(article from a site i go to, about the game)
I hear this question a lot from young guys who are struggling with finding their own level in the game. If you are one of them, then you might want to pay attention.
Let me talk about a few truths and ask you some questions to help stimulate some thoughts around this common problem.
1. Are you aware that if a woman isn't looking at you then she isn't interested in you. How many of you know this to be true?
2. If you haven't learned how to see a woman’s game of when she is giving out IOI’S, or signs of interest then you won't even know if she is interested to begin with, how many of you can accept this as the truth?
3. How many of you thought of giving her something to see when they are not looking at you? How many have even thought about how they are presenting themselves and their energy so that women can choose?
I don't know how deep your rabbit hole goes as far as being able to meet and date attractive women. What I am saying is that I have no idea how much you know about women. So let me share a of these facts that I have found to be true in my over 20 years in the dating game:
1. Most women are clothes and style whores.
2. Most women have senses that we don't have such as a sense of smell that can smell the right mate for them. Have you ever heard a woman talk about how a man just smelled right, or see them wearing a man’s clothes because it smells like him?
3. It isn't all about the looks for women it's about the feel!!!!!!!! Oh god I hope you know this important fact! Women are feeling beings, more so than us men.
4. Most women know within a few seconds of looking at you or meeting you if whether or not she will have sex with you, despite any tap dancing games you might try on her!
I want to ask you a question.
Why would any woman even want to date you?
Look deep inside and answer the question of why would a women even want to or date you.
Ok, now time for another ice breaking truth:
KNOW THAT WOMEN DO THE CHOOSING?
I know, I know. It hurts. You have been told that if you say this magic script that she will fall head over heels in love with you by smart marketing gurus of pick up related information products out there. I am sorry but you have been bamboozled by many of them.
Despite all the tap dancing and tricks and antics women still do the choosing. It is that way in nature and it is that way in our modern society.
Even back in ancient history when if you had enough cattle you could win a bride. That bitch still chose whom to give her heart too.
My girl had a arranged marriage. 17 years later and 2 kids she couldn't take it anymore. Women are not built to be unhappy. This is why they have such deep hearts.
You can spit a ton of scripts at them, tap dance, take them out and in the end they and only they know if your going to get laid or not.
BUT THERE IS GOOD NEWS!
Your job is to make her selection process easier. So now that you have thought about why would a woman even date me, ask yourself are you giving them something to look at?
And if you think it’s all about just being in shape, then give me 25 push-ups for being a fool. What I am talking about is looking at your style of dress and how you present yourself.
Most women are not even aware of the deep programming that is going on in their selection of available men process. They have been programmed by nature to seek out dominant males in a environment. That means looking like a success!
Here is another question. When you walk into a room do you have the look of a man whom women would want to get to know? Probably not if your having trouble even getting them to look your way.
Another question is, when you walk into a room how is the way YOU are effecting the available women in that room? What am I talking about? The subtext of you. Your energy or aura. Are you radiating power and confidence?
Do you know that women are strongly attracted to confident males? So how do you feel to them when you step into a room? Ponder all of these questions deeply as I relay a story from my own past to you.
I recall a time when I was clubbing at this one club in my area. There was a younger guy in the club whom I thought of as a younger version of myself (48 years old now). I nicknamed him stripper boy. I have mentioned him before in my podcast shows. This kid dressed nice, but one day he got hooked up with this major player who came there all dressed up and nice looking. was when he went from wearing long sleeve shirts to adding a simple blazer to his presentation and his attraction level blew up ... it blows my mind...I cannot stress it's importance enough here..
ONE SIMPLE OF CHANGE OF ADDING A BLAZER????
One simple change of adding a fucking blazer...you got to be kidding me. But yes it is true. He learned to dress for women’s attraction levels not a man's. And that is a big difference.
I don't care what age that woman is...they all dream of that handsome dashing rich, successful man to sweep them off their feet.
I was recently at a public speakers seminar in Los Angeles California and I met one of my listeners. He stated that at 19 years of age he didn’t think wearing a blazer would attract women his own age.
In the city of money and the capital of the entertainment industry this young fellow didn’t think women would give him interest if he was dressed above his local crowd.
Now remember my early point that women are fashion and style whores? Now bring that back to the forefront of your brains. If they are this way they why would you ever dress in normal attire? If women’s minds are all jacked up by the clothing industry over fashion who in their right mind wouldn’t use this to their advantange?
Pimps have been using it for decades. They know that women love a sharp dressed man. If your trying to be a player or a dater you better look like a man who is going somewhere in his life. I don’t care if your washing dishes for a living be better dressed than your local crowd.
Now doing this is like taking the red pill from the hit movie the matrix and bending it to work for you. Why swim up stream and struggle to get a woman’s interest when you can coast down stream to the land of happiness?
SUMMARY
So now that you have some questions that should stimulate your minds and hopefully you are now aware of the simple truth of why women are not looking at you as because you have not given them anything to see. If you want to hear a 25 minute audio of this message on a deeper level go to http://playersupreme.libsyn.com
PlayerSupreme
I hear this question a lot from young guys who are struggling with finding their own level in the game. If you are one of them, then you might want to pay attention.
