So I found out my girl is cheating on me,

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After 5 years, Crazy thing is, the way I thought Id act, I didn't at all, of course it hurts to know, but I havent cried nor have i felt the need to kick the bitch ass. She doesn't know i know but I back my found up and restored only to find it restored her info. WOOOOOOW.

So I'm reading this shit and she seeing like two different cats, both whom are in the music biz, she fucking one I believe, but hes always gone, and apparrently aint hittin it right cuz she said it in a text to her girl, but he always hittin her talking bout how he miss her she saying she miss him and shit. While the other she says is just a friend but i realized she lied about being at work but was with him.

Granted I did my share of dirt that may have caused this but why do I not feel enraged , I almost feel a since of relief. Crazy thing is we both cheated on our ex to be together.

Any you guys ever deal with this emotion, if so what should I do, play the game or walk away.
 
Yeah from the sounds of thing... that was not your girl player, and if you are feeling nothing something tells me you knew that... just tell her things ain't work and your moving one... your the one who will look like the chump if you confront her... just let her go and find yourself a knew chick... like you said you did dirt, so don't sweat it cause you got a pile dumped on you...
 
That wasn't your girl play boi, you was her jump-off.

c/s...if u wanna keep fuckin her, u can IMO. But she ain't your girl...it's just your turn. U can't really be too surprised though if she cheated on an ex to get with you...
 
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I would never trust a woman that left her man to be with me unless he was in jail or there was evidence of him abusing her, with her leaving IMMEDIATELY after it happened..

You're not enraged because you're still young, you're not married to her, and don't have kids with her.....You weren't really in love with her at all.....

Be happy and find something else while you're still young.....
 
if u enjoy fucking her just take your relationship down to friends with benefits status then both of yall can do your thing on the side and there wont be any of these complications. you probably feel the way you do because u cheated on her before and always had the suspicion that she would do it back to u so this really isnt that much of a surprise. personally i cant be ina relationship with a woman i cant trust but that doesnt have to stop me from smashing her every once in a while.:D just keep ot cool and dont catch a charge over this shit.
 
LOL yall niggaz is nuts, Im not crying I just ask yall thoughts man to man because Some of you niggaz on here be making since sometime, but hey to each his own.
 
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I know you're going to get a lot of shit for what you posted man, but I still feel for ya. I've had the same thing happen. Saw it happen to a lot of buddies in the Navy. One of my friends walked in on his wife fucking another dude since she didn't know we got back early. He said if you'd asked him what he'd have done the day before he said he'd have broken in and beat both their asses. He just sat on the couch not sure what to do. Snapped a few pictures for the courts (he was married).

It can happen to any of us and it always sucks ass when it does. Not everyone needs to be a thug, and I'd worry about anyone who was simp enough to spend half a decade with a woman and NOT have feelings for her. I've been with my girl for 5 years and if I caught her it'd fuck with me big time. I'm not really a cryer, but it'd still fuck with me.

Don't worry about the haters. There is always someone who has to find pleasure in another man's pain. I don't worry about the negative people who think they can tell me how I should feel about something. From someone who's been there, you're in shock now but when you come out of it you're going to have crazy emotions on all sides of the spectrum. Some good, some bad, some you don't even know what the fuck to do with. Just stay strong, stay true to yourself, and DON'T let the cheating bitch back. She'll never be faithful.

Good luck to you brother.
 
You're gonna get clowned to the Nth degree before this night is out.

Not because you got done dirty, but because after all this time on here you weren't expecting a bitch to move like that.
 
Oh, and I don't know how you got with her but this:

The way you get em, is the same way you loose em.
Chalk it up as a loss and move on....


is some great damned advice. I learned a long time ago that if a chick cheated on another dude to be with me, she's going to do the same shit to me. And if I'm cheating on her, I can expect she'll return the favor.
 
You probably don't have any emotion because deep inside you knew she wasn't the one and probably just with her because of convenience and laziness. You cheated on her and you both cheated in your previous relationship. You're probably just ready to move on and now you've found your reason.

How long were you all together?
 
somebody on this board had a saying....."It's not your pussy.....its just your turn". Its somebody else's turn bruh.
 
Dont tell the freak shit. Hold her down. Im sure you wont mind to continue to beat. Just make sure you not skinny dipping. RUBBER JACKETS SHOULD BE LIKE GOLD NOW AND DAYS.
 
Seriously we could do without the Days of our Lives story, just post the fucking homegrown !!!
 
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