Tariq King Flex is counterproductive

[d_the_inc]

I just listened to that barely inaudible discussion between Tariq and Pearl Jr. and it's very apparent that there is up a huge disparity between the type of blackman(niggas who want to be macks) and blackwoman, who have become somewhat disillusioned by blackmen.....Let's be clear that trash that Tariq advocates or spits will certainly ensure that you will be the old nigga in the club...he kinda reminds of an old relic from the past....you notice he never mentions talks about kids, wife or the family....it's a shame because he isn't a dumb cat...just jaded and misguided in my opinion....nothing he says enables men to pursue wealth, family, and happiness...but I'm sure my opinion is the minority...Tariq got some real women issues...Perhaps he'll see the light one day...Mack school...mack your career, mack opportunity. mack those grades, mack investments, mack the upliftment of our community...macking on our women is another form of abuse.

 

[femmenoire]

I just listened to that barely inaudible discussion between Tariq and Pearl Jr. and it's very apparent that there is up a huge disparity between the type of blackman(niggas who want to be macks) and blackwoman, who have become somewhat disillusioned by blackmen.....Let's be clear that trash that Tariq advocates or spits will certainly ensure that you will be the old nigga in the club...he kinda reminds of an old relic from the past....you notice he never mentions talks about kids, wife or the family....it's a shame because he isn't a dumb cat...just jaded and misguided in my opinion....nothing he says enables men to pursue wealth, family, and happiness...but I'm sure my opinion is the minority...Tariq got some real women issues...Perhaps he'll see the light one day...Mack school...mack your career, mack opportunity. mack those grades, mack investments, mack the upliftment of our community...macking on our women is another form of abuse.

Well the only thing I disagree with is that he does seem to have an affinity for the finer things. He hasn't addressed how black men are to gain wealth directly because his focus is about "macking".

And according to him it's macking for personal benefit and not business as another boardmember is claiming.

He generalizes alot but he's not always too far off the mark to be quite honest.

I just don't think he argues his points very well but not because he doesn't make valid ones, but because he seems to be easily frustrated. His show is set up for distractions that seem to trigger anger. I think if he had a gun instead of a mike, he probably would have been another sad statistic.

 

[Chitownheadbusa]

...you notice he never mentions talks about kids, wife or the family....

he's not a marriage or family counselor


i think he just teaching men how to communicate/handle a woman.
once u have a good understanding about a woman, all that other stuff u mentioned can be put in order

 

[Legacyns]

he's not a marriage or family counselor


i think he just teaching men how to communicate/handle a woman.
once u have a good understanding about a woman, all that other stuff u mentioned can be put in order

Real talk.. plus he talked about marrying the right woman. And, I'll say it to I am blue in the face, marriage is OPTIONAL which means children are optional. No is required to get married & have a family. In fact, if you're not cut out for it, it's best you leave that shyt alone & go solo.

 

[the flash]

he's not a marriage or family counselor


i think he just teaching men how to communicate/handle a woman.
once u have a good understanding about a woman, all that other stuff u mentioned can be put in order

church

 

["LEGEND KG"]

he's not a marriage or family counselor


i think he just teaching men how to communicate/handle a woman.
once u have a good understanding about a woman, all that other stuff u mentioned can be put in order

yeah, and remember fellas...YOU HAVE TO BE YOUR OWN MAN, the ni99as not trying to be yo father, be your own dam man first!

 

[Mo Pizorn]

Man, its some bitch made shit to be starting a whole post just to say this. Be a man homey and go to his website or MySpace page and air your issues with him. You are basing your opinion off one podcast when dude has made about 50 of them? This is a lame ass post. I hope you get your "honorary woman" badge for this over at Pearl's site or Lipstick Alley.

 

[femmenoire]

Man, its some bitch made shit to be starting a whole post just to say this. Be a man homey and go to his website or MySpace page and air your issues with him. You are basing your opinion off one podcast when dude has made about 50 of them? This is a lame ass post. I hope you get your "honorary woman" badge for this over at Pearl's site or Lipstick Alley.

