What usually gets you women in the mood for sex? What are your sweet spots? Etc.

[shams]

First and foremost, I must say that this board has given me great ideas. Thanks so far ladies.

Anyways, I've been talking to this girl for a few months and she is very situational when it comes to initiating sex with her. She is sensitive in the usual hot spots like the neck, breast, ass, etc, but sometimes she can be turned off very easily. We are the same age, but she usually has dated older men in the past, and she keeps telling me how older men know how and where to touch a woman. We have alot of sex already, but I wouldn't mine more. I've never had a problem initiating sex with women, even older women, but she definitely has been the biggest challenge.

Are any of you ladies the same when it comes to sex? What turns you on? What are your hotspots, and what situations automatically get you in the mood. Also, what may get you in the mood during a time where you may not initially feel like having sex?

Thanks in advance

 

[HoneyDip]

i personally like to kiss lol... i know that sounds simple but it turns me on. i'm not talkin bout no pecks either i'm talking bout some young ball sittin on the couch makin out lol... that shit never gets old to me

 

[Izayoi]

A good dinner makes me feel like showing some love.
A man that can cook

Laughter makes me want to get it to.
It is true if a man can make you laugh he can make you do almost anything. Plus if a woman is turned off it may not be sexual, some off the wall thing may have just got on her nerves. If you can lighten the mood, make her smile then you are back on the field.

....and porn (written or visual).

I have no particular hot spot. Physically, it's all a hot spot when you want some. The best hot spot is the brain- if you got mind control skills, you can have pussy on a string anytime anyway you want it.

Good luck to you.

 

[IntelligentDyme]

Of course, I am sensitive in the usual places (breast, neck, etc. ) But I like to get kissed and licked on the unusual places, like my joints, behind my knees, my elbows, and around and underneath my breasts (most men go straight for the nipples--u should tease and move your tongue around the entire breasts, such a turn on)... I love being kissed and licked on my ears.....and some soft dirty talk in between kisses..i also like to watch a man stroke his dick....thats really sexy to me...a little blue box never hurt either

 

[Izayoi]

I also like to watch a man stroke his dick....thats really sexy to me..

Ditto! That is so so hot- knew a guy that whenever we had phone sex he would put it between his legs so I could listen to the squishy sounds of the lotion as he stroked his dick....*sigh* I miss that ninja.

Men, why do you keep your dick strokin a secret? It's not like we don't know you do it. Can't we play nice together sometimes

 

[IntelligentDyme]

Ditto! That is so so hot- knew a guy that whenever we had phone sex he would put it between his legs so I could listen to the squishy sounds of the lotion as he stroked his dick....*sigh* I miss that ninja.

Men, why do you keep your dick strokin a secret? It's not like we don't know you do it. Can't we play nice together sometimes

It's so funny you said that...Had this convo with my man a few weeks while out of town...having phone sex....and he doesn't want me to know he is playing with his dick...im like well why the hell not....i like it, it's sexy...he said he didn't know if I would...Im like well what the hell did you think phone sex was for...lol....now he let's me listen and does it in front of me...maybe they just dont know that it's a turn on..I had to tell him i like to hear him moan too...I think men don't realize that the things that turn them on about us are the same thing that turns us on about them....sometimes you just have to spell it out for them...

 

[Izayoi]

..Im like well what the hell did you think phone sex was for.

Sometimes they really don't know no better.
Poor babies!

 

[Bushido Brown]

...a little blue box never hurt either

Whats a "blue box"???

 

[IntelligentDyme]

Whats a "blue box"???

LoL a Tiffany's box (no, not a girl, the jewelry store)

 

[GET YOU HOT]

When he is not besides me,
Cup cakin' type talk, mental foreplay, like "how's your day going?", "what are you doing right now?", "take a picture for me", "what are you doing later on?" "are you home now?", "did you just wake up?", "is it okay, if I come by?", "do you need anything?", all in that type of, I already know the answer, confident male voice, like I know the vibe you give off and we are on the same page, mmmmm...!

 

[femmenoire]

Stroking my face with his hand
kissing on my neck ever so lightly
biting my booty cheeks
rubbing my feet
rubbing my thighs
a strong gaze into my eyes
hugging and feeling his hardness through our clothes
if he talks passionately about something he wants to do or something he wishes to change in his life

 

[NICKLEBAGKILLA]

i also like to watch a man stroke his dick....thats really sexy to me...a little blue box never hurt either

My granddaddy told me "if you ever got a woman who won't give you none... pull out your dick and beat it in front of her - she'll go crazy everytime."

 

[IntelligentDyme]

My granddaddy told me "if you ever got a woman who won't give you none... pull out your dick and beat it in front of her - she'll go crazy everytime."

Your grandaddy is a wise man.....that will have me licking my lips in no time...

 

[OutlawR.O.C.]

Some spots i've noticed chicks likes besides the obvious (breasts, neck)are the crack of the back,right down the middle, I start at the top between the shoulder blades and slowly work my way down to her lower back, also behind the knees, I did this once just playing around and the chick loved it, and i've done it ever since. I've also noticed that kissing and licking not just the ear but behind the ear while whispering some freaky shit drives women wild. Also while passionately kissing I'll stop and lick and suck on the chicks lips then gently bite and suck her bottom lip once and a while, always works for me.