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The Bachelor Contestant Rachael Kirkconnell Apologizes For ‘Offensive and Racist’ Actions
By Chris Murphy@christress
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This season’s problematic Bachelor suitor, Rachael Kirkconnell, has finally broken her silence after spending weeks sparking controversy online. In an Instagram post, Kirkconnell wrote, “I’m here to say I was wrong,” said the Georgia native on Thursday night. “I was ignorant, but my ignorance was racist.” Kirkconnell’s scandal began when racially insensitive social media posts of hers began circulating online, including photos featuring the 24-year old graphic designer at an antebellum-themed party in college in 2018. “At one point, I didn’t recognize how offensive and racist my actions were, but that doesn’t excuse them,” she continues. “My age or when it happened does not excuse anything. They are not acceptable or okay in any sense. I was ignorant, but my ignorance was racist.”

Kirkconnell’s scandal has even enveloped long-time Bachelor host Chris Harrison, who issued an apology on Wednesday for defending the Georgia native in an interview on Extra with the first Black Bachelorette, Rachel Lindsay. “What I now realize I have done is cause harm by wrongly speaking in a manner that perpetuates racism, and for that I am so deeply sorry,” said Harrison in a statement posted on social media. Kirkconnell is very much still in the running to win the heart of Matt James, the first Black Bachelor in franchise history, with Chris Harrison confirming that Kirkconnell was not present for the recently taped Women Tell All special which reunites contestants who are not finalists ahead of the series finale. “Racial progress and unity are impossible without (white) accountability, and I deserve to be held accountable for my actions,” Kirkconnell wrote. “I will never grow unless I recognize what I have done is wrong. I don’t think one apology means that I deserve your forgiveness, but rather I hope I can earn your forgiveness through my future actions.” Kirkconnell is certainly not the first member of Bachelor Nation to be involved in a racism-based scandal, but here’s hoping she’s the last.

 
Interesting.... oops did I just admit to watching the show. Okay the jig is up. My wife is watching the show, so I'm watching the show. Seeing the hunnies fight over the young brother is nice. Some of them are real hot. He shouldn't have dumped the Ethiopian. The chick above is kinda hot also.
 
Interesting.... oops did I just admit to watching the show. Okay the jig is up. My wife is watching the show, so I'm watching the show. Seeing the hunnies fight over the young brother is nice. Some of them are real hot. He shouldn't have dumped the Ethiopian. The chick above is kinda hot also.

I THINK I watched the very first season and maybe the first time there was a black person on there...

this thing gets RATINGS so ya'll are FAR from the only ones watching

I am SHOCKED this thing is STILL on the air.

Must be profitable as f*ck for Disney/ABC

for all the hand wringing people do?

for THIS television pimping to STILL be popping?

shows so much of the American hypocrisy and the latest racial issues too.
 
I THINK I watched the very first season and maybe the first time there was a black person on there...

this thing gets RATINGS so ya'll are FAR from the only ones watching

I am SHOCKED this thing is STILL on the air.

Must be profitable as f*ck for Disney/ABC

for all the hand wringing people do?

for THIS television pimping to STILL be popping?

shows so much of the American hypocrisy and the latest racial issues too.

The show is as real as professional wrestling. It's obvious.
 
The Bachelor’s Demi Burnett apologizes for wearing a jacket with the Confederate flag on it

"I'm just so f—ing sorry because that is not what I stand for, that is not what I'm about. And I'm really mad that I ever wore it," the reality star said in a video this week.
By Ashley Boucher
February 17, 2021 at 12:22 AM EST






Demi Burnett is apologizing for previously wearing a jacket with a Confederate flag printed on it.

The Bachelor and Bachelor in Paradise alum shared a video on Twitter Monday to address the resurfaced photo and apologize for her "ignorance."
"People are telling me I shouldn't say anything, I'm gonna say something about this," Burnett, 25, began her video.

"So there's been this picture that's been resurfaced of me wearing a jacket that had a Confederate flag on it. The jacket was given to me by my ex — his dad, actually, gave it to me — and I had no idea like the weight that the Confederate flag held whenever I was wearing it," she said. "And I just wore it for that one night, it was a Yeezy jacket, I thought it was so cool, I was like, 'yeah, Yeezy!' And I didn't even like pay attention to that. That's ignorance. That's ignorant of me not to pay attention to the Confederate flag."





