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What is your dealbreaker?

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You know the one thing that you absolutely will not tolerate and will call it quits no matter how great the sex and the relationship is?

On the other hand, what is your dealmaker? The one thing that makes all the bad qualities and characteristics seem insignificant?
 
Dealbreaker:

1.Nasty attitude having complainers. The kind of ninja where you can buy him 8 of 10 of his favorite foods and all he wants to talk about is the two things you didn't buy :hmm:

2.Extreme Jealousy- that's pre-stalker type behavior. Every instance of domestic violence I ever witnessed usually started out with a man acting crazy jealous and then things escalated from there.

3.Cruelty to animals, old people, or kids. Mean people suck in general but people that beat the shit out there dog or humiliate their children or elders in public, can't tolerate them :smh:

Dealmaker:

1.Witty and funny :)
 
Dealbreakers

1. Excessively freaky women- I just like it consistent in the bedroom, no surprises

2. Promise Breakers- I can't stand if a woman can't stick to her commitments. How do I know she can stick to us??

3. Bossiness- The ones always demanding things of you. Cook this, do this. say this, wear this. STFU.

Dealmakers:

1. Light-skin- can't help it.
 
1. Liars...especially those men who are GOOD at lying, and have done so in the past. I will always doubt you.
2. Cheaters...usually goes hand and hand with the lying. Life is too short to waste on someone who can't be faithful. NEXT!
 
Several things, but one that gets me is when people fight dirty. When they're mad, they hit below the belt and say shit that is totally uncalled for...unforgivable in my book.
 
breaker: lack of commitment to me (my happiness) and the relationship
maker: devout commitment

if you think about it that is where are the problems lie...
 
breakers

rudeness - I took a young lady to dinner (many years ago) and her steak wasn't done to her liking. She blasted the waiter and insulted the young girl (a sister, no less). I tried to smooth it out, but my date wasn't hearing it. I calmly got up, handed the waitress $50, paid her for the meal and left my date sitting there.

attention-whores & drama queens - nuff said

verbal assault - some women don't realize that words can be worse that a punch. sometimes you just don't go there.
 
breakers:

men who have kids and don't take care of em
men who have over 2 different baby mommas
men who don't own shoes
bad teeth, bad breath
men who constantly refer to women as bitches
fronters, perpetrators, loud mouths and hotheads
I absolutely loathe BRAGGERS & BOASTERS
cheap men



makers:

great smile
men who volunteer, especially with kids
men who are just as knowledgeable as I am, if not more, about a variety of topics
men who aren't afraid to dance
confidence
sense of humor and wit
 
Dealbreaker:
-Liars. I don't care what the hell you lie about, but if I have to question the validity of anything you say, I can't be bothered with you.
-Lazy asses. This goes for personal life a well as our relationship. If you have no vigor for life, just waiting for things to happen or to be handed to you, I can't do it.
-Cheaters
-Financially irresponsible

Dealmaker:
-If my friends like you, you're good to go. They are the BEST judges of character, and if they see something shady about a person, they are right.
-Outwardly affectionate. I don't mean PDA, but come over to me and give me a peck on the cheek out of the blue. I love when a man does little things to show me he cares.
 
Dealbreakers
- If you don't like Peanut Butter Cap N' Crunch Cereal....I know it fucks up the roof of your mouth but still.....love is pain baby....

- If you don't know 3 of these Dances...1. The DooDoo Brown 2. One Leg Up 3. Da Dip (popularized by FreakNasty in Atlanta)

- Listening to your friends all of the time....most of them are lonely man-hating curmudgeons that are bat shit crazy and scare men off or either so standoffish that they are waiting for "Prince Charming" to come and they end up being 60 and single living in a log cabin on a hill with 20 siamese cats.

- Financially Null.....you don't have a job and are not in school and scared to sign a prenup? Something smells of Albacore here Watson.......

- Insisting on taking me to chick flicks and demanding that i stay awake to watch them.....yeah you go ahead and swoon at Morris Chestnut I'll be in the lobby next door watching "Shoot Em' Up"

- Bossiness.....relationships are about teamwork.

- Dont dress like a skank all off the time, leave something to the imagination please.

