I heard of women having standards, but this one takes the cake...I have a strong feeling she is still single, this is her list of what her man must have
No longer have a "type of guy" I have "requirements" that I have when it comes to selecting who I chose to share my time with. Some of those requirements are listed below:
a. Single (this means: non-committed, & non-involved)
b. Not on the "Down Low" (The propensity of men to hide their home sexual behavior/lifestyle - Men who are interested in women and portray that lifestyle out in public and to those who are not in the DL inner circle but who secretly have sexual relations/relationships with men Being on the "down low," is a term for people who secretly have sex with members of the same gender. The first mainstream media account was reported in the L.A. Times on Feb. 7, 2001. The term is predominately used in African-American and Latino populations. It is a way for African-American and Latino men to admit to having sex with other men, without identifying as "gay." For many in the African-American and Latino community, the term "gay" applies only to white people.)
c. Absolutely No Children (I don't have any, so why would I want someone with a pre-made family?)
d. HS Diploma + College Degree (preferably in the process of attaining Master's Degree or already in possession of a Master's Degree)
e. Legitimate Full Time Job/Career
f. Own Place (but there can be exceptions to this, provided a valid, reasonable, & logical explanation can be provided)
g. Own Car (financed or leased with valid insurance & registration)
h. No "Priors" (even the simplest of people know what this means)
i. Excellent personally hygiene and personal care
j. Physically appealing (nice teeth straight, white, plaque free, gingivitis free, nice hands & feet clean, trim nails, well taken care of skin/no ashy-ness, well groomed don't have to be clean shaven, but neat & put together, up to par physical stature not too thin/skinny & not to large/over weight, fashionable dress, pleasant aroma/fragrance)
k. Mentally appealing (good conversation, intelligence, able to speak on events going on in one's personal community, and global community, mentally sound not "throwed off", possessing a lively sense of humor)
l. Socially appealing & appropriate/Behavior and Swag must be on point (MATURE not about playing games, cultured, gentlemanly, civilized, suave, charismatic, charming, debonair)
m. Receiving regular checkups & making appointments when necessary to visit one's family physician(s) (physiological, mental, dental, auditory, visual)
n. Confident, Self Assured, & Secure within oneself, Self Valued, Self Esteemed (Positive attitude & demeanor) o. Responsible in all areas of life
p. Accountable for word & deed
q. Great rapport with family, friends, acquaintances, associates, employers, community, etc.
r. Social life that extends beyond me (friends, interests)
s. Mature friends with similar attitudes, actions/behaviors, interests, and upwardly mobile things going on in their life
t. Good conflict resolution/problem solving skills
u. NON-LAZY (Motivated, determined, creative thinking, forward thinking, driven for more and better in life)
v. Talented in something outside of oneself
w. Personally endeavored in a self-fulfilling task
x. Civic/community involvement, a registered voter & an actual voter
y. Enjoys going out to socialize (to eat, get a drink, dance, mix & mingle, movies, etc.)
z. Able & willing to love (this includes: liking, respecting, caring, trusting, giving, adoring, cherishing, admiring, elevating another with word and action, honoring, self sacrificing, valuing, openness, good listening skills, good advice skills/wisdom, humble, considerate, courteous, honesty, trustworthiness.
http://www.blackplanet.com/BellaCentava/
No longer have a "type of guy" I have "requirements" that I have when it comes to selecting who I chose to share my time with. Some of those requirements are listed below:
a. Single (this means: non-committed, & non-involved)
b. Not on the "Down Low" (The propensity of men to hide their home sexual behavior/lifestyle - Men who are interested in women and portray that lifestyle out in public and to those who are not in the DL inner circle but who secretly have sexual relations/relationships with men Being on the "down low," is a term for people who secretly have sex with members of the same gender. The first mainstream media account was reported in the L.A. Times on Feb. 7, 2001. The term is predominately used in African-American and Latino populations. It is a way for African-American and Latino men to admit to having sex with other men, without identifying as "gay." For many in the African-American and Latino community, the term "gay" applies only to white people.)
c. Absolutely No Children (I don't have any, so why would I want someone with a pre-made family?)
d. HS Diploma + College Degree (preferably in the process of attaining Master's Degree or already in possession of a Master's Degree)
e. Legitimate Full Time Job/Career
f. Own Place (but there can be exceptions to this, provided a valid, reasonable, & logical explanation can be provided)
g. Own Car (financed or leased with valid insurance & registration)
h. No "Priors" (even the simplest of people know what this means)
i. Excellent personally hygiene and personal care
j. Physically appealing (nice teeth straight, white, plaque free, gingivitis free, nice hands & feet clean, trim nails, well taken care of skin/no ashy-ness, well groomed don't have to be clean shaven, but neat & put together, up to par physical stature not too thin/skinny & not to large/over weight, fashionable dress, pleasant aroma/fragrance)
k. Mentally appealing (good conversation, intelligence, able to speak on events going on in one's personal community, and global community, mentally sound not "throwed off", possessing a lively sense of humor)
l. Socially appealing & appropriate/Behavior and Swag must be on point (MATURE not about playing games, cultured, gentlemanly, civilized, suave, charismatic, charming, debonair)
m. Receiving regular checkups & making appointments when necessary to visit one's family physician(s) (physiological, mental, dental, auditory, visual)
n. Confident, Self Assured, & Secure within oneself, Self Valued, Self Esteemed (Positive attitude & demeanor) o. Responsible in all areas of life
p. Accountable for word & deed
q. Great rapport with family, friends, acquaintances, associates, employers, community, etc.
r. Social life that extends beyond me (friends, interests)
s. Mature friends with similar attitudes, actions/behaviors, interests, and upwardly mobile things going on in their life
t. Good conflict resolution/problem solving skills
u. NON-LAZY (Motivated, determined, creative thinking, forward thinking, driven for more and better in life)
v. Talented in something outside of oneself
w. Personally endeavored in a self-fulfilling task
x. Civic/community involvement, a registered voter & an actual voter
y. Enjoys going out to socialize (to eat, get a drink, dance, mix & mingle, movies, etc.)
z. Able & willing to love (this includes: liking, respecting, caring, trusting, giving, adoring, cherishing, admiring, elevating another with word and action, honoring, self sacrificing, valuing, openness, good listening skills, good advice skills/wisdom, humble, considerate, courteous, honesty, trustworthiness.
http://www.blackplanet.com/BellaCentava/