In 2013, Kanye West defended the jacket's design, saying that he was reclaiming the Confederate flag and making it his own, PEOPLE reported at the time.

"React how you want," he said in an interview with Los Angeles radio station 97.1 AMP at the time, after he was criticized for featuring the flag on merchandise for his Yeezus tour. "Any energy is good energy. You know the Confederate flag represented slavery in a way – that's my abstract take on what I know about it. So I made the song 'New Slaves.' So I took the Confederate flag and made it my flag. It's my flag. Now what are you going to do?"

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While it's not clear when the photo of Burnett wearing the jacket was taken, it was shared on ex-boyfriend Slater Davis' Instagram Story, according to screen grabs circulating Twitter. She dated the musician for several months last year before they split in June.

Burnett continued in her video this week that it was "even more ignorant of me to not even know how harmful that is to people."

"So like, yeah, I royally f—ed up wearing that. And I am so f—ing sorry. Like, I'm disgusted with myself. I'm embarrassed. It doesn't even matter how I feel. I'm just so f—ing sorry because that is not what I stand for, that is not what I'm about. And I'm really mad that I ever wore it."

Burnett went on say that she has been "an ignorant, self-absorbed, sack of shit" for "most" of her life and "genuinely had no idea" what she was representing when she wore the jacket.
The reality star added that she is "disgusted" with herself for wearing it and that she knows "better now."

"Did not know better then. So really what I can say now is be better than me. Don't look up to me. Look up to being better than me," she said. "Cause I f—ing suck. And I really f—ing hate myself, like, for being ignorant. Cause this is the time to change the world, make it better, and I made it worse. So I'm really, really sorry."

Burnett's apology comes amid an ongoing controversy involving Bachelor franchise host Chris Harrison, who stepped away from the franchise after saying that current contestant Rachael Kirkconnell deserved "compassion" after some of her racist actions came to light in recent weeks.
In several social media posts, Kirkconnell was seen dressed in Native American attire as a costume and attending an antebellum plantation-themed ball. She apologized last week.

Both Kirkconnell and Harrison have apologized for their words and actions.
 
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The Bachelor’s Matt James Addresses ‘Painful,’ ‘Troubling’ Racism Controversy
By Halle Kiefer@hallekiefer
Photo: Craig Sjodin via Getty Images

Earlier this month, Bachelor contestant Rachael Kirkconnell apologized after past racially insensitive social media posts, including photos from an antebellum South-themed party in 2018, emerged online, and Bachelor host Chris Harrison temporarily stepped away from his job after defending Kirkconnell in an Extra interview with the first Black Bachelorette Rachel Lindsay; the ABC show host, too, apologized for “wrongly speaking in a manner that perpetuates racism.” Now, The Bachelor himself Matt James, the first Black Bachelor of the series, weighs in on what his experience has been seeing photos of his presumed front-runner attending an “offensive and racist” event and watching his fellow franchise star explain why Black people might be filled with dread at the idea of a party set in the pre-Civil War South. In a word, Matt James feels bad.

“The past few weeks have been some of the most challenging of my life, and while there are several episodes left of the season, it is important that I take the time to address the troubling information that has come to light since we wrapped filming, including the incredibly disappointing photos of Rachael Kirkconnell and the interview between Rachel Lindsay and Chris Harrison,” he writes on Instagram.

“The reality is that I’m learning about these situations in real time, and it has been devastating and heartbreaking to put it bluntly,” says James. “Chris’s failure to receive and understand the emotional labor that my friend Rachel Lindsay was taking on by graciously and patiently explaining the racist history of the Antebellum South, a painful history that every American should understand intimately, was troubling and painful to watch. As Black people and allies immediately knew and understood, it was a clear reflection of a much larger issue that The Bachelor franchise has fallen short on addressing adequately for years.”


Writes James, “This moment has sparked critical conversations and reporting, raised important questions, and resulted in inspiring displays of solidarity from The Bachelor nation. It has also pushed me to reevaluate and process what my experience on The Bachelor represents, not just for me, but for all of the contestants of color, especially the Black contestants of this season and seasons past, and for you, the viewers at home.”

Concludes the current Bachelor, “I will continue to process this experience, and you will hear more from me in the end. My greatest prayer is that this is an inflection point that results in real and institutional change for the better.”
 
