Simple Question: How do you deal with White people at work

I treat everyone I work with the same, for the most part. Now, I may tend to have a little more rapport with other Black folks, but even with them there are some limitations. Like the rest of society, there is self segregation and people tend to associate with people who share a common ground, culture, ancestry, etc. but I tend to have a cordial working relationship with people I work with.

I believe that in order to have a favorable working experience or career, one needs allies. Said ally may be someone of a different ethnicity or the same ethnicity, but it certainly helps to have a few in your corner just in case something goes down.

Lastly, I know there are more than enough people at my job who are either white supremacists, suspected white supremacists, Latinos who dislike Blacks as well as other non-Blacks who support white supremacy or harbor some type of prejudice/bigotry, but I feel that isn't my problem nor do I have the time to worry about what it is in someone's heart.

I take pride in my job, treat everyone with a satisfactory level of courtesy and respect and those who are real and worthy will reciprocate the gesture. Many do and some don't.
 
Imma tell you like a brother told me...

"Remember you are getting PAID to be their friends."

Be professional civil cordial even and that's it.

No personal business no socializing.

But you carry yourself like a professional say good morning, etc.

You just trying to get that check and be out.

Don't get caught in no drama no gossip.

No strong opinions either way.

If someone says something sketching make a mental note check 'em if they go to far.

Its a job...not your family or friends.

Get YOUR work done and be out.

the one you THINK is your 'buddy" will the the FIRST one to cut your throat.
 
Everything your momma told you about being twice as good is for real in corporate america . . . If this is a problem, then get out now . . .
 
Same way I deal with everyone else, cordially, respectfully, and professionally.

^This

Fwiw, in my experiences don't become too familiar with them. CAC's tend to take liberties if they feel they "know you" or "have you figured out". I stay away from discussions on religion, politics, or black vs whites current affairs.
 
Bro. I got wrote up twice because I had a "Bad attitude" and made working with me uncomfortable before for this very reason.

Damn lol. I mean I'm not disrespectful or anything. I'm one of those cats with a built-in screwface where I look mean without trying. Unless it's job related it's pretty much one word answers from me
 
Dealing with CACs at the job is an art in itself... Rarely I will find one that is genuine but those are ones I will align myself with for career progression. It's unfortunate, but there are very, very few of us in a position of authority. I can count on one hand the times I've done some personal things outside of the job.
 
Professionally.....they peers and co workers not friends and that boundary is set

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