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I'd met a chick online who told me that she'd only had two men that could make her cum. And one of the two, had only done it once. Me, being a nosy ass ghetto psychologist, i asked a few questions:
Me: is it difficult for you to cum?
Her: No Me: Were you attracted to the guys you were dealing with?
Her: yes
Me: Can you make yourself cum?
Her: yes.
Me: So if you know exactly what needs to happen in order for you to cum, why don't you tell the dudes that you deal with?
Her: I don't know, I usually focus on the guy's pleasure.
That confused me a lil bit. Personally, I will train a chick. And, if she's untrainable, she's out the door.
So I decided to ask the various women in my circle, asking them general questions about the female orgasm. Just trying to gain a little insight, maybe determine a pattern, a blueprint of sorts I noticed that most women are reluctant to speak about it, maybe because they're shy, or maybe cuz it's a man asking them. And, I know that there is more that they'd share with their female friends. I figured that if there were an anonymous forum, where would could share their stories that I'd get better, more truthful and more descriptive answers. So, I started Wet Letters, it's still at it's beginning stages but I figure I could gain a lot of insight this way. I'm getting positive feed back, but i wanted to throw it to the wolves and see what kind of criticism or suggestions I'd receive.
Ladies ( and men ), I'd appreciate your input. And, If anyone wants to be the first to post please do so. I'm looking to invite women to share very intimate details about their sex life, and I'd like to make sure that i'm asking the questions the right way, and not making it too "interview-ish".
I'd met a chick online who told me that she'd only had two men that could make her cum. And one of the two, had only done it once. Me, being a nosy ass ghetto psychologist, i asked a few questions:
Me: is it difficult for you to cum?
Her: No Me: Were you attracted to the guys you were dealing with?
Her: yes
Me: Can you make yourself cum?
Her: yes.
Me: So if you know exactly what needs to happen in order for you to cum, why don't you tell the dudes that you deal with?
Her: I don't know, I usually focus on the guy's pleasure.
That confused me a lil bit. Personally, I will train a chick. And, if she's untrainable, she's out the door.
So I decided to ask the various women in my circle, asking them general questions about the female orgasm. Just trying to gain a little insight, maybe determine a pattern, a blueprint of sorts I noticed that most women are reluctant to speak about it, maybe because they're shy, or maybe cuz it's a man asking them. And, I know that there is more that they'd share with their female friends. I figured that if there were an anonymous forum, where would could share their stories that I'd get better, more truthful and more descriptive answers. So, I started Wet Letters, it's still at it's beginning stages but I figure I could gain a lot of insight this way. I'm getting positive feed back, but i wanted to throw it to the wolves and see what kind of criticism or suggestions I'd receive.
Ladies ( and men ), I'd appreciate your input. And, If anyone wants to be the first to post please do so. I'm looking to invite women to share very intimate details about their sex life, and I'd like to make sure that i'm asking the questions the right way, and not making it too "interview-ish".
She knows what feels right better than you ever could. Its all about a woman's mindset, the same thing that worked yesterday may not work today. You cannot approach a woman with a preconceived idea of what your going to do to her. Every woman is different, everyday is different and I assure you the mood and encounter will be different with her every time. If it wasn't sex would get boring.