Chris Harrison to Explain Himself on Good Morning America
By Charu Sinha@charulatasinha
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Chris Harrison, who is very familiar with the hot seat, will sit down with Michael Strahan this week on Good Morning America to address the controversy surrounding his defense of Bachelor contestant Rachel Kirkconnell. Per Deadline and Extra, Harrison will discuss the events surrounding his temporary hiatus from the franchise. The news follows the announcement of Emmanuel Acho as Harrison’s replacement on the upcoming The Bachelor: After the Final Rose special, as well as the recent statement from Bachelor producers regarding the online harassment of Rachel Lindsay. “As Executive Producers of The Bachelor Franchise we would like to make it perfectly clear that any harassment directed towards Rachel Lindsay in the aftermath of her interview with Chris Harrison is completely inexcusable,” the statement reads in part. Harrison announced he would be stepping back from the franchise back in February following the backlash to his comments defending Kirkconnell in an interview with Lindsay.
 
Bachelor Executive Producers Denounce ‘Completely Inexcusable’ Harassment of Rachel Lindsay
By Halle Kiefer@hallekiefer
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This weekend, former Bachelorette Rachel Lindsay had to disable her Instagram after receiving a wave of harassment from Bachelor viewers, following her recent interview with Chris Harrison and even more recent comments about current Bachelor contestant Rachael Kirkconnell’s offensive social media posts. Now, the executive producers of the Bachelor Nation, which includes The Bachelor, The Bachelorette, and their spinoffs, have issued a statement defending Lindsay against “severe online bullying, which, more often than not, has been rooted in racism.”

“As Executive Producers of The Bachelor Franchise we would like to make it perfectly clear that any harassment directed towards Rachel Lindsay in the aftermath of her interview with Chris Harrison is completely inexcusable,” their statement, posted to Twitter Monday evening, reads. “Rachel has received an unimaginable amount of hate and has been subjected to severe online bullying, which, more often than not, has been rooted in racism. That is totally unacceptable. Rachel has been an incredible advocate for our cast, and we are grateful that she has worked tirelessly towards racial equity and inclusion.”

Lindsay, who starred in The Bachelorette’s season 13 after appearing as a contestant on The Bachelor, has long been a vocal proponent of racial diversity in the franchise. Following their interview earlier this month, in which Harrison defended images of Rachael Kirkconnell at an antebellum-themed event to Lindsay, the Bachelor host apologized for “perpetuating racism” and stepped away from the rest of this season of the ABC reality dating series.

Kirkconnell has also apologized for her posts, and has asked fans not to defend her past behavior, but Lindsay found her attempts to address the issue of racism, specifically posting an aesthetic Instagram photo of herself reading Emmanuel Acho’s Uncomfortable Conversations With a Black Man, to be lacking. “Vapid is the word that comes to mind,” said the former Bachelorette on the Bachelor Happy Hour podcast last week,
Speaking of Emmanuel Acho, the author and former NFL player is now set to fill in for Chris Harrison during the upcoming Bachelor finale this month, where he will reportedly “sit down with Bachelor Matt James to discuss his season, his final decision and where he is now, as well as cover the current events about the franchise.”

Rachel Lindsay Disables Her Instagram After ‘Hate’ and ‘Harassing’ From Bachelor Fans
By Rebecca Alter@ralter
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Former Bachelorette Rachel Lindsay has disabled her Instagram account after receiving “all kinds of rude, hateful things” from certain members of Bachelor Nation, following Chris Harrison’s February 13 announcement that he was taking leave from hosting The Bachelor and The Bachelorette. Harrison had defended the past racist posts and behavior of current Bachelor contestant Rachel Kirkconnell in an interview with Lindsay for Extra, and Lindsay has since said about the interview that “I don’t feel bad that the way he’s feeling was brought to light.” Lindsay has also criticized Kirkconnell’s ensuing attempts at anti-racist efforts and apologies as “vapid.”

On February 26, Lindsay’s Higher Learning podcast co-host Van Lathan posted a video in which he explains that Lindsay disabled her Instagram that day “because that’s how much hate she’s getting from Bachelor fans, who are spamming her with all kinds of rude, hateful things.” Lathan continues his statement of support, saying, “Rachel is not responsible for Chris Harrison, a 49-year-old man who can’t read the room in these present, 2021 times. She’s not responsible for that. It’s not her job to make excuses or provide cover for somebody who doesn’t understand what the fuck triggers people in today’s world. It’s not. You’re going after the wrong person.”

