what works when she says she feels fat
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Don't lie. Just say "You look good at any size" and let it go. Unless... you really think she's fat. Then say, "Well what are you going to do to get to the size you want to be?"as far as words go?Suggestions
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Very effectiveMc-G!!! You should never say something like that! Why did you tell him that
............Well' you don't look that fat.
Or say you don't feel fat you feel soft.
I say-tell her she is tripping and that like Followup said that she will look good at any size. But if you want something that will work w/o having to say too much...Ater sex when you are about to get dressed or maybe something to drink for round 2 grab her and pull her in front of the mirror while she doesnt have on any clothes. Stand in back of her and lean over her shoulder and say...Dayum we look good together. Or dayum look at you baby, I need some more....Something like that to boost her ego and make her feel sexy. If she decides to loose weight make sure you are not part of the reason why.
if she's fat tell her she's fat and ask her if she needs help with weight loss. i learned the hard way when i wasn't honest with an ex. she ballooned and i didn't like the way she looked. paid for weight watchers, exercise equipment, but it didn't help. best to nip it in the bud early rather and bear the burden later.
I say-tell her she is tripping and that like Followup said that she will look good at any size. But if you want something that will work w/o having to say too much...After sex when you are about to get dressed or maybe something to drink for round 2 grab her and pull her in front of the mirror while she doesnt have on any clothes. Stand in back of her and lean over her shoulder and say...Dayum we look good together. Or dayum look at you baby, I need some more....Something like that to boost her ego and make her feel sexy. If she decides to loose weight make sure you are not part of the reason why.
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Dem thangs is nasty.
Ms. Femme has a good point.
The next time she thinks she's fat suggest ya'll go running together. You don't have to agree she looks fat, (even if she is), but wanting to be proactive in changing her appearance by positive means can make a difference.
There is a couple of things I don't understand......
1. Where is the strength that women claim? Why do you need someone to motivate you to want better health?
2. Why do I need to babysit you to work on your health considering the public knowledge about the rates of diabetes, obesity etc in the black community?
3. If you can't exercise enough discipline to change your eating habits then what the hell will you be feeding any potential children?
4. Food is about nutrition. If you don't get the importance then step.
5. Moderate exercise is important. If you don't get the importance then step.
Are these adult females we are talking about?
1. Where is the strength that women claim? Why do you need someone to motivate you to want better health?
2. Why do I need to babysit you to work on your health considering the public knowledge about the rates of diabetes, obesity etc in the black community?
3. If you can't exercise enough discipline to change your eating habits then what the hell will you be feeding any potential children?
4. Food is about nutrition. If you don't get the importance then step.
5. Moderate exercise is important. If you don't get the importance then step.
Are these adult females we are talking about?
how about the truth....
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