Steakhouse owner stabbed to death during gender reveal party and his girlfriend’s son now faces charges

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The owner of an Illinois steakhouse was stabbed to death during a gender reveal party — and now his girlfriend’s son is in custody in connection to his killing.

Joshua Kirkwood, the owner of 41 14 Forty One Fourteen Steaks and Seafood in Waukegan, Illinois, was stabbed multiple times Saturday night, the coroner’s office told ABC7. He was later pronounced dead at Vista Medical Center East.

The 51-year-old got into an argument with his girlfriend — the restaurant’s manager — while a gender reveal party was going on downstairs at the steakhouse, according to court documents seen by the outlet.

That’s when two of her sons allegedly got involved. Her 16-year-old son grabbed a kitchen knife and stabbed Kirkwood multiple times before leaving with his older brother 21-year-old Iziah Gonzalez, WGN9 reported. Gonzalez and his mother were both stabbed in the incident, the outlet reported.

The 21-year-old was booked into Lake County Jail on a murder charge, records show.

His brother and mother are listed as co-defendants in court documents but have not been officially charged, WGN9 reported. The Independent has reached out to the Waukegan Police Department for more information.

Police have recovered the kitchen tool-turned-murder weapon.

Friends and the Waukegan community are mourning the loss of the business owner and gathered for a prayer vigil Monday.

“For something to have happened where that celebration moves to this,” former Waukegan Mayor Sam Cunningham, a close friend of Kirkwood, told ABC7. “For him to have lost his life in the place where he spent most of his life.”

Kirkwood leaves behind four children, according to the outlet.

“I know how it feels because I lost a child,” he said. “You live with it every day. You can’t get it out of your mind.”

Waukegan resident Jurnee Iverson told the outlet that Kirkwood had wanted a place where the community came together to have “brunch, karaoke, and games,” adding: “He didn’t deserve this and his family didn’t deserve this.”

Many remembered Kirkwood as generous, especially in times of need.
 
That's a no-go from the start, dealing with women with older teen-adult kids. It's like you gotta always be ready to pop one of em when shit goes bad. Rip to homie but he could've just beat a couple of times and kept it pushing and not get close to that woman and her kids. I can deal with a woman who has elementary-aged children or younger which is easier to show love to and put them up on game.
 
If your a business owner sometimes its best to not to rent to certain people because it's just not worth it.

RIP to the owner and I wish jail on that whole family for the fuck shit they did
 
I'm not understanding why the 16 year old did the stabbing but the 21 year old is the one charged.

Did he help the 16yr leave the scene, if so then that’s why?

Likely will be dropped but not now

The 16 y/o is a juve, so he may be dealt with differently. Notice how they only name the older son?

The 21 y/o was involved with the altercation and helped the younger one flee so he could get charged as an accomplice.

By the sound of the name, they may be Hispanic.

Edit: Saw the mugshot of the 21 y/o. Yes, Hispanic.
 
That's a no-go from the start, dealing with women with older teen-adult kids. It's like you gotta always be ready to pop one of em when shit goes bad. Rip to homie but he could've just beat a couple of times and kept it pushing and not get close to that woman and her kids. I can deal with a woman who has elementary-aged children or younger which is easier to show love to and put them up on game.
I hate women with kids. I absolutely fucking hate it. With younger kids, they're all fucking needy and shit. They hate you because you're taking time away from them and their mommy

Older kids hate you just because their dick heads. women who are three and four time baby mamas are just irresponsible (just like dudes who HAVE 3-4 or more baby mamas, The difference is these motherfuckers skeet and leave leaving the chick with the kid). It's not cool to have a baby by every boy you dated since high school. Learn how to use a condom. Stop trying to repopulate America

The only benefit of dating a woman with older teenage kids is you can actually spend time with her and she can leave the kid to hang out with you. When you date a woman with younger kids, you got to find a babysitter and also the nonsense
 
