stabilize her enough(mentally) to get back out there.

She needs you to be the dartboard for her craziness to get it out of her system, so she can seem "normal" for the next "dupe"

 

[Naha-Nago]

You put up with her crazies more than the last few niggas she enountered after your split. You took her seriously.

Once a female is single and hits the bricks and realizes other niggas aint havin it, she wantings to return to a cat that will. You validated her.

Without a man most chicks have no bearing. She needs you to stabilize her enough(mentally) to get back out there.

She needs you to be the dartboard for her craziness to get it out of her system, so she can seem "normal" for the next "dupe"

This right here is TRUTH.COM

*two cents*

 

[A to Dah K]

You put up with her crazies more than the last few niggas she enountered after your split. You took her seriously.

Once a female is single and hits the bricks and realizes other niggas aint havin it, she wants to return to a cat that will. You validated her.

Without a man most chicks have no bearing. She needs you to stabilize her enough(mentally) to get back out there.

She needs you to be the dartboard for her craziness to get it out of her system, so she can seem "normal" for the next "dupe"

imma help her out alright
imma drive her ass crazy forreal
when she calls imma start answering and saying shit like
i`ll call u back in 5 mins and hang up
and never call back

 

[mrjody]

imma help her out alright
imma drive her ass crazy forreal
when she calls imma start answering and saying shit like
i`ll call u back in 5 mins and hang up
and never call back

If you spent any amount of time with her,
then you know crazy is contagious.

The absoloute best thing for you to do is
to keep having no contact.
ZERO, my dude. Let the voice mail get that.

And you gotta leave the pussy alone.
That is imperative.

 

[dHustla]

MIND U
I CAUGHT THE BITCH CREEPING
END UP SLAPPING HER IN THE FACE
DISRESPECTING HER IN EVERY ASPECT,USING ALL KINDA PERSONAL SHIT AGAINTS HER,EMAILED HOMEGROWNS I HAD OF HER TO HER FRIENDS. THEN I BOUNCED FROM HER SPOT AND NEVER ANSWERED NONE OF HER CALLS AGAIN.BLOCKED HER FROM TEXTING ME ETC ETC.
I THINK THIS BITCH IS CRAZY,FROM THE MESSAGES SHE BE LEAVING ME.

For my own mental rolodex, how do you block someone from texting you?

 

[dHustla]

imma help her out alright
imma drive her ass crazy forreal
when she calls imma start answering and saying shit like
i`ll call u back in 5 mins and hang up
and never call back

you Kra-zy!

 

[Noir]

For my own mental rolodex, how do you block someone from texting you?

Depending on your provider I think you can either block phone numbers via the website or by calling customer service. I have Verizon and I think it can be done online for them.

 

[Mo-Better]

apparently she not over you........

Wow !! that's so mean but

There must be something she wants .. I think if she's reaching out, she has an agenda ...

She may be the type that won't accept being dumped. I know a couple had an on and off relationship for several years and its always been the girl that's done the dumping. Finally the guy says "enough" and dumped her. She then went off the deep end. When he moved half way across the country and she had the nerve to follow him. She could not stand the fact he dumped her.

 

[Mr MajestiK]

MIND U
I CAUGHT THE BITCH CREEPING
END UP SLAPPING HER IN THE FACE
DISRESPECTING HER IN EVERY ASPECT,USING ALL KINDA PERSONAL SHIT AGAINTS HER,EMAILED HOMEGROWNS I HAD OF HER TO HER FRIENDS. THEN I BOUNCED FROM HER SPOT AND NEVER ANSWERED NONE OF HER CALLS AGAIN.BLOCKED HER FROM TEXTING ME ETC ETC.
I THINK THIS BITCH IS CRAZY,FROM THE MESSAGES SHE BE LEAVING ME.

She will kill you............slowly.

Women tend to take their time when plotting revenge.

Based on what you did to humiliate her within her own social circle, it's obvious this chick is just waiting for a chance to clean your clock.

 

[LoneStar29]

END UP SLAPPING HER IN THE FACE
DISRESPECTING HER IN EVERY ASPECT,USING ALL KINDA PERSONAL SHIT AGAINTS HER,EMAILED HOMEGROWNS I HAD OF HER TO HER FRIENDS.

Sounds like she isn't the only crazy one * gives side eye*

LOL

Anyways

Just sounds like she needs closure IMO

 

[Rudey]

Just sounds like she needs closure IMO

If the verbal and physical abuse weren't enough closure, I don't know what will be.

 

[LoneStar29]

If the verbal and physical abuse weren't enough closure, I don't know what will be.

Word

She just sounds young and naive to me

She may even think all the abuse is cuz he is emotional and still likes her and maybe that is why she is still sweatin' him

The young female mind rationalizes things in very odd ways :shrug: Glad I grew out of that shit ... finally lmao

 

[A to Dah K]

Word

She just sounds young and naive to me

She may even think all the abuse is cuz he is emotional and still likes her and maybe that is why she is still sweatin' him

The young female mind rationalizes things in very odd ways :shrug: Glad I grew out of that shit ... finally lmao

bitch is 30
im 28
i think she finally gave up

 

[ManowarSSS]

Damn...I needed the responses in this thread more than the op....thanks a lot.