 
I know a sista that was on The Bachelor. She ended up getting hooked on Meth and getting admitted to a mental institution.
 
Rachel Lindsay Returns to Instagram Following Harassment
By Charu Sinha@charulatasinha
Photo: FilmMagic

Former Bachelorette Rachel Lindsay has returned to Instagram following the brief deactivation of her account last week due to harassment from Bachelor viewers. On Saturday, Lindsay posted a photo of sunflowers, with the caption, “I want to be like a sunflower so that even on the darkest days I will stand tall and find the sunlight.” Her return to the platform was met with support from the Bachelor community. “So happy to have you back, hoping you are feeling refreshed and loved,” Chelsea Vaughn, a contestant on the current season of The Bachelor, commented. Lindsay also posted a landscape photo to her Instagram Stories, with the caption, “Good vibes only.”

Lindsay’s return to Instagram follows her acceptance of Chris Harrison’s apology this week. “For us to move forward, I need to accept the apology, so we can all be better from this situation, which is what we want,” Lindsay said on Extra. Harrison, who announced his hiatus from the franchise following his defense of Bachelor contestant Rachael Kirkconnell in an Extra interview with Lindsay, said he is “committed to progress, not just for myself, also for the franchise,” on Good Morning America. It is unclear if and when Harrison will return to the franchise, with Emmanuel Acho replacing him as host of The Bachelor: After the Final Rose on March 15.

Lindsay deactivated her Instagram account after receiving “all kinds of rude, hateful things” from Bachelor viewers amid the controversy. The executive producers of The Bachelor franchise then put out a statement on Twitter, reading in part, “As Executive Producers of The Bachelor Franchise we would like to make it perfectly clear that any harassment directed towards Rachel Lindsay in the aftermath of her interview with Chris Harrison is completely inexcusable.” Harrison also condemned the harassment of Lindsay earlier this week. “To anyone who is throwing hate toward Rachel Lindsay, please stop. It’s unacceptable,” Harrison said on Good Morning America.


 
A Bachelor Fan Account Crunched the Numbers on Matt James’s Controversial Season
By Zoe Haylock@zoe_alliyah
Matt James, the franchise’s first-ever Black Bachelor. Photo: Craig Sjodin/ABC
Bachelor fans got a wake-up call this season. If it wasn’t clear from the racism scandal that put host Chris Harrison on hiatus, the ABC reality series has a little diversity problem in its most diverse season yet. Instagram account @bachelordata has been tracking statistics like contestant screen time and IG follower growth, putting numbers to issues like representation and platforming that Bachelor fans have been talking about for years. The account’s founder, who goes by Suzana in the interest of privacy, began by posting her findings on the Bachelor subreddit, then switched to Instagram in February 2020, just before the pandemic put the series on lockdown and fans put the producers on notice.
Amid last summer’s racial-justice protests, Bachelor Nation — fans and former contestants — called for the show to reckon with its overwhelmingly white history, and producers responded with Matt James, the first-ever Black Bachelor. The show rounded up a record-breaking 25 women of color to vie for his heart, along with the obligatory 12 white contestants, promising to do them all justice. “We are taking positive steps to expand diversity in our cast, in our staff, and, most importantly, in the relationships that we show on television,” producers said in a statement last summer. “We can and will do better to reflect the world around us and show all of its beautiful love stories.” But that’s not what the numbers say.



Now with more than 50,000 followers on Instagram, backed by a small team to help input data, and with support from fans on Patreon, @bachelordata has grown into a necessary resource for viewers who want the full picture. Vulture spoke to Suzana about how she gathers the stats each week and what they mean for the show’s latest reckoning.


When did your Bachelor journey begin, and how did that transition into tracking it?
I started watching the show in college. I was bored in my dorm, looking for TV shows, and instantly got hooked. But my Bachelor data journey started in December 2018, just before Colton Underwood’s season started. At the time, I had just become a technology director [for a school district]; I was trying to learn how to use spreadsheets better, and nothing sounded worse than an Excel class. So I decided to start tracking Instagram followers manually every day while the show was airing to see what happened on the show that led to the most Instagram growth. Then it just kind of grew from there.

