I'm curious if you have noticed this.....or is it just me?
I was reading the thread on BGOL about why 70% of black women are single a few minutes ago. I found it very interesting that the first reason posted was that they felt 70% of black women are not marriage material.
This is interesting to me because when I analyze the people that I know, it seems to me, most not all of the women who are in a serious relationship with a black man are the ones who are willing to date the guy who: doesn't have a job, slangs a lil something on the side, is aspiring to be the next rapper, has multiple kids/baby mommas, cheats, and the list goes on.
I know a lot of dynamic, beautiful, black women who are single. I'm talking attorneys, nurse practitioners, engineers, teachers, investment bankers, who claim they never have a "datable" black man approach them.
I also know a lot of good black men who are single (not looking 4 a relationship), date out of their race, or only date women who have a bunch of kids, are extremely ghetto, and other things of that nature.
When things go wrong with those types of women they come to me and complain that they never meet the types of dynamic black women I referenced above.
Where is the disconnect? Are the "good" black women only dating the "not shit" men? Are the "good" black men only dating the "not shit" women? I'm just trying to figure this out.
Okay....done with my rant....
I was reading the thread on BGOL about why 70% of black women are single a few minutes ago. I found it very interesting that the first reason posted was that they felt 70% of black women are not marriage material.
This is interesting to me because when I analyze the people that I know, it seems to me, most not all of the women who are in a serious relationship with a black man are the ones who are willing to date the guy who: doesn't have a job, slangs a lil something on the side, is aspiring to be the next rapper, has multiple kids/baby mommas, cheats, and the list goes on.
I know a lot of dynamic, beautiful, black women who are single. I'm talking attorneys, nurse practitioners, engineers, teachers, investment bankers, who claim they never have a "datable" black man approach them.
I also know a lot of good black men who are single (not looking 4 a relationship), date out of their race, or only date women who have a bunch of kids, are extremely ghetto, and other things of that nature.
When things go wrong with those types of women they come to me and complain that they never meet the types of dynamic black women I referenced above.
Where is the disconnect? Are the "good" black women only dating the "not shit" men? Are the "good" black men only dating the "not shit" women? I'm just trying to figure this out.
Okay....done with my rant....