To all the father handling their business…We understand the struggle

[(0_0)..l.. finger]

This is real shit right here. Being a father is one of the hardest job in the world. The kids don’t understand how hard it is to get up everyday to financially take care of the family. There is no one cheering daddy. He gets up everyday to provide because that is what a man do for his children. It doesn’t matter how lonely, stressed or miserable daddy is feeling, he gets his ass up everyday to handle his business…

 

[(0_0)..l.. finger]

It's just a catch 22 when you have kids and things go left with the mom (in most cases, not all).

Judge says pay, mom says pay, hence Dad's time is limited because he has to work.

Dad works and provides to the constraint in which the judge has ordered, now mom complains to the court there is no time.

Dad spends more time and makes less money, now he's in violation of the support order.

It's like being a hamster in a hamster wheel. As a man, rich or poor, you can't win in these situations. You just take things day by day.

Nd then there's the kid who doesn't care about the money because he/ she is too young to even realize the dollar value of the things they have and what the dad has to do to make said things happen.

 

[(0_0)..l.. finger]

Sometimes our absence, as we chase money for family support, gets lost. The moms in their case get the glory because we have made it such for them to experience comfort. So all they see is the stay home mom. Daddy is too tired to engage in family matters other than bills because he is trying to hols himself together and every moment away from chaos is his peace. To include his family.

 

[(0_0)..l.. finger]

Is chasing money really worth it. At some point you have to show your face and say fuck everything else and give the babies a Lil time to know who you are.....because when the turmoil hits of divorce etc. The babies will voice what they see, not what they know ‍"

 

[(0_0)..l.. finger]

I’m just venting. Don’t take what I’m saying serious….

 

[(0_0)..l.. finger]

 

[sammyjax]

Fuck is this

Notice they didn't ask any little girls

 

[BrownTurd]

This is real shit right here. Being a father is one of the hardest job in the world. The kids don’t understand how hard it is to get up everyday to financially take care of the family. There is no one cheering daddy. He gets up everyday to provide because that is what a man do for his children. It doesn’t matter how lonely, stressed or miserable daddy is feeling, he gets his ass up everyday to handle his business…

Yeah Good fathers are not celebrated much if at all. When your child is born, people automatically give the women all the props as if she had the baby by herself.

Also, I guess it is good that your soon would save mommy first as that would be what a real man would want if his wife was handling business

 

[alexw]

Fuck is this

Notice they didn't ask any little girls

I was coming to say the exact same thing. Ask little girls and I bet you the answers are the opposite

 

[sammyjax]

I was coming to say the exact same thing. Ask little girls and I bet you the answers are the opposite

Like

Every time

If not it's because yo ass is sorry

 

[tebriel69]

Ima keep grinding regardless. It’s a thankless job. Thanks for this bgol

 

[Bawse Nigguh]

Saw my father do it…40+ years. All the bullshit he had to go through with his kids from his first marriage. All the shit he put up with when it came to me and my siblings. And not once did he look for admiration or acknowledgment. I showed him this post and he said “you wasn’t tired when you was fucking her…don’t be tired when it comes to doing what you supposed to do. Actions have consequences.” He said you better save your momma if you could only save one parent. The role you choose as a father is sacrifice and every nigga ain’t built for it. That’s why they run. He said this is a weak man argument because you just looking for an excuse to turn tail and be free. He is almost in his 80s so a progressive thinker he is not… but I won’t deny his wisdom

 

[darth frosty]

 

[Heavenlywings77]

Too many white people videos in here,
I can't- -

 

[illdog]

Tha real tired of that shit/crazy azz dad...

 

[tallblacknyc]

This is real shit right here. Being a father is one of the hardest job in the world. The kids don’t understand how hard it is to get up everyday to financially take care of the family. There is no one cheering daddy. He gets up everyday to provide because that is what a man do for his children. It doesn’t matter how lonely, stressed or miserable daddy is feeling, he gets his ass up everyday to handle his business…

Well according to bgol they would deny their sons to have sex in their house. This is how the sons reacted when they heard their fathers would cockblock them

Who do you love more “mommy”


Message: never be a cockblocker nobody loves cockblockers