That's all well and good, but call me a simp if you will, I just like to have female companionship that comes without dating. I also like to have sex without having to break the law to get it.' Doing you' is just fine but you can only fuck your hand for so long without having a prospect before that attitude gets played out.
That's why I ask these questions. When I told some of the local men that in Vancouver you could get laid without buying a car they were willing to move in a heartbeat. Obviously the standard is different here. I just want to know what that standard is before I humiliate myself further by stepping to women I'm not qualified to talk to.
Fuck all that other shit you just wrote... Let's zero in on this one line. "Women you're not 'qualified' to talk to?" Man, fuck that. You're talking like my cousin, now. I was telling him just a couple of weekends ago:
"Any man can talk to any woman on the face of the earth, as long as they speak the same language(s). All you need is some fucking confidence. If Beyonce walked past me, and I had enough confidence to stop her in her tracks and talk to her, I would."
And I fucking meant that shit. There isn't any "qualifications" to initiate conversation with a woman. None at all. Well, considering that you don't talk like you've got a mouth full of marshmallows, then you've got nothing to worry about.
If you wanted cocoa over coffee I would be glad to oblige. Really, what man wouldn't.
That being said, if you met a homeless bum who filled that criteria would you make him your man? Would you support him for a few months while he got on his feet (if ever) just because he had similar interests and could make you laugh?
I hope you said no. If so I got to ask, what would have made you say yes. Would it matter if that homeless guy had a nice box? Or would it have to have to be an apartment? If so, are roommates acceptable? If not, then how big does the unit have to be?
This is the kind of information I'm looking for. I wnat a touchstone so that I can define whether it's worth trying to get in a female's good graces or not. Without knowing what's required I will either waste my time and reputation trying to holler at women I could never get, or ignoring the whole bunch of them while wondering if I'm missing out.
Funny thing about the future. It isn't known. Your destiny isn't written on a stone tablet, sitting at the highest peak of Mount Olympus. No one's is. Your future is what you make of it. If you try to talk to a woman and she brushes you off, take that as a lesson. Maybe it wasn't you, maybe it's her. Maybe she's just one of those types that love for men to beg for her attention. Maybe she's a gold digger and didn't see anything profitable in talking to you. Hell, maybe she doesn't like Canadians, and could smell Vancouver in your walk, I don't know. But take my advice on this: You were probably better off.
Case in point. Today I was walking up the street in my neighborhood and saw this cute female walking my way. I didn't look aggressive, nor was I looking bummy. I paused my iPod before she even got close, and when she did, I looked her straight in the face and, loud enough that she could hear me, said "Hello," and gave her one of these
. She looked at me for a quick second, then ignored my greeting and kept walking.
To test a theory I have, I said, in a quiet and civil voice, "Okay, fuck you too." You know she responded to that negativity, right? That means she likes drama. And I told her that. "I said 'hello' to you the first time you passed, and even shot you a smile, but you didn't respond to that. You responded to a *whisper* of negativity before you did a shout of 'niceness'." You know what she said? "Naw, I didn't hear you the first time." "Then why did you acknowledge it with a look?" "Well, I didn't know if you were talking to me, or listening to your CD Player." Nor did she try to figure out.
Dumb broad, I had the iPod in plain eye's sight.
I say all that to say this...
Women who won't give you the time of day are out there. But for every one that won't, I guarantee you there are two that will. And there is NO Prerequisite to talk to said woman/women. As long as you can talk to them WITH CONFIDENCE, you're already one foot in. 
I feel you on your statements. If you think your situation is bad, it is worst here in NYC -- and you really do not need a car to get around the city! What Brown Bear was referring to was to not buy into the whole "pre-req" thing (must have car, clothes, money, etc) because if you do, then it would just be easier to "pay" for sex and be done with it (you will come out cheaper anyway).
But seriously, you just have to look until you find the type of woman who does not judge men on material possessions or only for what he could provide her. It will be hard, like finding water in the desert.
If you're in school check out fellow students - who expects a student trying to better himself to have a car, fancy job, etc? A REAL WOMAN knows how to judge a man by his potential, not by his possessions.
I just quoted this one so you could read it twice. This bruh knows his shit.
I concur with my brothers in this thread about alleviating yourself of the whole "pre-req" thing...either you will be hustling for a gold digger or you'll never get a woman. I understand that the conditions vary from place to place, but I fail to see the frailty in having confidence and witty conversation in any location. If your confidence is intertwined with your pay grade, then I feel sorry for you, your "self" is shallow and as fragile as the dollar itself is. As far as "ruining your reputation" and all that, man, persistence pays in these states....
One more thing, don't over analyze the dating scene. It is not debate. It is not paper for class. It is biological and social. It doesn't care how logical you are, it only rewards those who get off the bench.
...just my dime and nickel....
This one too.
this post is funny on so many levels... Why do you even want to surround yourself with someone who would judge you based on your material possessions? 
Isn't that the whole point?