He's only following suit.

You should have scoffed at the 7 Michael Richards threads and the 3 Kina Kara threads.

 

[d_the_inc]

I hear what you all...but I'm saying this...I know cat's that play the so-called game very well...but damn you would just think that once a cats gets into his mid to late 30's that shit should be out his system, and he would be on the conquering more important challenges in this short life...I'm just saying that his messaging doesn't uplift, or promote meaningful realationships....it all based on game....is Tariq the new box of black thought? He ain't the type of cat that I want to see speaking at college engagements or debating on the dillema between blackmen and women...and let me just put this our there now....this aint me hating on the brother....I just wish his converation was more fruitable toward fixing the problem, not providing the gullible, and insecure cats a blue print on how to further manipulate.

 

[d_the_inc]

Man, its some bitch made shit to be starting a whole post just to say this. Be a man homey and go to his website or MySpace page and air your issues with him. You are basing your opinion off one podcast when dude has made about 50 of them? This is a lame ass post. I hope you get your "honorary woman" badge for this over at Pearl's site or Lipstick Alley.

Yo brother straight up...you're outta order....kill that shit right here man

 

[gene cisco]

yeah, and remember fellas...YOU HAVE TO BE YOUR OWN MAN, the ni99as not trying to be yo father, be your own dam man first!

True shit.


On the real, fuck what you heard western civilization is counterproductive cause it has us in an arachnid mentality, we aint spiders the females aint supposed to be running shit and biting our heads off

Better yet most american men are like ants, go to work, work, work, work and break the queen off.

We come from a people that had has many wives as they wanted to this european bullshit.

Just go watch dicovery, that fucking spider knows he will die fucking with that big evil bitch, but he cannot help it and does it anyway. Thats the way most men hand their balls over to women.

 

[femmenoire]

True shit.


On the real, fuck what you heard western civilization is counterproductive cause it has us in an arachnid mentality, we aint spiders the females aint supposed to be running shit and biting our heads off

Better yet most american men are like ants, go to work, work, work, work and break the queen off.

We come from a people that had has many wives as they wanted to this european bullshit.

Just go watch dicovery, that fucking spider knows he will die fucking with that big evil bitch, but he cannot help it and does it anyway. Thats the way most men hand their balls over to women.

So are you a fan of polygamy?

 

["LEGEND KG"]

So are you a fan of polygamy?

What he said............

 

[gene cisco]

So are you a fan of polygamy?

I think in a mans case(since DNA is new) it is natural for us more so than a woman(she knows she is out for 9months while the dude doesnt know thats his seed).

Our ancestors had it where if you could support 2 or 3 women you had that many. I am in favor of that being an option if gay folks can marry, hell even if they cannot.

Hell it might make for a house of peace, man is gone and the women get to chit chat, get their gossip on, than the man comes home and kicks it.

But yes it should be an option, it was our ancestors option.

 

[Mo Pizorn]

Look man. All I'm saying is that dude is trying to communicate ideas to a segment of black men that are not going to be responsive to corny Bill Cosby-esque talk. He is in effect a motivational speaker. I don't agree with everything he says but about 90% of the time he is on point. I've listened to a lot of his podcasts and the debate was one of his worst. When he is monologueing, he makes some great point. He talks about a lot more than macking but macking is the lure. If you listen to his podcasts, you'd know that. He's even devoted shows to other topics. I believe he wants black men to accept being black men. Only then can black men better themselves. We must first acknowledge ourselves. Not everyone is going to run out and try to be a mack. That's an absurd conclusion. BUT, some may get up the next day with a little more confidence to go out and try to better themselves and there's nothing wrong with that. He says the hard lines: Get off your ass and get your shit together so you can have better things in life. Stop supporting negative females, it brings you down to have someone on your team bringing you down.
Pearl's whole deal was what men need to be doing as men when she is not a man so she really has no place setting guidelines for men. She kept trying to sell the marriage trap so she can "teach" women how to manipulate simps. Many black men have been brainwashed into thinking we need to be subserviant and deal with a lot of bullshit. I have been saying the same shit for years on BGOL and so I can say I'm glad to hear another brother trying to desimpify some of these dudes.[/b] Take Tariq with a grain of salt and walk away with the positives. Pleading the case for the females' side makes you sound like a brainwashed captain-save-a-hoe. If you're really about something, you'll leave the hoes for the "thugs", get your shit together and find a nice wifeable woman to team up with and make shit happen. Nobody said you have to be a mack but you damn sure don't have to be a simp. Black men are lacking balls and other black men need to be encouraging each other to step up and grow a set not taking instructions from women on how to better serve them.

