Sista's would you date a boomerang child
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not the way you describe. A man without a job is not an option at this point. The car thing would be an issue in the area I live, but I'm sure it could be worked out somehow. When I was in college it wasn't a big deal...
I have dated a man who lives at home and it wasn't a big deal to me. Sex was an issue when we were at their house, but we figured it out. He put in on most of the mortgage, he had a good job, and he had a car.
I have dated a man who lives at home and it wasn't a big deal to me. Sex was an issue when we were at their house, but we figured it out. He put in on most of the mortgage, he had a good job, and he had a car.
Depends on the situation-I mean a man w/ a source of honest income but not living in his own space, but has a car yes and still willing to help me better myself yes.
A man w/ no job, no car no ambition no NOTHING and living at home...Nope
Realistically, doesn't everybody "live" at home?
there's always a wise ass in the bunchRealistically, doesn't everybody "live" at home?
context clues... "at home" has always implied "with your parents", especially in this thread about boomerang kids
To answer the OP, I wouldn't fuck with a chick with absolutely nothing.
Career, car, & key.
Bitch gotta have at least 2 of these. Shid, depending on how I'm feeling she might still be subpar if she got all three.
It breaks down like this; If she ain't got a job, not a career, just a job, then how she gonna be able to enjoy life with me, doing the things that make, not just me, but, us happy? Also, women usually start looking at a nigga to carry weight for them when they have a deficiency or void in their life, i.e. cash flow. Start wanting a nigga to help her sell food stamps and she wanna keep all the money, just paposterous.
If she ain't got a car, in Atlanta, she slow motion like a muthafucka. I rode Marta for YEARS, it is not condusive to anyone trying to get anything done, whether it be just getting to class and back home, then to work......shiiiiiddddddd. Also, I got a lot of business going on, and it's really not practical or, oftentimes, not even feasible for me to be doing the college boyfriend thing and picking her up from train station, taking her home, taking her to get some food before I drop her off, giving her a ride to school when she is too late to take Marta, shuttling her to work, etc. My days are often fully packed and I'm running around from the time I wake up to the time I fall out.
If she ain't got a crib...... well, lemme just say this. I be wanting an escape from my regular environment, I would want her to be that escape. If my R&R time is spent looking and dwelling in the same place(s) that I see in my daily routine I wouldn't be satisfied. Sure, we can fuck over my house, but a nigga like me get tired of waking up smelling my own stanking ass (I don't really stank, I'm just sayin'), goin in the bathroom and seeing the same ass Irish Spring and Gillette deodorant. I wanna wake up smelling something sweet, go in the bathroom and see & smell some cucumber melon, some love spell or something. And if she stay with her parents or any other family, me waking up smelling her lil brother's pissy mattress in the next room, and having to put drawls on to walk down the hall to the bathroom and see 4 toothbrushes in the holder and everybody's shit cramped into the medicine cabinet and scattered all over the counter ..... that there is not an option.
Career, car, & key.
Bitch gotta have at least 2 of these. Shid, depending on how I'm feeling she might still be subpar if she got all three.
It breaks down like this; If she ain't got a job, not a career, just a job, then how she gonna be able to enjoy life with me, doing the things that make, not just me, but, us happy? Also, women usually start looking at a nigga to carry weight for them when they have a deficiency or void in their life, i.e. cash flow. Start wanting a nigga to help her sell food stamps and she wanna keep all the money, just paposterous.
If she ain't got a car, in Atlanta, she slow motion like a muthafucka. I rode Marta for YEARS, it is not condusive to anyone trying to get anything done, whether it be just getting to class and back home, then to work......shiiiiiddddddd. Also, I got a lot of business going on, and it's really not practical or, oftentimes, not even feasible for me to be doing the college boyfriend thing and picking her up from train station, taking her home, taking her to get some food before I drop her off, giving her a ride to school when she is too late to take Marta, shuttling her to work, etc. My days are often fully packed and I'm running around from the time I wake up to the time I fall out.
If she ain't got a crib...... well, lemme just say this. I be wanting an escape from my regular environment, I would want her to be that escape. If my R&R time is spent looking and dwelling in the same place(s) that I see in my daily routine I wouldn't be satisfied. Sure, we can fuck over my house, but a nigga like me get tired of waking up smelling my own stanking ass (I don't really stank, I'm just sayin'), goin in the bathroom and seeing the same ass Irish Spring and Gillette deodorant. I wanna wake up smelling something sweet, go in the bathroom and see & smell some cucumber melon, some love spell or something. And if she stay with her parents or any other family, me waking up smelling her lil brother's pissy mattress in the next room, and having to put drawls on to walk down the hall to the bathroom and see 4 toothbrushes in the holder and everybody's shit cramped into the medicine cabinet and scattered all over the counter ..... that there is not an option.
EDIT: see your PMTo answer the OP, I wouldn't fuck with a chick with absolutely nothing.
Career, car, & key.
Bitch gotta have at least 2 of these. Shid, depending on how I'm feeling she might still be subpar if she got all three.
It breaks down like this; If she ain't got a job, not a career, just a job, then how she gonna be able to enjoy life with me, doing the things that make, not just me, but, us happy? Also, women usually start looking at a nigga to carry weight for them when they have a deficiency or void in their life, i.e. cash flow. Start wanting a nigga to help her sell food stamps and she wanna keep all the money, just paposterous.
If she ain't got a car, in Atlanta, she slow motion like a muthafucka. I rode Marta for YEARS, it is not condusive to anyone trying to get anything done, whether it be just getting to class and back home, then to work......shiiiiiddddddd. Also, I got a lot of business going on, and it's really not practical or, oftentimes, not even feasible for me to be doing the college boyfriend thing and picking her up from train station, taking her home, taking her to get some food before I drop her off, giving her a ride to school when she is too late to take Marta, shuttling her to work, etc. My days are often fully packed and I'm running around from the time I wake up to the time I fall out.
If she ain't got a crib...... well, lemme just say this. I be wanting an escape from my regular environment, I would want her to be that escape. If my R&R time is spent looking and dwelling in the same place(s) that I see in my daily routine I wouldn't be satisfied. Sure, we can fuck over my house, but a nigga like me get tired of waking up smelling my own stanking ass (I don't really stank, I'm just sayin'), goin in the bathroom and seeing the same ass Irish Spring and Gillette deodorant. I wanna wake up smelling something sweet, go in the bathroom and see & smell some cucumber melon, some love spell or something. And if she stay with her parents or any other family, me waking up smelling her lil brother's pissy mattress in the next room, and having to put drawls on to walk down the hall to the bathroom and see 4 toothbrushes in the holder and everybody's shit cramped into the medicine cabinet and scattered all over the counter ..... that there is not an option.
Not and EDIT: See my PMs