What inspired you to look at Instagram followers in particular?
It had been frequently discussed, like, how many Instagram followers different people had, and I think most people who watch the show know that these people go on the show now and become these big Instagram influencers. I was always curious, Why do some people become bigger influencers than others? At the time, I didn’t really have a way of looking at screen time. So I was like, if I can see one-on-one dates, what do those translate to in terms of followers? Group dates? Group-date rose? And just different things like that. I just started collecting that data every day after each week’s episode.

What goes into tracking all that screen time?
A lot. [Laughs] Now, I have somebody onboard that’s helping me every week, because when I first started doing it, I would wake up at four, 4:30 in the morning before work after an episode aired so I could start collecting the data. I just open up Amazon Video, where I buy the season, and it is a literal start-and-stop and an evaluation based on the criteria of who’s featured on the screen and then it’s manually written on a spreadsheet.





How has crunching the numbers affected your experience of the show?
I definitely look at it with a more critical eye now. I think the term that a lot of people use is franken-biting — I can tell when different segments are being pulled and the audio changes in terms of when it was recorded. Watching it back, I find so many more things when I rewatch it that I missed the first time around.

How many hours a week would you say you spend working on The Bachelor?
A lot. [Laughs] I’ve learned how to become much more efficient with spreadsheets, and that was the whole goal of this project, to learn how to use spreadsheets to help me in my day job. But for the sustainability of this project, it’s kind of been sink or swim. I’ve had to learn how to be efficient with my time and how I do things on a weekly basis. If I had to guess, I’d say probably upwards of eight to ten hours a week.

What has it been like getting involved in the Bachelor Nation community on Reddit and Instagram?
I definitely attribute a lot of my learning to the community side of it. I think one of the best things I hear out of it is that the work I’m doing is what people are discussing in their group chats about the show or, you know, in their Slack channels at work. That’s really special to me in terms of how I feel about the show and my involvement in the Bachelor community. I do get a lot of messages as well that aren’t so kind, which can be difficult to process. It’s been eye-opening to see a little glimpse of what some Bachelor Nation contestants get, especially when you speak out on controversial topics, right?

Yeah, I think the fans of Bachelor Nation take a lot of heat when it comes to controversies. In your view, how does the data alter the way we look at the fans in the wake of scandals?
I think numbers are hard to dismiss when you have concrete numbers in front of you, like Instagram followers and discrepancies between white people and people of color on the show and how they are being followed on Instagram, but then really being able to look back at it with a lens of screen time and lack of screen time. This is really the first season we’ve had numbers to point to whenever we do talk about these tougher conversations. I’m just happy that I can provide those numbers and provide some context for people to go off of when they discuss things like screen time, the lack of opportunity for people who go on this show, and how it’s edited.




ow have you seen those conversations bubble up in the wake of this season?
People were really excited about how historic this season was in terms of casting, especially after the executive producers put out their statement last summer committing to showing more diverse love stories. The data this season is especially relevant because people feel like we didn’t see what the producers promised us. I expected drama just like every season, but I think this season was focused more on drama. We finally got data on that this year in terms of what that screen time felt like and who we were seeing.

Right, the women of color who are in the top have some of the lowest screen times of the series.
Instead, we knew stories and backgrounds of people who left in episode three more than we did our final four. The data doesn’t lie. When you post that featured screen-time data and people are asking, “Who is the person who got the most screen time?” and people literally can’t remember her, I think that goes to the story lines and how they’re being edited.

It’s hard to say, but how do you think spoilers and ongoing controversies affect stuff like the follower growth data?
Ever since I started following it, you could see a sizable influence on Instagram growth in terms of the early episodes. So you’d see whoever was rumored to be making it far grow faster. But we still need to go back to be able to collect that screen time to see the influence there. Luckily, we have it all well documented, on when spoilers dropped and their Instagram growth on what dates, that we’re going to be able to look at that.

Early on in the season, there were rumors that Rachael Kirkconnell was going to make it far. And early on, people were like, “Why is this person gaining so many Instagram followers when we’ve hardly even seen her on our TVs?” I don’t love that spoilers are out there because then it’s hard to point to exactly what’s happening on the show that’s leading to what growth, but it’s inevitable.




