How would you women prefer us to be?
What is it about men you dislike?
- Thread starter Mr.Bizkits
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Just be yourself-there is someone for everyone..
But your question is conflicting-You title is "What is it about men that you dislike-My answer to that is men who are more emotional than women. Men who cant take no for an answer-you know when a woman stops talking to you and you get mad about it? So you start acting like a child? A BIG turn off....
But your question is conflicting-You title is "What is it about men that you dislike-My answer to that is men who are more emotional than women. Men who cant take no for an answer-you know when a woman stops talking to you and you get mad about it? So you start acting like a child? A BIG turn off....
But as far what would we prefer ya'll to be? Again just be yourself..
ok ok, now you want us men to be ourselves, because that's how you fall in love with us in the first place.
So why is it that women are always trying to change/upgrade men, when it was the original us that they fell in love with?
thx for your reply
yeah as usual you're right... it's part of philosophy class project to go on only pornboards and talk to perverts about their views on relationships.
yeah as usual you're right... it's part of philosophy class project to go on only pornboards and talk to perverts about their views on relationships.
peverts? hmmmm someone is a lil judgmental there
face it, the jig is up...just state ur angle
u make these posts and damn near no matter what anyone says, u have some "are u happy, i have the answer to ur unhappiness" type of retort to it
and it will go on and on for pages
so if u want this thread to be taken seriously u might want to start with picking a question, either the one in the thread title or the one inside
peverts? hmmmm someone is a lil judgmental there
face it, the jig is up...just state ur angle
u make these posts and damn near no matter what anyone says, u have some "are u happy, i have the answer to ur unhappiness" type of retort to it
and it will go on and on for pages
so if u want this thread to be taken seriously u might want to start with picking a question, either the one in the thread title or the one inside
I'm joking... lol.... are you always this serious w/ men... lighten up...
ok the point of my thread and angle was this....
State the things you dislike about men and then also state the things that you would like us to change about ourselves to satisfy women. simple as pie.
What kind of angle do you think i have?
ninja u done fucked up. like the shorty on the top said, just be yourself. ur just catering yourself to bitches who dont like you. eveybody gets rejected. no matter how much game or how much pussy you get, rejection is inevitable and its a part of the game. you can't prevent it(unless u stop talking to women), all u can do is decrease the amount of times u receive it. nobody likes to be rejected but thats what us men gotta deal with when your looking for a jumpoff or a wifey. Trust me your going to get your shares of rejection to the point where your not going to take females seriously no more and thats when your game and ego will get a huge boost. i know a few ninjas who got their heart broken by a female and now they're bagging chicks left to right, because they dont take them serious.(look @ the movie Hitch and see how will smith character became so good with females)
If your going to play a game be prepared to lose sometimes, because its impossible to be 10 for 10 or 25 for 25. And stop making the females the grand prize and make yourself the grandprize.
as for the "theres someone for everybody" qoute. if i had a dollar for the amount of times i hear a female saying that syht, I will have an Alex Rodriguez bank account.
. thats bullsyht.
If your going to play a game be prepared to lose sometimes, because its impossible to be 10 for 10 or 25 for 25. And stop making the females the grand prize and make yourself the grandprize.
as for the "theres someone for everybody" qoute. if i had a dollar for the amount of times i hear a female saying that syht, I will have an Alex Rodriguez bank account.
. thats bullsyht.
ninja u done fucked up. like the shorty on the top said, just be yourself. ur just catering yourself to bitches who dont like you. eveybody gets rejected. no matter how much game or how much pussy you get, rejection is inevitable and its a part of the game. you can't prevent it(unless u stop talking to women), all u can do is decrease the amount of times u receive it. nobody likes to be rejected but thats what us men gotta deal with when your looking for a jumpoff or a wifey. Trust me your going to get your shares of rejection to the point where your not going to take females seriously no more and thats when your game and ego will get a huge boost. i know a few ninjas who got their heart broken by a female and now they're bagging chicks left to right, because they dont take them serious.(look @ the movie Hitch and see how will smith character became so good with females)
If your going to play a game be prepared to lose sometimes, because its impossible to be 10 for 10 or 25 for 25. And stop making the females the grand prize and make yourself the grandprize.
as for the "theres someone for everybody" qoute. if i had a dollar for the amount of times i hear a female saying that syht, I will have an Alex Rodriguez bank account.
ok... I see what you're saying...
My thing is that no one should fear rejection, death, failure, disappointment, or poverty.
When you got a strong women w/ a strong man on her side... anything is possible....
look at the Obama's...
damn i dont know where to start
Let it die...
May be the best thing for this thread/series.
