Spitting Game (ladies what is the one....)

[blackmouth]

One morning I stopped to get coffee and there was a guy next to me who said I had a beautiful smile. I thanked him. Then I was in front of him in line and when it was time to pay, he stepped up and paid for my coffee and his. So, I'm surprised and I say, "thank you, but you didn't have to do that", then he said, "I just want to make sure you have a beautiful morning." So I thanked him again, then he went on about his business and I did the same. Of course I looked at his left hand and saw that he was married (and he got into a minivan)...but if a single dude had done that and we ran into each other again, I would have been VERY receptive...I thought it was the sweetest gesture. Made my day.

i live in a big city so there is no "if we run into each other again" happening in my world. i need to score a communication link upfront cause in a city of 3 million plus, i might not ever see you again.

quick story: once i was drunk as fuck and standing in-line at a grocery store checkout. i told this lady, "damn, you've got a marvelous ass. i bet you like doggy-style, huh?"

i expected to get slapped, but that conversation started her to and we walked out together. our convo ended in the parking lot with more fun talk but nothing happened, and i never saw her again.

oh well.

 

[LeroyDibiase]

One morning I stopped to get coffee and there was a guy next to me who said I had a beautiful smile. I thanked him. Then I was in front of him in line and when it was time to pay, he stepped up and paid for my coffee and his. So, I'm surprised and I say, "thank you, but you didn't have to do that", then he said, "I just want to make sure you have a beautiful morning." So I thanked him again, then he went on about his business and I did the same. Of course I looked at his left hand and saw that he was married (and he got into a minivan)...but if a single dude had done that and we ran into each other again, I would have been VERY receptive...I thought it was the sweetest gesture. Made my day.

So a man gotta come outta pocket, huh?

 

[lilsexii]

So a man gotta come outta pocket, huh?

We have a winner folks! I knew SOMEBODY was going to say it - it was just too easy.

But it would be a small, yet wise, investment considering the possibilities

 

[LeroyDibiase]

We have a winner folks! I knew SOMEBODY was going to say it - it was just too easy.

But it would be a small, yet wise, investment considering the possibilities

No Scooby Snax for you.

And damn, your stuff only worth a cup of coffee...I hope its Starbucks imported. You gotta aim high, aim high.

 

[lilsexii]

No Scooby Snax for you.

And damn, your stuff only worth a cup of coffee...I hope its Starbucks imported. You gotta aim high, aim high.

U wish...

That small investment would merely open the door. If it turned into a good thing, it would, of course, take much more from both people, the more you invest the better it gets. Just like making your money grow - when you make a good investment and get a great return, you don't just stop there, you invest more for an even greater return and keep it growing.

 

[xfactor]

Just like making your money grow - when you make a good investment and get a great return, you don't just stop there, you invest more for an even greater return and keep it growing.

Take it you've never been to Vegas?

Gotta know when to hold 'em, fold 'em, and walk away...

 

[LeroyDibiase]

U wish...

That small investment would merely open the door. If it turned into a good thing, it would, of course, take much more from both people, the more you invest the better it gets. Just like making your money grow - when you make a good investment and get a great return, you don't just stop there, you invest more for an even greater return and keep it growing.

I'm just going by what you said. So if I "invest" a cup of coffee into your "stock" and the "dividends" are awarded and I get them draws. The more I "invest" the better it gets?? So a cup of coffee and good convo gets the draws, so if I up that to dinner, the rewards should be greater, right? So...what, you gonna grow ANOTHER vagina??

 

[slowmotion]

Guy#1: Drives up in '92 Ford Escort, Hops out of car and approaches woman sitting outside having lunch. And proceeds to tell her, "hey i've noticed u here a lot on ur lunch and was wondering if i can possibly take u out sometime. U have a nice smile and seem like a down earth person..yada yada.....

Responce: well thanks but i have a boyfriend at the time.Translation: i am fucking somebody right now, and u would be a step down.