With the season wrapping up, is there anything in the data we can look out for to guess the new Bachelorette?
Actually, one of the biggest indicators is the first date. So if you look at who receives the first one-on-one date every season, we had Hannah Brown, Becca Kufrin, Clare Crawley; we had Ashley Hebert, we had Ali Fedotowsky, we had Jillian Harris. Especially as you trend further back, you can see that has the highest chances. This season, I believe it was — I should know this off the top of my head — Bri! What happens at the “Women Tell-All,” I think, is a big indicator. We definitely see who gets put in the hot seat, how that edit goes, and how the fans respond.

The official Bachelor Nation Instagram follows you. Do you wonder if the producers are tracking the data through your account?
I hope so. I hope they’re looking at the data because I’m sure it’s useful for them to look at their screen time and see what impacted the series and what had people talking.
 
Rachael Kirkconnell Blames Her ‘Ignorance’ for Matt James Breakup
By Devon Ivie@devonsaysrelax

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With Matt James’s Bachelor season ending with a brutal breakup and “uncomfortable” conversations about being Black in America, winner turned loser Rachael Kirkconnell is once again apologizing for her racist and offensive behavior. Kirkconnell, who was ultimately dumped by James due to her past actions, explained during the After the Final Rose finale that she never gave second thought to attending an antebellum-themed party in college, which made looking back at the jubilant photographs difficult. “I saw someone who was living in this ignorance without even, like, thinking about who it would be hurting,” she explained to guest host Emmanuel Acho. “You know, I never once asked myself at any point, ‘What’s the tradition behind this? What does this represent? Why do we wear those dresses?’ I’m not going to sit here and say that I didn’t know any better because I could’ve easily asked myself those questions. You know, I never took the time to make that connection, ’cause if I would’ve taken the time, I easily could’ve understood what was wrong with it.”

When asked by Acho why she took so long to issue an apology back in February, Kirkconnell responded by saying she wanted to “really understand exactly why people were so hurt” by her actions. “So for him to end things, he must’ve been very, very hurt by everything,” Kirkconnell continued, referring to James. “It was hard because I lost the love of my life, but in the process of that, I hurt him while doing so. I love him so much and I always will. And I do feel like I finally do know what real love feels like.” While Kirkconnell couldn’t clarify where her “ignorance” stemmed from, she noted that it nonetheless “doesn’t make it right and that doesn’t make it okay.”



Following her solo interview, Kirkconnell was joined by James for several minutes where she apologized to him directly for her past actions. “I really just want to take the time to say I’m really sorry and once I really tried to put myself into your shoes as much as I could, I really do think that our relationship was very strong and the love that we shared was very real, so for you to end things, I realize that that must’ve been really hard for you as well to where you must’ve been hurting,” she told him. “And I’m just wanting to say I’m really sorry for not understanding that initially and that I’m really sorry that I hurt you.” James confirmed that they will not be reconciling, and he also refused to hug Kirkconnell good-bye. “I don’t know if it’ll ever not hurt hearing those things,” he offered as the final word.

In addition to attending and visibly enjoying the antebellum-South-themed party in college, Kirkconnell had a history of “liking” social-media photos of Confederate flags. A TikTok user also alleged that Kirkconnell bullied her in high school for dating Black men. Meanwhile, James’s lovely runner-up contestant, Michelle Young, will be one of two (two!) new Bachelorette leads. We felt we needed to sage the article with one piece of pleasant news.
 
Matt James Gave the Antebellum Party Girl His Final Rose and It Didn’t Go Well
By Devon Ivie@devonsaysrelax
Photo: Craig Sjodin/ABC



Plagued by an endless parade of awfulness as the first Black Bachelor, Matt James ultimately concluded his season on The Bachelor as a single man.
As revealed on the show’s Monday finale, James selected controversial contestant Rachael Kirkconnell over Michelle Young to receive his final rose. Instead of a proposal, however, James offered Kirkconnell a continued commitment of being romantic partners, as he didn’t feel he was prepared to become engaged following a candid conversation with his mother about the infidelity issues that plagued his parents’ marriage. “As I’m wrestling with what I’m gonna do today, the easy thing for me to do would me to brush those feelings off and make you happy, and that’s to propose to you today,” he told her at their fireside rose ceremony. “But I couldn’t live with myself if I put you what my mom’s been through I’ve seen what rushing into a proposal and marriage can do with my family, and it’s ugly. It’s not what I want for you or for us. That’s why I can’t propose to you today.”