- Quit being such a tightass....you only live once, act a nut every now and then, you cant be a walking Loreal commercial all day....laugh a lil'



Deal Makers

- I love a woman with a sense of humor that trumps damn near everything
 
Lying, cheating, belligernce (sp?), smoking (cigarettes), flat booty :smh:




A woman who caters to my every whim no questions asked
 
Dealbreakers
1.) Cheaters ! You cheat one time and you might as well leave, because the excuses will be ignored !!

2.) Selfish

3.) Bitter-I can't stand bitter people...:smh:

4.) Uptight

5.) Careless with money

6.) Bossy

Dealmakers
1.) Sense of humor

2.) Patience- I admire patient people (I have to work on mine everyday)

3.) sense of community

4.) Good with children
 
dealbreaker..
1.)a lady who dont like to clean up!
I was talking to this nice,smart ,young lady once..
Went to her place and before i left,, i had washed the dishes and cleaned up her kitchen.
I dont care what you do inside your house,but you Kitchen and your Bathroom have to be clean,that says a lot to me..


Dealmaker

Depends on if the crib clean,then i can work with the rest..lolol
 
Dealbreaker:
1. A controlling man. I have a father, a good one. I'm not looking for another one; thanks.

2. Lack of ANY work ethic. DON'T BE LAZY; this shows to me a lot about your ambition and how you would look at different issues in our relationship. It's ok to feel stressed and/or to be in a bad predicament for a time. BUT, if it's consistently like that, maybe the problem lies with you.

Dealmaker:

1. A sense of humor. Life gets hard; be able to laugh at it sometimes.
 
Dealbreaker?
Hmmmmmmmmmmm

Nymphomania- I love sex like most humans but i am not in love with sex. If I need to run an IV into my dick to keep up with you it aint happening.

Self Centred- I have a mortgage,car loan,credit card,education and my life to live. Yes i want to enjoy the finer things in life but the simple things in life are what i can afford now.

Bitterness- No i am not the guy who fucked you and left you with a child to raise on your own. I can and will only accept the blame for my actions not those of others before me.

Dealmaker?
A genuine and caring personality.
 
Dealbreaker:

Women that think they're so beautiful that they can have a bad attitude: I rather be with an ugly woman than one with a bad attitude!

Dealmaker:
Being humble. I don't need beauty it fades away.
 
Deal Breakers:

- Bad Sex... I can't really be with someone if we don't connect sexually
-Bad Skin ... I've heard from some credible sources that proactive really does preserve your sexy... get with it!!
-Sometimey-ness... I can't deal with someone who doesn't know what they want.. eventually on your off time when you're deciding what you want... I'll lose interest, get ya act right..
- People who ain't about shit... have some goals... don't just be content with where you are, especially if its not where you want to be.. Don't talk about how you hate your job, do something to change it...


Makers:

-Sense of Humor... I love to laugh, you should too.. let's jus be silly
-Nice style.. i love someone with a nice sense of style.. you even know how to make a pair of sweat pants sexy!
-Good Health - There is nothing attractive about someone who eats every meal at a take out/fast food restaurant... NOTHING! I like someone who eats fruit, whole grains.. and likes to try diff. things..
 
Breakers:

Cigarette Smokers - No explanation needed
Overly reserved women - I go at full speed and if you can't keep up then don't take the wheel
Women that don't work - I hate a female that sits in the house all day. I don't want you sitting around all day waiting for me to get home. Get a job.
Overly Independent Women - The "I don't need a man type" Fuck that I am as self sufficient as they come and i NEEEEEED a woman.

Makers:

A similar taste in music to me
Someone that likes different foods beside the typical things
Being outspoken - Let me know what your all about
A Natural woman (which I have yet to find yet) - Give me some curly hair, no weave, no make-up, healthy and a splash of Afrocentricity and I'll love you forever.
 
Breakers:

1 A chick that gets jealous over time you spend with your kids from a previous relationship

2 Bossy and complaining you can't change me and I ain't trying to change you

3 lazy in the sack


Makers:

1 watch more than soap operas on tv so you can carry a conversation

2 ability to cook more than microwave dinners

3 freak in the sheets

4 body like miss mousey:yes:
 
1. Wanna be Diva Type
  • those girls that know they look good and that every guy they meet since they were 13 has wanted to fucked them, so now they just treat every guy they meet like shit.

2. Stuck in the Hood Mind Set Type
  • grown ass woman still sitting in the housing every day worrying about what happening on Jerry Springer and Maury or who got in a fight at the club last week. .... It so much more to life than what happening on the block !!!!