I hate women with kids. I absolutely fucking hate it. With younger kids, they're all fucking needy and shit. They hate you because you're taking time away from them and their mommy

Older kids hate you just because their dick heads. women who are three and four time baby mamas are just irresponsible (just like dudes who HAVE 3-4 or more baby mamas, The difference is these motherfuckers skeet and leave leaving the chick with the kid). It's not cool to have a baby by every boy you dated since high school. Learn how to use a condom. Stop trying to repopulate America

The only benefit of dating a woman with older teenage kids is you can actually spend time with her and she can leave the kid to hang out with you. When you date a woman with younger kids, you got to find a babysitter and also the nonsense
Man, you’re close to 50, so most women in your age group are likely to have children. 28-38 years old. Unless you’re going down to 18-26
 
I hate women with kids. I absolutely fucking hate it. With younger kids, they're all fucking needy and shit. They hate you because you're taking time away from them and their mommy

Older kids hate you just because their dick heads. women who are three and four time baby mamas are just irresponsible (just like dudes who HAVE 3-4 or more baby mamas, The difference is these motherfuckers skeet and leave leaving the chick with the kid). It's not cool to have a baby by every boy you dated since high school. Learn how to use a condom. Stop trying to repopulate America

The only benefit of dating a woman with older teenage kids is you can actually spend time with her and she can leave the kid to hang out with you. When you date a woman with younger kids, you got to find a babysitter and also the nonsense
I agree with this. Dealing with a woman with kids, especially older ones means you're always subject to the leverage they hold over you. At any time you may have to deal with an accusation from the daughter that you "touched" her and with the son you always have to worried about having to go toe to toe with that lil nigga if he gets mad. No thanks. I'm good on that.
 
Man, you’re close to 50, so most women in your age group are likely to have children. 28-38 years old. Unless you’re going down to 18-26
I know what it is, I don't like it, but I know what it is. A lot of women in my age group have kids, but the problem my face with the few that I have dated is these bitches won't put the goddamn kids out
 
I agree with this. Dealing with a woman with kids, especially older ones means you're always subject to the leverage they hold over you. At any time you may have to deal with an accusation from the daughter that you "touched" her and with the son you always have to worried about having to go toe to toe with that lil nigga if he gets mad. No thanks. I'm good on that.
Man, listen. I got no time for some young dude who is trying to taunt/bait me into whooping his ass. Dating women with kids and so fucking frustrating because single mothers feel so bad about being single mothers that they don't institute any discipline at all, and when I show up and try to discipline a little motherfucker, the little motherfucker acts like I'm taking away his world and shit because I'm making him go to bed at a decent hour.

Bedtimes aren't for children, they're for parents. So we can have some fucking peace. Most single mother feel bad about being single mother so they let their kids get away with fucking murder
 
Wtf, his girlfriends son look like a devil crackhead fiend. What the hell was the brother doing wrapped up in a family like that? RIP
 
dam........r.i.p. to the brother. dealing with a woman who have kids already and they damn near frown.....they gonna try to buck you knowing they probably never liked your ass in the first place. his girlfriend failed him
 
I hate women with kids. I absolutely fucking hate it. With younger kids, they're all fucking needy and shit. They hate you because you're taking time away from them and their mommy

Older kids hate you just because their dick heads. women who are three and four time baby mamas are just irresponsible (just like dudes who HAVE 3-4 or more baby mamas, The difference is these motherfuckers skeet and leave leaving the chick with the kid). It's not cool to have a baby by every boy you dated since high school. Learn how to use a condom. Stop trying to repopulate America

The only benefit of dating a woman with older teenage kids is you can actually spend time with her and she can leave the kid to hang out with you. When you date a woman with younger kids, you got to find a babysitter and also the nonsense
I'm the opposite. I prefer a woman with older kids, because she has to go home eventually. Women with no kids tend to linger and damn near move themselves in. Single moms have maybe 2 or 3 days of freedom, then they have to go home. The only difference is that I usually don't be around the kid. I mind my business as they mind their own.
:dunno:
Chick with no kids will be at your crib waiting in your driveway before you even clock out of work
:lol:
 
Man, this story is deep / twisted....... the boys alleged that Joshua has a history of beating their mother......