 

[melonpecan]

I'm going to go with Cleo on this and say she has an agenda.



If you left her place I'm assuming you have nothing of hers that she really wants. So either she is going to kill you slowly as stated earlier or...she misses your sex? Cause ya'll both crazy?












Hell I don't know. Ask that bitch next time she call you from her friends phone what the fuck she want. It's one thing to try to communicate, (she might be remorseful?), but if she leaving crazy messages sort that shit out.

 

[harlem1nyc]

STOP ANSWERING HER CALLS/TEXTS EMAILS.

WHY DO YALL KEEP CALLING AND INSIST THERE MUST BE SOME SORT OF CONVERSATION?
EVEN MONTHS LATER?

Partly:
Closure
Selfishness
Refusal to concede unless it's on her terms (see selfishness)!

 

[A to Dah K]

finally had to answer the psycho's call and tell her,its over get over it & move on

 

[dHustla]

wow. after 6 months?

 

[A to Dah K]

wow. after 6 months?

i just wanted to her stop calling me man
she called me and left me a civilized message saying she had something to say and she would please like me to hear her out and if i could please call her back when i got a chance.

so i called her back the next day.
shes like,im sorry,im not like that,you had a right to be upset,yada yada yada and i hope that we can somehow be friends.

i let her know i was happy for everything that happened and i had no respect for her and we have no chance of being friend,i gave u ur opportunity to speak,now move on.

ice cold baby

 

[bborn]

peace

i just wanted to her stop calling me man
she called me and left me a civilized message saying she had something to say and she would please like me to hear her out and if I could please call her back when I got a chance.

so I called her back the next day.
shes like, Im sorry, Im not like that, you had a right to be upset, yada yada yada and i hope that we can somehow be friends.

I let her know I was happy for everything that happened and I had no respect for her and we have no chance of being friend, I gave u ur opportunity to speak, now move on.

ice cold baby

Maybe Ice cold to U but I would NOT be suprised if she tried u again in the future in attempt to catch u @ a weak, soft moment to gain ground while benefitting & feeding her twisted ego;

I've cut a chick off from taking her calls & text for longer than that(6 mos) which aint stop her;
'Crazy' fits 'crazy' like someone already stated but some folk are more extreme than others;
some people dont play that stupid shit, ready to get REAL Crazy in response to certain dumb shit.
& I dont give 4 shits about her bitch assed passed men who backslapped her all over the place or mishandled her silly ass as deep down inside she may have provoked & thrived off of their silly shit; wasnt no jaws broke nor teeth missing so maybe its their form of foreplay nor care

Recently dealt the final hand with a stupid bird who I called out doing dumb shit (typing nonsensical letters & playing the victim) & her silly ass told me EVERYTHING else in the world but what I specifically asked her about; that delusional disfunctional shit is dangerous to me & I cant fuck with it.

The real IceCold is when u shut down & dont allow ANYTHING she says, does, acts out or think to affect u like nothing ever happened, forcing that hand, then still not giving a fuck whether they react(jump off a bridge or turn into a nun) or not while living a healthy life. Ice Cold would be to hang up while she's explaining shit as u rudely are doing something else all up in her ear like chewing gum, talking to someone & not paying that bullshit any mind.

peace

 

[dHustla]

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[swiftandsilent]

MIND U
I CAUGHT THE BITCH CREEPING
END UP SLAPPING HER IN THE FACE
DISRESPECTING HER IN EVERY ASPECT,USING ALL KINDA PERSONAL SHIT AGAINTS HER,EMAILED HOMEGROWNS I HAD OF HER TO HER FRIENDS. THEN I BOUNCED FROM HER SPOT AND NEVER ANSWERED NONE OF HER CALLS AGAIN.BLOCKED HER FROM TEXTING ME ETC ETC.
I THINK THIS BITCH IS CRAZY,FROM THE MESSAGES SHE BE LEAVING ME.

Wow !! that's so mean but

There must be something she wants .. I think if she's reaching out, she has an agenda ...

Do not go back, it will not be pretty.

 

[GET YOU HOT]

When the cheater, becomes the victim...of their own circumstance...

 

[stickyfingerz]

pics

 

[yureeka9]

Post the pics!

 

[charlie dark]

MIND U
I CAUGHT THE BITCH CREEPING
END UP SLAPPING HER IN THE FACE
DISRESPECTING HER IN EVERY ASPECT,USING ALL KINDA PERSONAL SHIT AGAINTS HER,EMAILED HOMEGROWNS I HAD OF HER TO HER FRIENDS. THEN I BOUNCED FROM HER SPOT AND NEVER ANSWERED NONE OF HER CALLS AGAIN.BLOCKED HER FROM TEXTING ME ETC ETC.
I THINK THIS BITCH IS CRAZY,FROM THE MESSAGES SHE BE LEAVING ME.

Maybe she wants to kill you...?