3. Smokers
  • of any kind, not just cigarettes
 
A woman that knows nothing besides what she sees on television and what she hears on the radio.

Everybody gets 24 hours, if she throwing the majority of hers away on t.v. then it's not even worth my time.
 
KW13537 said:
breakers

rudeness - I took a young lady to dinner (many years ago) and her steak wasn't done to her liking. She blasted the waiter and insulted the young girl (a sister, no less). I tried to smooth it out, but my date wasn't hearing it. I calmly got up, handed the waitress $50, paid her for the meal and left my date sitting there.

attention-whores & drama queens - nuff said

verbal assault - some women don't realize that words can be worse that a punch. sometimes you just don't go there.
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Co-sign on these.
Other factors:
Smokers (cigarettes or otherwise drugs are a no-no to me)
Those that feel the need to have a group of people in their personal business. 50 people have no business knowing what's going on between the 2 of us.
 
Deal Breakers

-Hard drug use. Weed is okay, hallucinogenics are okay, x is okay if we're doing it together. Coke (in any form), heroin, or meth will get you dumped right there and then.

-Baby Daddy Drama. get shit straight with your ex before you start bringing your kids near my home. I'm not going out like Ron Goldman.

-Bugging me for more babies. I already have two kids. I'm not having any more. Don't ask again and don't press the issue.

-Intolerance. I don't mind people who tell the odd racist joke, but if you're actively trying to make life difficult for a certain group of people it's over. I have close friends of all backgrounds, ages, and orientations. If they want to second guess me it should be for something I said or did, not my woman.

Deal Makers

-Good conversation. I love to talk. If you can keep an intelligent conversation going long enough you'll probably be my next wife.

-Open mindedness. There's few things sexier than a black woman who loves hockey

-Good drinkers. The best way to test a woman's character is to get completely loaded with her. If it's a good time then love is sure to follow

-Blatant honesty. So long as you're tactful

-Creativity. Sing, play an instrument, or at least write some good poetry. There's nothing more intimate than creating art with someone.
 
Dealbreaker....Smoking and stank puss (I mean the unnatural stank), just very UNSEXY to me
 
breakers

-no job
-baby momma drama
-men with 2 earrings in their ear
-ghettoness(there is a time and place for everything)
-ignorant
-can't cook (most important)

makers

-sexy lips
-tall(anything over 4'10" Im short)
-nice butt
-educated
-sense of humor
-sensual
-able to deal with my mood swings:D

and the list goes on... but I am not typing anymore
 
Dealbreaker:

A woman with a bad child/children - I prefer a woman with no kids, but hey things happen, Dealt with a good girl was considering making her wifey, but her bad ass son (he was 4)...was THE reason I cut her off, and the fact she was not trying to control him...nah i'm' good.

Closed minded women


women with no sense of humor/uptight women


Women who don't communicate


Pessimistic/negative women - STOP! Do not pass GO!


Jealous/insecure/stalker women



Non-affectionate women - I dealt with a few, it's like sleeping next to a manikin


Vindictive women - nuff said


Manipulative women


Dealmakers:

Affectionate women


beautiful smile/nice teeth/nice lips


almond shaped eyes


Women who do things for you "just because"


women who at times take the initiative/assertive


optimistic women


Mental stimulation/conversation/communicative -


women with ambition


A woman who can fit into any situation


women with a youthful essence to them/ playful (not acting 20 years older than you are)

sexy women


open minded

A woman who makes me laugh without even trying (ok, even if she tried and it's corny, atleast you tried...E for effort. I'll accept that.)
 
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SEXY_SCORPIO said:
breakers

-no job
-baby momma drama
-men with 2 earrings in their ear
-ghettoness(there is a time and place for everything)
-ignorant
-can't cook (most important)

makers

-sexy lips
-tall(anything over 4'10" Im short)
-nice butt
-educated
-sense of humor
-sensual
-able to deal with my mood swings:D

and the list goes on... but I am not typing anymore
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U must've read my profile...;)
 
Betrayal in any form though for me is the ultimate dealbreaker whether it be emotional, physical or financial.

If she is in love with someone else do not lie to me and tell me you love me.

Your pussy is your own but if I am fucking,licking or even biting it do not let anybody else have access to it unless it is a medical exam from a licensed doctor.

Financial explains itself. I think.
 

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