James repeatedly stated that he loved Kirkconnell, and he could see her as “my wife and the mother of my kids.” He added, “When I think about the life I want to live, I think about living that life with you. I want to leave here with you and connect.” Despite a lack of proposal, Kirkconnell seemed elated to continue her relationship with James, and the couple departed The Bachelor in good spirits.
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This all took a 180 turn at the ensuing After the Final Rose episode, which was pre-recorded with guest host Emmanuel Acho in early March. James, now aware of Kirkconnell’s self-described racist and offensive past, announced that he broke up with her over the phone after learning the full extent of her actions. “I dismissed them as rumors because that’s what they were to me,” James explained about his thought process. “When you find out that they are, it just makes you question everything.” He continued:
As someone who grew up in the South, it takes me to a place that I don’t often like to thing about. I wasn’t okay. It was in that moment and the conversation that I had, that Rachael might not understand what it means to be Black in America. It’s heartbreaking. If you don’t understand that something like that is problematic in 2018, there’s a lot of me that you won’t understand. It’s as simple as that.
When asked by Acho how he would respond to viewers who’d argue that Kirkconnell’s behavior occurred several years ago, James responded with: “You know what was a long time ago? Plantations.” He also stated that he supported Kirkconnell’s continued efforts to learn and grow from her past, and he was “looking forward to seeing her put in that work.” James clarified, though, that he didn’t think it was possible for the couple to reconcile.

Kirkconnell’s history of racism has cast an unpleasant shadow over James’s Bachelor season since it was exposed in the public eye in mid-February, and it snowballed into a greater racial reckoning for the franchise in subsequent weeks. At the time, several social media users unearthed Kirkconnell’s history of “liking” photos of Confederate flags, as well as photos of Kirkconnell gleefully attending an antebellum-South-themed party in college. A user on TikTok also alleged that Kirkconnell bullied her in high school for romantically pursuing Black men.

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Despite initially staying silent on the scandal, Kirkconnell, by then a clear frontrunner on James’s season, released a statement on February 11 to apologize for her “racist and offensive” actions. “My age or when it happened does not excuse anything,” she wrote. “They are not acceptable or okay in any sense. I was ignorant, but my ignorance was racist.” Kirkconnell doubled down with a video apology a few weeks later on February 26, urging people to “please stop” defending her past. “I’ve gotten a lot of people asking me, ‘Well, what have you done to change since then?’ and I’ve also had a lot of people message me saying that they aren’t understanding why people are so upset, but they want to, and they’ve asked for resources, which I think is great,” she explained. “But then there’s also people that’s messaging me saying, ‘You’ve done nothing wrong, don’t listen to people.’ I’m just, I’m tired of getting all of this and not saying anything.” Kirkconnell has also posted a series of Instagram Stories of the aforementioned resources, which include Uncomfortable Conversations With a Black Man.


Amid all this, longstanding franchise host Chris Harrison thought it would be a terrific idea to pledge his full support to Kirkconnell. During an Extra interview with former Bachelorette lead Rachel Lindsay on February 9, Harrison questioned why people were upset by Kirkconnell’s racist past, arguing that the “woke police” were trying to take her down. He also expressed confusion over the timeline of Kirkconnell’s actions. “Where is this lens were holding up and was that lens available and were we all looking through it in 2018?” he said about the antebellum-party photos. “Is it not a good look in 2018 or is it not a good look in 2021?”

Following a public uproar, Harrison tried to do damage control, announcing he would temporarily step back from hosting duties and apologizing for his “imperfect” behavior during a March 4 interview on Good Morning America. It wasn’t successful: Harrison won’t be returning for the next season of The Bachelorette. Former Bachelorette stars Tayshia Adams and Kaitlyn Bristowe will co-host instead.

Remember when the biggest Bachelor-adjacent scandal involved the lead’s mother being a total asshole? Can’t believe we’re yearning for those days.
 
Dude chose that odd looking ass white girl? Glad i don't watch reality tv this seems like some bullshit. If I ever need drama in my life I'll call my ex-wife and tell her she ain't shit.
 