Guy#2: Drives up in 07 Escalade sitting on some big ass rims. Hops out talking on his celly about how fucked up he got the night before. Approaches woman, while still on the phone and says,"Hey whats yo name" ......Oh ok, well let me holla at u sometime.

Responce: sure let me give u my#(at which point she proceeds to give him a card or write the info down on something)

later on in the week Guy#2 calls her up, swings through and fucks and moves on to the next woman.

at which point the female complains about how guys are only interested in "one thing" and how she wishes someone nice would ask her out.

pickup lines are over rated. if u have something that catches her eye, whether it be good looks or appear to be "balling" ur room for what u can say is a whole lot wider than the guy pulling up in a '92 escort.

 

[larsen]

Guy#1: Drives up in '92 Ford Escort, Hops out of car and approaches woman sitting outside having lunch. And proceeds to tell her, "hey i've noticed u here a lot on ur lunch and was wondering if i can possibly take u out sometime. U have a nice smile and seem like a down earth person..yada yada.....

Responce: well thanks but i have a boyfriend at the time.Translation: i am fucking somebody right now, and u would be a step down.

Guy#2: Drives up in 07 Escalade sitting on some big ass rims. Hops out talking on his celly about how fucked up he got the night before. Approaches woman, while still on the phone and says,"Hey whats yo name" ......Oh ok, well let me holla at u sometime.

Responce: sure let me give u my#(at which point she proceeds to give him a card or write the info down on something)

later on in the week Guy#2 calls her up, swings through and fucks and moves on to the next woman.

at which point the female complains about how guys are only interested in "one thing" and how she wishes someone nice would ask her out.

pickup lines are over rated. if u have something that catches her eye, whether it be good looks or appear to be "balling" ur room for what u can say is a whole lot wider than the guy pulling up in a '92 escort.

Sounds about right to me! Its a different time that we live in, and a different grade of women!

 

[sj808]

Something very general but sums up everything. CONFIDENCE... in your words AND actions.


Corny Lines, Shyness, Complement on her body, "spitting game", etc.. = DESPERATE... opposite of Confidence



And alot of guys mistaken cockyness for confidence. Confidence gets you ladies, cockyness gets you "hood-rats" or immature girls.


I was always in my local club scene. I also did club promoting for 7 months..... Through my experiences (and analyzing a few people I know), 100% pure confidence always win. Everything else will fall into play... your swagger, your choice of words, the way you dress, your attitude, etc...


Never get her number... if you do, make sure its atleast an exchange. I prefer giving her a business card or tell her to take your number. Tell her when to call you... and see's what happens. This shows you and the girl alot of things about each other. This is a apex of confidence first of all and shows the woman that you're a man and takes charge. Now if she calls, that shows she's submissive (in a good/healthy way) and she's actually feeling you. If she don't, keep it moving. 9.5 out of 10 times, she'll call out of the sake "mystery". Now if you vice versa the situation and get her number, you give her the upper hand... until you get to the point she's sweating you (some guys can easily do this, but most can't). But mostly, to her... you have to "Chase her". Now with you giving her your number, you have the upperhand. By you calling her shows you ain't doing shit, and ladies really don't like/respect a man thats "available" all the time (meaning he ain't busy). So if you give her your number... she's going to go home, go to sleep, wake up for work, come home and see that card. She'll most likely call out of the sake of curiosity... like "let me see what he's all about". Woman are, in general, nosey... keep that in mind.


If you have a business card, also have your attire for "business"... like you about something or "you're handling business" somewhat. When I did club promoting, I was doing more of the upscale "grown and sexy" events (well we called it "young and sexy"). When I switch my closet from baggy urban clothes to more slacks/button up's with a tie... it was too easy. If not that, then I wore FITTED urban boutique brands (made me stand out since urban boutique brands are more "exclusive"). Ladies are very much into fashion... so they know if you have good taste or not by looking at your clothes. The whole tall tee, baggy pants and Air 1s are getting real played and shouldn't be tolerated.

