So is the bar really that low for these CACs??
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This is the norm in FL. And black men here love average looking white women. I see it in the mall, at the gym, and the dudes looks so proud. I'll stick to my black women.
I was talking to this black chic on Words with Friends, lives not too far from me. She told me she never dated a black guy. I asked why, she said because she met a black guy and he ended up going to jail for molestation. She said black men are rude, arrogant and don't know how to treat a woman. We keep talking, come to find out, this chic got two baby daddies, both white. One won't let her see their son the other is basically holding her hostage. So I told her, you don't seem so happy dating white men seeing the position they got you in now. She sent me a message saying she was in my area one day and wanted to meet. No thanks.
I was talking to this black chic on Words with Friends, lives not too far from me. She told me she never dated a black guy. I asked why, she said because she met a black guy and he ended up going to jail for molestation. She said black men are rude, arrogant and don't know how to treat a woman. We keep talking, come to find out, this chic got two baby daddies, both white. One won't let her see their son the other is basically holding her hostage. So I told her, you don't seem so happy dating white men seeing the position they got you in now. She sent me a message saying she was in my area one day and wanted to meet. No thanks.
She was desperate for his attention,nine times outta ten chicks like her want a certain type of follow and if that's what they like,by all means go for it and good luck.
Regular couples chances are slim so I know that forever for them is even slimmer.
For blacks sometimes we celebrate the fact that white or other's even like us so sometimes we might go up and beyond ourselves to attract them or cater to em which can be see two ways,ass-kisser or you just love them folks.
Regular couples chances are slim so I know that forever for them is even slimmer.
For blacks sometimes we celebrate the fact that white or other's even like us so sometimes we might go up and beyond ourselves to attract them or cater to em which can be see two ways,ass-kisser or you just love them folks.
Dont black men date inter-racially pretty much more than anyone else..
I don't know. I see interracial dating everywhere from all sides and genders now of days.
Dont black men date inter-racially pretty much more than anyone else..
No. That would be white men and it isn't even close.
*two cents*
How is this a shock to any black man over the age of 30 whose worked a day in corp America?
Just to get the same billing as your average white counterpart in the typical office you have to damn near have superpowers. One wouldn't think that would transfer over into the dating world?
"I'm not saying white people are better, but BEING white is CLEARLY better."- Louis C.K.
Man Im not the one to get between a woman finding happy in whatever color it comes in I just don't want to hear about 'black love' from her or dismay out of her [when] they get in an argument and he calls her a stupid monkey.
You take on the estate you take on the debt. Whiteness has a price.
*two cents*
Black women get with white men because they will put up with their attention whoring better than a black man would. If a black man is really feeling a chic and sees a future with her, he'll try to save her and get her out of that lifestyle. White men will put up with. I've said this numerous times, no real man is gonna put up with his women looking for attention on the internet. Unless both are attention whores.
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That's not my situation, I was just posting that for discussion purposes.
My game is fine.
Are we going to act like this ain't happening everywhere? Them white boys putting them belly warmers on that 3 year plan and become ghost. Even the Mexican dudes in my area are getting serious play. I laugh but I think it is sad to because these women devalue themselves!
I still see more black males dating out.
How u figure? Are we talking the amount of white men that date Black women vs Black men dating white women? Or white men just dating any other race vs Black men dating any other race? Because I see way more niggas with white bitches than I see white dudes with sistas
From where I from. It's hard to tell a difference.
But I'm not saying what you observe isn't true.
I just haven't observed enough to draw any straight up conclusion.
cool,have you looked up the numbers on racial dynamic of these relationships?
No sir.
Numbers on people hardly quantify truth for me, personally. And mainly because quantifying humans to make some type judgement is only limited to the amount of people that participated. Doesn't tell the whole story.
Most of the time I check my environment. Where I grew up I seen more black men dating outside. Where I live now it's hard to tell a difference. And the places I visited I couldn't tell.
So I remain inconclusive on who dates outside of race more. Only thing that was consistent was black men and black women dating each other.
However, what you may observe may be different. So I have no argument against that at all.
How u figure? Are we talking the amount of white men that date Black women vs Black men dating white women? Or white men just dating any other race vs Black men dating any other race? Because I see way more niggas with white bitches than I see white dudes with sistas
1. Interracial dating isn't just black people and white people dating each other.
2. When you expand on point 1 to include all races it's white men hands down. More women in aggregate break for white dudes simply because they white. Me being a military brat living overseas- south east asia- hipped me to that.
