So... I never thought I'd be asking for help, but PLEASE HELP!

AnnNaniMiss

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First, Yes, I'm an alias. I don't post much under my other handle 1) because I use it or a similar one pretty widely across the cyber universe, and I don't want this particular issue going outside of BGOL, and 2) my best friend (a guy) and several of my other good male friends post here, and I know they don't wanna hear every damn thing about my sex life, and they might start hating on the man in question if they knew about this, LOL.

Two, to be clear, I'm not a young newbie to sex. I'm pretty damn grown, but the numbers I've done man-wise are pretty low compared to other women my age. I've spent a good share of my adult life celibate or booed up. In short, I know my way around a dick... I'm short in quantity and that's it. ;) This issue may or may not be unique, but to me it is.

So now that that's out the way, here goes. Met a new guy, we hit it off, and our first time was the other night and it was fan fuckin tastic. The issue is that his dick is HUGE. I have never seen anything like it before, even in porn. The closest I've seen is maybe Mandingo, but thicker. I can't get my hand all the way around it... it's like a soda can, almost. He's great at eating pussy and is very receptive to the fact that he's so big, so between how wet he gets me, and his approach, penetration isn't a big deal, but head is. Now, he isn't pressing the issue- like I said, he's no dummy and must be used to dealing with it by now. I just like to give head. I do not have a small mouth, but all that girth is hard to take in. I can't work it like I have been able to do with other men, and for the first time, I got some jaw fatigue. All I could really do is focus on the head, and I felt bad about that, given how he worked me over. He's not tripping, but this is something I want to be able to do better for him. Hell, if I can get some tips quick enough, I might surprise him at his job and hit him off real quick. Can anyone be of assistance?
 
So now that that's out the way, here goes. Met a new guy, we hit it off, and our first time was the other night and it was fan fuckin tastic. The issue is that his dick is HUGE. I have never seen anything like it before, even in porn. The closest I've seen is maybe Mandingo, but thicker. I can't get my hand all the way around it... it's like a soda can, almost. He's great at eating pussy and is very receptive to the fact that he's so big, so between how wet he gets me, and his approach, penetration isn't a big deal, but head is. Now, he isn't pressing the issue- like I said, he's no dummy and must be used to dealing with it by now. I just like to give head. I do not have a small mouth, but all that girth is hard to take in. I can't work it like I have been able to do with other men, and for the first time, I got some jaw fatigue. All I could really do is focus on the head, and I felt bad about that, given how he worked me over. He's not tripping, but this is something I want to be able to do better for him. Hell, if I can get some tips quick enough, I might surprise him at his job and hit him off real quick. Can anyone be of assistance?

i just got done dealing with something like this

first its going to take patience...being that he is large its going to take a little longer than normal

personally i found certain positions helped me deal with it...like doing it sideways for example

as far as giving head i come to the conlusion u gotta be realistic about it...theres no way u take all of it...so use stuff like ice

do something like that...then sit on it...trust me he will be a happy man:D
 
Oh shit...

Not man safe! :eek:

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@ O.P. Is there an Hippodrome near your place? :confused:

you can always try to sneak at the Horse's stables :D just saying.
 
Thanks y'all. My bad Andey, and mcguyver, you know damn well OnyxFemme wouldn't bother with an alias to ask this, :lol:


I'm still taking suggestions if yall have any.
 
You can use me to pratice.








Wait a minute..........:( Izzy.....

:confused: :lol:

Yes Mc I know you saving all your e-love for me but I'm not the jealous type.

Continue please with your advice Onyxfemme. I have a similar situation with my SO - there are a few yoga poses for the faces that are supposed to be good for working the muscles around the mouth but I'm guessing soda can head is not their original intent.

Good luck Ann.

*Reset lurkdom*
 
:confused: :lol:

Yes Mc I know you saving all your e-love for me but I'm not the jealous type.

Continue please with your advice Onyxfemme. I have a similar situation with my SO - there are a few yoga poses for the faces that are supposed to be good for working the muscles around the mouth but I'm guessing soda can head is not their original intent.

Good luck Ann.

*Reset lurkdom*

:eek:

Quick, get the trap!



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:lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol: Shane, what happened in the vs. with Sean? :confused:

:eek:

Quick, get the trap!



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Where have you been? I miss my sensei of wisdom...I know I'm like Neo and shit, but I still need my Morpheus! :yes:;):D


:confused: :lol:

Yes Mc I know you saving all your e-love for me but I'm not the jealous type.

Continue please with your advice Onyxfemme. I have a similar situation with my SO - there are a few yoga poses for the faces that are supposed to be good for working the muscles around the mouth but I'm guessing soda can head is not their original intent.

Good luck Ann.

*Reset lurkdom*

Oh and for the OP, there's plenty of things you can do for dude. I've had girls that went through similar situations with me, ahem :lol:, and what I told them I'll tell you...we don't give a shit as long as we bust. Concentrate on the head, lick the shaft and step up your hand game with the head game to have them both compliment each other. Oh, and while you're doing it, every once in a while, look into his eyes, we love that shit.

Well, that's my .02 cents....
 
:lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol: Shane, what happened in the vs. with Sean? :confused:



Where have you been? I miss my sensei of wisdom...I know I'm like Neo and shit, but I still need my Morpheus! :yes:;):D




Oh and for the OP, there's plenty of things you can do for dude. I've had girls that went through similar situations with me, ahem :lol:, and what I told them I'll tell you...we don't give a shit as long as we bust. Concentrate on the head, lick the shaft and step up your hand game with the head game to have them both compliment each other. Oh, and while you're doing it, every once in a while, look into his eyes, we love that shit.

Well, that's my .02 cents....

:hmm:
 
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