Where are those LADIES and MEN at(keyword is Ladies and Men)?? Upscale Clubs (the ones that don't just let anyone in.. you know, the ones you can't go in with jeans/timbs/sneakers/etc.. The real "nice" looking clubs), Malls in rich areas, bookstores, coffee shops, The happy hour spots in downtown where all the lawyers/business people go to after work..... catch my drift?


So to sum it up...

Confidence + Proper Attire + mature setting + "Hey there, my name is..." + Come back later with "Well here's my card, how about you call me tommorrow night at 9pm. Maybe we can get together this weekend"= NICE GAME




And all the people that say "fuck having game".... you need to just realize all relationships are a game (Shit, life is a game for crying out loud). You just need to have a healthy one. No immature shit. All it is, is "give and take"... regardless if its a long-term relationship or a jumpoff. Men, ladies like to learn new things... so find one that'll give you 110% cooperation and put her onto "game".

Ladies, if you ain't attracted to men that "ain't about their business"... you need to be.

Men, be careful of goldiggers, teases, and playgirls. They can often be mistaken as "ladies". Especially beware of those that are trying to have revenge on all mankind because they been done wrong all their life. But if you come correct the whole way through, your game will break any goldigging, teasing, playful, and revengeful attitudes away.


Here's a few bonus's:

"You'll always lose money chasing woman, but you'll never lose woman chasing money"

"Actions speak louder then words"

"Blood is the only love thats unconditional"

and

SIMPing of any sort is the epitome of unconfidence. Ladies don't respect a man with no confidence... aka a SIMP.

 

[sj808]

Sounds about right to me! Its a different time that we live in, and a different grade of women!

yup, this is very true. You can thank our society.... especially BET.

Thats why I envy my parent's generation. My dad and mom conversate everyday, listen to each other and actually care what the other is saying. Its amazing I tell you.

 

[Izayoi]

I'm just going by what you said. So if I "invest" a cup of coffee into your "stock" and the "dividends" are awarded and I get them draws. The more I "invest" the better it gets?? So a cup of coffee and good convo gets the draws, so if I up that to dinner, the rewards should be greater, right? So...what, you gonna grow ANOTHER vagina??

Oh dear, wouldn't that be something.

 

[lilsexii]

I'm just going by what you said. So if I "invest" a cup of coffee into your "stock" and the "dividends" are awarded and I get them draws. The more I "invest" the better it gets?? So a cup of coffee and good convo gets the draws, so if I up that to dinner, the rewards should be greater, right? So...what, you gonna grow ANOTHER vagina??

I was talking about a relationship - the cup of coffee and good convo would get a few dates first, then possibly relationship and sex and so on...that can lead to a serious relationship and marriage.

You know I can't grow another vagina, Silly Billy - if you wanted another one, I'd just bring a friend

 

[jaybar82]

my best pickup line is
your first name must be nose becuz i am digging you
then the woman starts to laugh and i tell her i was just kidding and then i start the conversation...if you could get the woman to laugh then you are in there

 

[LeroyDibiase]

I was talking about a relationship - the cup of coffee and good convo would get a few dates first, then possibly relationship and sex and so on...that can lead to a serious relationship and marriage.

You know I can't grow another vagina, Silly Billy - if you wanted another one, I'd just bring a friend

Funny, I was talking about draws. A few dates BEFORE the draws??

And it's only a possibility??

Girl, you know how the market works. If I don't get a return on my investment, the CEO will get

. And all that marriage talk, see why can't y'all go with the flow. Women always wanna play chess, when sometimes men just want to play checkHERs.

As for the second paragraph:

 

[SickMyDuck]

Guy#1: Drives up in '92 Ford Escort, Hops out of car and approaches woman sitting outside having lunch. And proceeds to tell her, "hey i've noticed u here a lot on ur lunch and was wondering if i can possibly take u out sometime. U have a nice smile and seem like a down earth person..yada yada.....

