Dang
I cant lie I have been known to act like this before.
Thoughtful yes romantic no 
Why do you think it hasnt
Don't make me blush
I said very alike in our ideas of romance, NOT in the way we communicate...
We (not just black men, but black women too!) got a lot of work to do in that department, trust me...
Woah woah woah there Florence Nightingale. True we are crave some level of affection but "very alike" is a stretch.
Scenario A
Male: "awww baby, that was so sweet of you, you didn't have to ..."
Female: "...It's because I love you. Anything to please my man.
Male: "well then, I say we cap off the night with movie. Why don't you check what's on On Demand and i'll go make some popcorn."
THE END
Scenario B
Female: "awww baby, that was so sweet of you, you didn't have to ..."
Male: "...
Female: "so ... "
Male: "hmm?"
Female: " sooooooooooooooooooo.....
Male: "what baby?"
Female: "so, why did you do it?"
Male: "what? I just told you, it's because I-"
Female: "Do you love me?"
Male: "Of course I .. wait, what?"
Female: "... what are you thinking right now?"
THE (beginning of) END ...
sad but truewhy do women sabotage their own good time i'll never understand that
I don't think i've ever dated anybody who tried to do something really romantic for me
to answer your question i would love to come home one day to some slow jams playing, got the candles out my girl making me my favorite dinner then after we eat she goes in the back changes into so lingerie got the ill shoes on and we get busy
I dont know what I did it...Just young and immature I guess. Hell probably just paranoid thinking he was plotting on me
I like your romantic thought though...minus the dayum cooking!
I don't think you can pull off the romantic with burger and fries but yo i'm a simple guy i'm flexible with the food its just about the fact that you thought enough of me to do something special that you knew i would love
If i knew you went shopping just to get something sexy to wear just for me not even just lingerie it could be just a outfit shoes whatever it doesn't matter its just sexy to me and i appreciate it
I don't see what I think more than half of BGOL sees when it comes to trifling women running around with illegitimate children looking for a handout Seriously?!?
Where do you live and/or who do you seek to talk to ?!?
I find it so "interesting" when guys say things such as this on BGOL...
I run with a pack of sophisticated, educated and well-versed women who always seem to have something important to say about current events, etc. BUT, I kid you not, we're not the ones wearing our chest out, putting on 5 inch heels, strutting to the club every weekend...
Not to say that "educated" sisters are always having logical, intelligent conversations
But, seriously
So intelligent females can't let wear booty shorts and heel and show a heep of cleavage now?
Oh and simple, for what you seek, I suggest you upgrade/diversify your present demographic.
I want both
I want both
Ever heard of the phrase, "Lady in the street, but a freak in the bed?"
I'll do it for my man, period.
Everyone doesn't need to see or know of "the goods," thank you very much...
damn right
I know i know i think i got one
I kinda had this problem a few months ago. Sometimes you all need to let us know. We can't read your minds
Of course, we can pick up some things just by being around you, but not everything.
Ever heard of the phrase, "Lady in the street, but a freak in the bed?"
I'll do it for my man, period.
Everyone doesn't need to see or know of "the goods," thank you very much...
So I take it you have a street in your house?
thanks guys