If the talk were ever on a real tip, these threads would not ALWAYS devolve to Men V. Women talks.
I enjoy conversations, confrontations are often a waste of time.
Use your own judgement.
ok dig this... confrontations are a good thing...
99.9% percent of the time... confrontations are the only way to get down to the real tip. Too much fakeness goes on. Getting down to the real tip is a good thing to me.
Besides we need more men v. women confrontations so we can get down to the real tip, and men and women won't be playing games with each other. Thus having real conversation that is.
The problem with confrontations is that people just get too emotional to come to rational constructive mutual agreements. That's why so many people are afraid to get down to the real tip in the first place, so the cop out and become fake because they're scared...
thx for your input...
ok dig this... confrontations are a good thing...
99.9% percent of the time... confrontations are the only way to get down to the real tip. Too much fakeness goes on. Getting down to the real tip is a good thing to me.
Besides we need more men v. women confrontations so we can get down to the real tip, and men and women won't be playing games with each other. Thus having real conversation that is.
The problem with confrontations is that people just get too emotional to come to rational constructive mutual agreements. That's why so many people are afraid to get down to the real tip in the first place, so the cop out and become fake because they're scared...
thx for your input...
We differ on defining a conversation.
I've confronted many opponents on issues where our positions differ at a cost I can't accept in acquiescing to any of my opponents views. If my sammich ain't right... IT AIN'T RIGHT! I defend that position til I get the sammich I requested... or my money back [and more, because its wrong to get my order wrong ever].
In a conversation, I fully consider the views of my fellow conversant. I want to understand fully the position of my conversant whether or not I agree. I exchange ideas to understand fully, without anger, animosity, "humor" or devaluation of any conversant.
When these types of threads start to devolve to "Bitches" and "Assholes" positions, I don't see the point.
But carry on if you like!
ok...ill bite 
i cant stand men who want to be the female and man in the relaitonships....
i cant stand uppity men in button downs who think they are God's gift to earth
i cant stand the fact they refuse to listen or address an issue...and get upset at the consequences for their neglect
i cant stand men who complain about not finding "good" women and they chase hoodrats
i cant stand dating a man who doesnt want to take things to the next level...so u move on...they they get upset thinking that u were always going to be avalible and they come at u with the "coulda shoulda": bullshit
shall i continue?
i cant stand men who want to be the female and man in the relaitonships....
i cant stand uppity men in button downs who think they are God's gift to earth
i cant stand the fact they refuse to listen or address an issue...and get upset at the consequences for their neglect
i cant stand men who complain about not finding "good" women and they chase hoodrats
i cant stand dating a man who doesnt want to take things to the next level...so u move on...they they get upset thinking that u were always going to be avalible and they come at u with the "coulda shoulda": bullshit
shall i continue?
I co-sign...
People just need to learn to keep the convo light and make sure there's good humor to go along with the point.
Truth is a hard pill to swallow... but humor is like water to help ease down the pill with laughter... ya dig.
ok...ill bite
i cant stand men who want to be the female and man in the relaitonships....
i cant stand uppity men in button downs who think they are God's gift to earth
i cant stand the fact they refuse to listen or address an issue...and get upset at the consequences for their neglect
i cant stand men who complain about not finding "good" women and they chase hoodrats
i cant stand dating a man who doesnt want to take things to the next level...so u move on...they they get upset thinking that u were always going to be avalible and they come at u with the "coulda shoulda": bullshit
shall i continue?
sure get it all out... I'll read it.
Just don't forget to also mention a solution.
That's part of my work philosophy. If you come to my office with a problem, please come with a solution also.
sure get it all out... I'll read it.
Just don't forget to also mention a solution.
That's part of my work philosophy. If you come to my office with a problem, please come with a solution also.
so im supposed to list all the issues i have with men...then list solutions
and u are going to read it all...thats it?
so im supposed to list all the issues i have with men...then list solutions
and u are going to read it all...thats it?
No then I'll evaluate them... and the men that come on here will evaluate... and the women on sol will co-sign or disagree.
But overall It'll be a great exercise as far as you getting to know DeSire even better...
It's healthy and it's for the better cause of the man v woman relationship to be on a cruise for a better ride in our lives and most importantly in yours. Consider this time invested in yourself. Reflection.
I'm all ears.
so im supposed to list all the issues i have with men...then list solutions
and u are going to read it all...thats it?
bwahahahahahahahaha
Interesting...I have this same philosophy for my staff...
Good luck implementing it on here though...
Good luck implementing it on here though...
sure get it all out... I'll read it.
Just don't forget to also mention a solution.
That's part of my work philosophy. If you come to my office with a problem, please come with a solution also.
oh ok