The 21yr old son was having the gender reveal party! Joshua was 51, the gf Veronica was 37.

Joshua and Veronica Were arguing upstairs which an employee said was common for them.

Jordan Roque (16) overheard them arguing and rushes downstairs to got Elizah (21) because Jordan's going to "kill him."

The 2 boys confront Joshua over arguing with their mother.Joshua tells them to get out or he's "gonna throw hands."

Joshua and Elizah began grabbing each other, Jordan grabs a 9 inch knife and starts stabbing.
Jordan stabs Joshua a few times and in the process stabs Elizah in the hand and almost severs one of his fingers. Jordan also stabs Veronica, in the leg, at some point in the fracas.

Jordan and Elizah flee the scene.

Veronica and a 4th woman go grab the camera system DVR from the office. Veronica puts it in her car. She then tells employees who saw the incident to not talk to police or to lie and not incriminate her sons!

Police and paramedics arrive and transport Joshua to a nearby hospital. Elizah shows up at the same hospital about 20 mins later, with a severe hand injury and a finger requiring numerous stitches to keep it attached!

Veronica was also on pre-trial release at the time of her arrest for an aggravated battery causing great bodily harm and aggravated battery with a deadly weapon case from April 2023!!!

This nearly 2 years after her first serious charge..... why didnt she have court yet?! And why would Joshua be with a chick that almost killed a mfkr in the past?!! There had to be more options out there....smdh
 

A Vernon Hills woman is the fourth suspect charged in connection with the murder of a restaurant owner in Waukegan after a mother and her two sons were arrested last month.

The Waukegan Police Department and Waukegan Fire Department responded around 11:30 p.m. on February 8 to 41 14 Forty One Fourteen Steaks and Seafood, 2120 North Green Bay Road, for a report of a stabbing.

Police arrived and made contact with Veronica Roque, 37, of Waukegan, who had a stab wound to her leg, according to Lake County Assistant State’s Attorney Elizabeth Cannon.

Officers also located an unresponsive victim, later identified as Joshua Kirkwood, 51, of Waukegan, with numerous stab wounds.

Officers performed CPR on Kirkwood until paramedics arrived and took over care, Cannon said.

Lake County Coroner Jennifer Banek said paramedics rushed the man to Vista Medical Center East in Waukegan where he was pronounced dead.

He was the owner of the restaurant and also owned Create Your Own Cheesecake and Cheesesteak in Waukegan.

Cannon said Kirkwood suffered numerous stab wounds, including to his wrist, back and right side.

Police learned from Vista Medical Center East around 20 minutes later that a third person, Iziah T. Gonzalez, 21, of Round Lake, suffered a stab wound and had arrived in the emergency department seeking treatment.

Officers spoke to two employees who were working at the time of the incident.

One of them said that Kirkwood and Roque, who was in a relationship with Kirkwood and a manager at the restaurant, were having a “heated discussion” in Kirkwood’s office, which was typical for them, Cannon said.

The woman’s son, Jordan Roque, 16, of Waukegan, was upstairs and heard the verbal argument between his mother and Kirkwood.

Cannon said Jordan Roque walked downstairs after saying he was going to get his brother, Gonzalez, and kill Kirkwood, according to the witness.

Jordan Roque returned upstairs with Gonzalez and an argument ensued with the three, escalating into a physical fight.

Jordan Roque pulled out a large kitchen knife and stabbed Kirkwood, the witness reported.

Jordan Roque tossed the knife in the kitchen area, Cannon said. The nine-inch knife was covered in blood and found on the kitchen island by police.

Cannon said Gonzalez and Jordan Roque then ran out of the restaurant and across the street.