 

[femmenoire]

I think in a mans case(since DNA is new) it is natural for us more so than a woman(she knows she is out for 9months while the dude doesnt know thats his seed).

Our ancestors had it where if you could support 2 or 3 women you had that many. I am in favor of that being an option if gay folks can marry, hell even if they cannot.

Hell it might make for a house of peace, man is gone and the women get to chit chat, get their gossip on, than the man comes home and kicks it.

But yes it should be an option, it was our ancestors option.

Well I doubt they saw it as an option.

It's true that monogamy is a European practice riddled with hypocrisy I think, because it's intent was to control women anyway. But I digress.

Polygamy can indisputably resolve some of today's issues.

But we're not people of yesterday. We're not even people of 10 years ago. I couldn't support an age old process that can't readily address the needs of today.

 

[gene cisco]

Well I doubt they saw it as an option.

It's true that monogamy is a European practice riddled with hypocrisy I think, because it's intent was to control women anyway. But I digress.

Polygamy can indisputably resolve some of today's issues.

But we're not people of yesterday. We're not even people of 10 years ago. I couldn't support an age old process that can't readily address the needs of today.

Then it would be your option not to be in it.

I would condone it to those that want to live the life. It would eliminate alot of fake shit, but I do not know if these pilgrim euros would go for it.

Like when we talked about fitness, we know people shouldnt eat big macs everyday but some choose to do, even if obesity costs america billions.

I think its an option that should be available but none of that little girl cult type shit.

 

[Agallah005]

I posted some shit like this months ago and niggas was clowning(atleast those with an IQ of peanutbutter) like I was in the wrong, but all they listen to is the flash......he always calls black women bitches.......the white women, latinas, asians........never. I agree that if you follow his ass, you'll be the old nigga at the club, sort of like going to a white club and seeing the forty year-old with a mullet.....you'll be the old nigga in a velour suit and a Kangol in the corner........ashy as all hell.......and trying to be a mack, too funny, but ya'll wanna follow his advice.........that's just pathetic.......keep listening to his show as if it's some bible passage or something.

 

[Dannyblueyes]

I posted some shit like this months ago and niggas was clowning(atleast those with an IQ of peanutbutter) like I was in the wrong, but all they listen to is the flash......he always calls black women bitches.......the white women, latinas, asians........never. I agree that if you follow his ass, you'll be the old nigga at the club, sort of like going to a white club and seeing the forty year-old with a mullet.....you'll be the old nigga in a velour suit and a Kangol in the corner........ashy as all hell.......and trying to be a mack, too funny, but ya'll wanna follow his advice.........that's just pathetic.......keep listening to his show as if it's some bible passage or something.

But what's the alternative? If you're a man not only do you have a more than 50% chance of your marriage breaking up, you also risk losing half of everything you've ever earned or will ever earn in the future to a woman who may not have ever worked a day in her life. Shit, I will be the old dude in the club rather than let that happen again.