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Matt James Explains ‘Frustrating’ Aftermath of Rachael Kirkconnell Split
By Devon Ivie@devonsaysrelax




Hours after the most depressing Bachelor finale ever aired, a single Matt James appeared on Good Morning America to further discuss his decision to break up with contestant Rachael Kirkconnell after her racist and offensive past was aired out in public. Despite saying that he believes Kirkconnell is a “good person,” James admitted that he was shocked to see photos of her attending an antebellum-South-themed party in college, which included her wearing a period dress. “That’s the frustrating part about the position that I’m in, is having to explain not only to Rachael but to the rest of America why things like that are problematic, because we don’t have that chance to have that ignorance,” he explained. “Think about Breonna Taylor, think about Tamir Rice, they didn’t have that opportunity to have ignorance.” In the finale, James said that after seeing those photos, it made him realize Kirkconnell “might not understand what it means to be Black in America.”

When asked by Michael Strahan if he ever discussed the idea of being in a biracial relationship and raising biracial children with Kirkconnell, James said that they never did. “A lot of the time spent during filming and having those conversations were among the women of color,” he explained. “I think we could’ve had those conversations among the white women there as well. But hindsight is 20/20 and I probably should’ve asked more clarifying questions.” James also wished Kirkconnell well with her continued plans to work on anti-racism education: “I’m looking forward to seeing her do [that], because I know she’s capable of it.” In the meantime, if you see James strolling in the Lower East Side anytime soon, please offer him a kind nod.
 
Juan Pablo, First Latino Bachelor, Says He Endured ‘Persistent Racism’ While Filming
By Devon Ivie@devonsaysrelax
Photo: Rick Rowell/Walt Disney Television via Getty Images
To quote one of the best articles to ever grace the internet: Heartbreaking, the worst person you know just made a great point. Juan Pablo Galavis, often considered by Bachelor fans to be one of the worst, if not the worst, leads the franchise has ever seen, tweeted his support for Matt James last night after watching the racism controversy that plagued the season implode in the finale. Galavis, who served as the first Latino Bachelor lead for season 18, tweeted that he has much “respect” for James, as he also experienced racial insensitivity during his time on the show. “It’s sad to see the persistent racism and discrimination is finally coming to light after 25 seasons of The Bachelor,” he explained.I can personally attest to this situation as the first Latino on the show.” Galavis also thanked Rachel Lindsay, the first Black Bachelorette lead, for “calling out” Chris Harrison after he excused historical racism, which resulted in a temporary dismissal.









Galavis’s season of The Bachelor, which aired in 2014 and didn’t end with a proposal, is generally derided for the Big Fuckboi Energy it brought to the franchise. It was also this season that brought us future Bachelorette Clare Crawley and her infamous scorched-earth breakup speech, where she told Galavis that “I’d never want my children having a father like you.” Galavis is currently divorced and single, if you’re into that sort of thing.
 
Man I got an alert from google to watch this shit but, holy crap I never in my life ever though i would be able to see, two brothers talking down to a white women.
 
Juan Pablo, First Latino Bachelor, Says He Endured ‘Persistent Racism’ While Filming
By Devon Ivie@devonsaysrelax
Photo: Rick Rowell/Walt Disney Television via Getty Images
To quote one of the best articles to ever grace the internet: Heartbreaking, the worst person you know just made a great point. Juan Pablo Galavis, often considered by Bachelor fans to be one of the worst, if not the worst, leads the franchise has ever seen, tweeted his support for Matt James last night after watching the racism controversy that plagued the season implode in the finale. Galavis, who served as the first Latino Bachelor lead for season 18, tweeted that he has much “respect” for James, as he also experienced racial insensitivity during his time on the show. “It’s sad to see the persistent racism and discrimination is finally coming to light after 25 seasons of The Bachelor,” he explained.I can personally attest to this situation as the first Latino on the show.” Galavis also thanked Rachel Lindsay, the first Black Bachelorette lead, for “calling out” Chris Harrison after he excused historical racism, which resulted in a temporary dismissal.









Galavis’s season of The Bachelor, which aired in 2014 and didn’t end with a proposal, is generally derided for the Big Fuckboi Energy it brought to the franchise. It was also this season that brought us future Bachelorette Clare Crawley and her infamous scorched-earth breakup speech, where she told Galavis that “I’d never want my children having a father like you.” Galavis is currently divorced and single, if you’re into that sort of thing.


This guy is complaining about racism?

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