Lake County Assistant State’s Attorney Kailey Hopkins said Veronica Roque told other employees not to talk to the police about what had happened and to lie to them.

She also told the employee to tell police there was no video footage even though there was, Hopkins said.

Veronica Roque was also heard telling witnesses to “go home” as police arrived at the murder scene, Hopkins said.

Officers found no evidence that Kirkwood had any weapons on his person during the incident, Cannon said.

Detectives went to Vista Medical Center East and spoke with Veronica Roque, who initially refused to speak with them or provide her information.

Detectives then spoke with Gonzalez who said that he and his wife had rented out the basement of the restaurant for a gender reveal party.

Gonzalez said his 16-year-old brother had come down to tell him that their mother and Kirkwood were arguing, Cannon said.

Gonzalez reported that the two went upstairs and Kirkwood began saying he would “throw hands” with Gonzalez and his brother and that everyone should leave.

Kirkwood took a step toward Gonzalez and Jordan Roque and Gonzalez grabbed Kirkwood by his shirt and the two began fighting, Gonzalez told investigators.

Gonzalez said he noticed his hand and fingers were injured and saw Jordan Roque drop a knife at the end of the fight, Cannon said.

The two ran out of the restaurant and Gonzalez drove himself — with his family, including Jordan Roque, in the car — to Vista Medical Center East for treatment.

Cannon said Jordan Roque fled on foot after they arrived at the hospital.

Gonzalez suffered a deep laceration to part of his finger that required stitches to re-attach the finger.

Gonzalez also told police that Kirkwood and his mother had been dating for a long time and that Kirkwood was physically abusive toward his mother but that she continued dating him, Cannon said.

Chastain said a search warrant was obtained for a 2011 Ford Explorer, which was registered to Veronica Roque.

Two handguns and numerous unknown pills were located inside the vehicle along with a digital video recorder (DVR), suspected to be from the business’ camera system.

Hopkins said one of the guns was loaded and the other was unloaded. Veronica Roque does not have a Firearm Owner’s Identification card or concealed carry license.

Lake County Assistant State’s Attorney Nicholas Shepherd said Monday that the video footage recovered from the restaurant’s office showed Heaven Dominguez, 26, of Vernon Hills, going to the DVR with Vernonica Roque before the video cut out.

DVR footage from a hallway showed Dominguez walking down the hallway with the DVR in hand, Shepherd said.

Shepherd said Dominguez was then seen walking outside towards a white SUV and placing the DVR into Vernoica Roque’s white Ford SUV

Gonzalez was arrested after being released from the hospital and charged with one count of first-degree murder.

Detectives attempted to locate Jordan Roque but were unsuccessful. He later turned himself in to the Waukegan Police Department on February 10.

Jordan Roque was later charged with one count of first-degree murder. He is charged as an adult.

Veronica Roque was charged with two counts of obstructing justice and four counts of aggravated unlawful possession of a weapon.

An arrest warrant was issued for her on February 14 and she was taken into custody on February 21 at the Lake County Jail after turning herself in.

An arrest warrant was issued for Dominguez on Wednesday and she was taken into custody on Sunday.

Dominguez was charged with one count of obstructing justice, a Class 4 felony.

Court records show that Dominguez was on pre-trial release at the time of the incident for a battery case out of Waukegan.

Court records show Veronica Roque was also on pre-trial release at the time of her arrest for an aggravated battery causing great bodily harm and aggravated battery with a deadly weapon case out of Fox Lake that occurred in April 2023.

Prosecutors last month filed petitions to detain Veronica Roque, Jordan Roque and Gonzalez and judges granted the petitions.

Prosecutors have filed a petition to revoke Dominguez’s pre-trial release in her prior case for violating her release conditions. Her new charges of obstructing justice are not detainable under Illinois’ cashless bail law.

Dominguez appeared in First Appearance Court on Monday morning and she is being held in custody until a pre-trial release revocation hearing, which is scheduled for Tuesday afternoon.
 
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