 

[d_the_inc]

I posted some shit like this months ago and niggas was clowning(atleast those with an IQ of peanutbutter) like I was in the wrong, but all they listen to is the flash......he always calls black women bitches.......the white women, latinas, asians........never. I agree that if you follow his ass, you'll be the old nigga at the club, sort of like going to a white club and seeing the forty year-old with a mullet.....you'll be the old nigga in a velour suit and a Kangol in the corner........ashy as all hell.......and trying to be a mack, too funny, but ya'll wanna follow his advice.........that's just pathetic.......keep listening to his show as if it's some bible passage or something.

I feel ya brah....like I said...he's smart cat...but his message is very limiting, and in the larger scheme of things does more harm than good....And the truth be told...he demonstrated how limited his arguments can be when challenge...in other words he yielded....it funny though cats really seem to believe that his message is empowering..it's not....I can't respect a cat who disrespect women....I don't who he is...how much money he has, or how popular other's may find him

 

[smiffnwessun]

The thing that throws me off is that he has a movement moving not many black men engaging brothers in a dialogue who might not necessarily be interested. i like the motivational aspect of his show. just as long as one brother is deciding to not choose mediocrity because of the show i think it is great to have his show in the marketplace of ideas. If you feel strong enough do something!

 

[big pimp]

But what's the alternative? If you're a man not only do you have a more than 50% chance of your marriage breaking up, you also risk losing half of everything you've ever earned or will ever earn in the future to a woman who may not have ever worked a day in her life. Shit, I will be the old dude in the club rather than let that happen again.

cosign

 

[buffdaddy]

anyone have the audio for the tariq vs. pearl jr.?

 

[Maximumtrini]

His most important message over all is that men to value themselves, and stop putting themselves lower than women. If he could stop these dudes from simpin, then he's being productive.

 

[HarlemPerv]

you can't take him literally at all, just know what types to avoid..

And besides, being 35+ trying to be in the club is NOT a good look, don't care what y'all niccas say...

 

[reflex]

Look man. All I'm saying is that dude is trying to communicate ideas to a segment of black men that are not going to be responsive to corny Bill Cosby-esque talk. He is in effect a motivational speaker. I don't agree with everything he says but about 90% of the time he is on point. I've listened to a lot of his podcasts and the debate was one of his worst. When he is monologueing, he makes some great point. He talks about a lot more than macking but macking is the lure. If you listen to his podcasts, you'd know that. He's even devoted shows to other topics. I believe he wants black men to accept being black men. Only then can black men better themselves. We must first acknowledge ourselves. Not everyone is going to run out and try to be a mack. That's an absurd conclusion. BUT, some may get up the next day with a little more confidence to go out and try to better themselves and there's nothing wrong with that. He says the hard lines: Get off your ass and get your shit together so you can have better things in life. Stop supporting negative females, it brings you down to have someone on your team bringing you down.
Pearl's whole deal was what men need to be doing as men when she is not a man so she really has no place setting guidelines for men. She kept trying to sell the marriage trap so she can "teach" women how to manipulate simps. Many black men have been brainwashed into thinking we need to be subserviant and deal with a lot of bullshit. I have been saying the same shit for years on BGOL and so I can say I'm glad to hear another brother trying to desimpify some of these dudes.[/b] Take Tariq with a grain of salt and walk away with the positives. Pleading the case for the females' side makes you sound like a brainwashed captain-save-a-hoe. If you're really about something, you'll leave the hoes for the "thugs", get your shit together and find a nice wifeable woman to team up with and make shit happen. Nobody said you have to be a mack but you damn sure don't have to be a simp. Black men are lacking balls and other black men need to be encouraging each other to step up and grow a set not taking instructions from women on how to better serve them.

Your on point. Tariq talks about game for woman and men. He talks about raising your standards the way woman do, not going for anything. He also talks about getting yourself together first, because woman will always be here. It's funny people talk about him but they listen to his podcast, and stay on top of what he does. He's one of the best to me that talks about real game on dealing with woman. He's not going to give you every single detail of the macking game, because he is a business man first.