Let me talk about a few truths and ask you some questions to help stimulate some thoughts around this common problem.
1. Are you aware that if a woman isn't looking at you then she isn't interested in you. How many of you know this to be true?
2. If you haven't learned how to see a woman’s game of when she is giving out IOI’S, or signs of interest then you won't even know if she is interested to begin with, how many of you can accept this as the truth?
3. How many of you thought of giving her something to see when they are not looking at you? How many have even thought about how they are presenting themselves and their energy so that women can choose?
I don't know how deep your rabbit hole goes as far as being able to meet and date attractive women. What I am saying is that I have no idea how much you know about women. So let me share a of these facts that I have found to be true in my over 20 years in the dating game:
1. Most women are clothes and style whores.
2. Most women have senses that we don't have such as a sense of smell that can smell the right mate for them. Have you ever heard a woman talk about how a man just smelled right, or see them wearing a man’s clothes because it smells like him?
3. It isn't all about the looks for women it's about the feel!!!!!!!! Oh god I hope you know this important fact! Women are feeling beings, more so than us men.
4. Most women know within a few seconds of looking at you or meeting you if whether or not she will have sex with you, despite any tap dancing games you might try on her!
I want to ask you a question.
Why would any woman even want to date you?
Look deep inside and answer the question of why would a women even want to or date you.
Ok, now time for another ice breaking truth:
KNOW THAT WOMEN DO THE CHOOSING?
I know, I know. It hurts. You have been told that if you say this magic script that she will fall head over heels in love with you by smart marketing gurus of pick up related information products out there. I am sorry but you have been bamboozled by many of them.
Despite all the tap dancing and tricks and antics women still do the choosing. It is that way in nature and it is that way in our modern society.
Even back in ancient history when if you had enough cattle you could win a bride. That bitch still chose whom to give her heart too.
My girl had a arranged marriage. 17 years later and 2 kids she couldn't take it anymore. Women are not built to be unhappy. This is why they have such deep hearts.
You can spit a ton of scripts at them, tap dance, take them out and in the end they and only they know if your going to get laid or not.
BUT THERE IS GOOD NEWS!
Your job is to make her selection process easier. So now that you have thought about why would a woman even date me, ask yourself are you giving them something to look at?
And if you think it’s all about just being in shape, then give me 25 push-ups for being a fool. What I am talking about is looking at your style of dress and how you present yourself.
Most women are not even aware of the deep programming that is going on in their selection of available men process. They have been programmed by nature to seek out dominant males in a environment. That means looking like a success!
Here is another question. When you walk into a room do you have the look of a man whom women would want to get to know? Probably not if your having trouble even getting them to look your way.
Another question is, when you walk into a room how is the way YOU are effecting the available women in that room? What am I talking about? The subtext of you. Your energy or aura. Are you radiating power and confidence?
Do you know that women are strongly attracted to confident males? So how do you feel to them when you step into a room? Ponder all of these questions deeply as I relay a story from my own past to you.
I recall a time when I was clubbing at this one club in my area. There was a younger guy in the club whom I thought of as a younger version of myself (48 years old now). I nicknamed him stripper boy. I have mentioned him before in my podcast shows. This kid dressed nice, but one day he got hooked up with this major player who came there all dressed up and nice looking. was when he went from wearing long sleeve shirts to adding a simple blazer to his presentation and his attraction level blew up ... it blows my mind...I cannot stress it's importance enough here..
ONE SIMPLE OF CHANGE OF ADDING A BLAZER????
One simple change of adding a fucking blazer...you got to be kidding me. But yes it is true. He learned to dress for women’s attraction levels not a man's. And that is a big difference.
I don't care what age that woman is...they all dream of that handsome dashing rich, successful man to sweep them off their feet.
I was recently at a public speakers seminar in Los Angeles California and I met one of my listeners. He stated that at 19 years of age he didn’t think wearing a blazer would attract women his own age.
In the city of money and the capital of the entertainment industry this young fellow didn’t think women would give him interest if he was dressed above his local crowd.
Now remember my early point that women are fashion and style whores? Now bring that back to the forefront of your brains. If they are this way they why would you ever dress in normal attire? If women’s minds are all jacked up by the clothing industry over fashion who in their right mind wouldn’t use this to their advantange?
Pimps have been using it for decades. They know that women love a sharp dressed man. If your trying to be a player or a dater you better look like a man who is going somewhere in his life. I don’t care if your washing dishes for a living be better dressed than your local crowd.
Now doing this is like taking the red pill from the hit movie the matrix and bending it to work for you. Why swim up stream and struggle to get a woman’s interest when you can coast down stream to the land of happiness?
SUMMARY
So now that you have some questions that should stimulate your minds and hopefully you are now aware of the simple truth of why women are not looking at you as because you have not given them anything to see. If you want to hear a 25 minute audio of this message on a deeper level go to http://playersupreme.libsyn.com
PlayerSupreme
attention.