Responce: well thanks but i have a boyfriend at the time.Translation: i am fucking somebody right now, and u would be a step down.

Guy#2: Drives up in 07 Escalade sitting on some big ass rims. Hops out talking on his celly about how fucked up he got the night before. Approaches woman, while still on the phone and says,"Hey whats yo name" ......Oh ok, well let me holla at u sometime.

Responce: sure let me give u my#(at which point she proceeds to give him a card or write the info down on something)

later on in the week Guy#2 calls her up, swings through and fucks and moves on to the next woman.

at which point the female complains about how guys are only interested in "one thing" and how she wishes someone nice would ask her out.

pickup lines are over rated. if u have something that catches her eye, whether it be good looks or appear to be "balling" ur room for what u can say is a whole lot wider than the guy pulling up in a '92 escort.

CO-SIGN! I've seen this movie over and over again.

 

[Alumni]

I'm going to have to co-sign slowmotion and what fam. said above. I too have seen it happen to many times --from all class of women-- not to believe it. I have always said, and always will say that money, power, or fame are the most powerful aphrodisiacs there are. Regardless of how you look or how corny your lines are... brawds will always be attracted to it. It is, what it is.

 

[SEXY_SCORPIO]

sup, ma?



Works every time.....


Just kidding ladies. I think you all know I would not seriously engage anyone with that bullshit.

I see it shaking what are you making?

Whats cooking good looking.

God damn you look good whats your name.

I got more great ones but.....I'll chill

BOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

I actually never heard this one.... i got to use this

Seriously, pick up lines don't mean a thing to woman it think, because a woman will already know if she's dealing with you with or without the lines

Exactly

Fuck Gorilla pimpin, fuck LRP's ( Which I did invented )!!!

Fuck Galactus pimpin!

I'm str8 UNICRON pimping, Intergalactic LONG range PIMPIN, ILPs!!!

G-A-M-E is only used when you want to take advantage of a another person's insecurities, or anything you can gain an up on them.

Male or female.


HONESTY.



Woman I want to talk to you. Do you like what you see, well, I'm going to take five mins for us to get to decide if we want to talk again.

Works everytime.

A Bay Bay!!

What's good with what it do Ma!?

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I had someone say that A Bay Bay. I busted out laughing

 

[DaleMabry]

One morning I stopped to get coffee and there was a guy next to me who said I had a beautiful smile. I thanked him. Then I was in front of him in line and when it was time to pay, he stepped up and paid for my coffee and his. So, I'm surprised and I say, "thank you, but you didn't have to do that", then he said, "I just want to make sure you have a beautiful morning." So I thanked him again, then he went on about his business and I did the same. Of course I looked at his left hand and saw that he was married (and he got into a minivan)...but if a single dude had done that and we ran into each other again, I would have been VERY receptive...I thought it was the sweetest gesture. Made my day.

This is my style SOBER.

i live in a big city so there is no "if we run into each other again" happening in my world. i need to score a communication link upfront cause in a city of 3 million plus, i might not ever see you again.

quick story: once i was drunk as fuck and standing in-line at a grocery store checkout. i told this lady, "damn, you've got a marvelous ass. i bet you like doggy-style, huh?"

i expected to get slapped, but that conversation started her to and we walked out together. our convo ended in the parking lot with more fun talk but nothing happened, and i never saw her again.

oh well.

This is my style drunk



"I bet you never heard of a player with no game /
Told the truth to get what I want /
But shot it with no shame"

-3000

 

[andusay]

Something that just worked for me at the office, and I didn't even do it on purpose, imagine that. She came out of the elevator turned the corner and waved hello. I stutter stepped on my way to my office and froze for a sec because she looked so gorgeous. She laughed, I said, "I guess that's your hello today." Now she wants to have lunch tomorrow. I hope my girlfriend doesn't mind.

 

[DeSiRe]

if a guy makes me laugh ill stop

all the other bullshit is so clichish to me

and i expecially hate when dudes just start rattling off thier lift story