3. White cats have more access and action thrown at them by other races of women because in the global power structure BEING white is a major point of attractiveness.
*two cents*
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Thats all I was asking though. I think people took your comment as white men date more black women than black men date more white woman. Which I dont think is true. But all around dating outside of race would probably be more white men.
And the crazy thing is no one... and I mean NO ONE (no The Rock) is scrutinised more by society than black men when it comes to dating interracially. I dare someone to tell me otherwise.
It's on a case by case bases...but yeah black man gets no quarter in that regard.
Case #1: You ain't got shit going for yourself and you beau'd up with dumpy WIC card carrying Becky. Jokes aside no one gives a shit. You a loser and you with a loser. It's a wash.
Case #2: You got a lot going for yourself and/or God forbid "You've arrived" and you got with an objectively good looking white woman. Then you either don't know your place or seen as a sell out.
Case #3: You was with a white women when you had nothing y'all build something together and you keep her because she was there at the jump. This is the most unfairly scrutinized IMHO because it's a hybrid of #1 & #2: no one gave a fuck...until you got on. Now you're a sell out...
These are the 3 cases I have seen in my 37 years on this planet.
*two cents*
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Case #4: You must hate your mother.
I’ve rarely, if ever, seen these cases applied to any other race of men.
Trust me when I tell you this...
ANY MAN OF "VALUE" (ON PAPER AT LEAST) WHO DOESN'T INVOLVE HIMSELF WITH HIS RACE OF WOMEN IS FUCKING HEARING IT.
Women want access to the BEST OF MEN -their race especially- and if it's not her literally it better be 'her' figuratively as in a chick of her race. That Prince Harry shit ain't sitting well with white women AT ALL.
The reason why it hits us harder is because we are black men (self interest is always the most interesting) and because black men have always been the 'canary in the coal mine' socially. We deal with social mores hardest and first then it trickles down to the rest of society.
*two cents*
In fairness, I saw white women... well Jewish women hating hard when Zuckerberg married that Chinese chick. “Why couldn’t he marry a nice Jewish girl?” But we’re straying into ethnicity/religion there.Trust me when I tell you this...
ANY MAN OF "VALUE" (ON PAPER AT LEAST) WHO DOESN'T INVOLVE HIMSELF WITH HIS RACE OF WOMEN IS FUCKING HEARING IT.
Women want access to the BEST OF MEN her race especially and if it's not her literally it better be 'her' figuratively as in a chick of her race. That Prince Harry shit ain't sitting well with white women AT ALL.
The reason why it hits us harder is because we are black men (self interest is always the most interesting) and because black men have always been the 'canary in the coal mine' socially. We deal with social mores hardest and first then it trickles down to the rest of society.
*two cents*
I have heard and seen a ton of white women passively hating on Asian women for dating white men. Let me post up something I found on Reddit actually.
Black women who only date white men are a HUGE red flag. Once you scratch below the surface you always find that they're drawn to CACs because 1) They want an easy mark 2) They think it will shield them from white supremacy 3) They hate Black men because of (fill in your own blanks here)
my response is 1) I ain't the one 2) It never works 3) She doesn't really hate Black men she hates MEN! Any flaw you see in a Black man you will find in me also because all men are pretty much the same. We all forget birthdays, leave the toilet seat up, watch too many sports, go to strip clubs, have a roving eye etc.
Every women who thinks like this needs to watch the Dorothy Dandridge movie. Her first Black husband was an asshole, but all the white ones were far worse. In the end they ruined her career and drove her to suicide. In the end she was just shitty at picking her partners regardless of their race.
my response is 1) I ain't the one 2) It never works 3) She doesn't really hate Black men she hates MEN! Any flaw you see in a Black man you will find in me also because all men are pretty much the same. We all forget birthdays, leave the toilet seat up, watch too many sports, go to strip clubs, have a roving eye etc.
Every women who thinks like this needs to watch the Dorothy Dandridge movie. Her first Black husband was an asshole, but all the white ones were far worse. In the end they ruined her career and drove her to suicide. In the end she was just shitty at picking her partners regardless of their race.
well i see it as better him then me cause the bitch just maybe wack as fuck...
lots of hoes and weak minded bros of all races are programmed to bring home something pasty....
especially if their parents are programmed cac jesus worshippin bots....
its a wrap...
especially if their parents are programmed cac jesus worshippin bots....
its a wrap...
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Not me. Other way around.
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