She says the kid is mine, whats my best move???

1eyedwilly

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I recently was contacted by a woman I used to fuck a while back like 1999 back. After the formalities she tells me that her first born son is mine. She thought it was another dude (her on again off again boyfriend to be exact). She says that the kid doesnt look anything like him, and she and her husband agree that the youngster looks just like me. I asked her why she took so long to tell me this shit and she didnt really have a response. she just mentioned some shit about me moving to baltimore and we were never really serious and she really did want the kid to be the dudes.
Here's where shit gets kinda fucked up!!! She tells me the guy who signed the birth certificate is about to come from doing a 10 year prison bid. Apparently while she was pregnant he was living with some friends, and started fucking his home boy's 14 year old daughter. Now back in '99 dude had to be about 23/24, he was formally charged and was placed on probation as a sex offender (i dunno though coz that was very long ago and i dont know what the rules were back then). Anyways she tells me that dude violated his probation, for FAILURE TO PAY CHILD SUPPORT, and the judge BAMS his ass wit a dime.
This chick aint asking for anything at all, she said it was weighing down her soul, because lives were ruined and things could've been way different. she is a little nervous about the guy getting out, and him finding out that he went away all that time for a kid that wasn't his, and his family who i think plays a part in his life still (i think).
So how do i go about checking this whole situation out, and not get myself in any trouble. i'm currently on probation myself and aint tryin to get wit no more new charges. but if the kid is mine i'd really like to know what i can do to find out in the most economical way. Fellas i aint going on maury niggas round here been sayin that shit. and she stays in tampa so i cant even get any real info, coz i live in St. Pete. Anyways i was just wondering if any1 has been in a similar situation and how was it handled or what can i do????
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she stays in tampa so i cant even get any real info, coz i live in St. Pete
acording to google maps tampa and st petersburg is only 22 miles away,27 minutes
 
Stay away from her and sever all means of contact. I know it seems fucked up but don't concern yourself with her conscience. You never lied to anyone about the kid being theirs. Seems like she's got the ole, "a nigga about to get outta prison soon", jitters. Fuck all that shit.
 
she stays in tampa so i cant even get any real info, coz i live in St. Pete
acording to google maps tampa and st petersburg is only 22 miles away,27 minutes

Yea i know that but its 2 different counties i had a friend who works for the county try and pull sum info, she said nuttn came up and told me that it was a hillsborough county issue not Pinellas
 
Test... If the kid is your be a man and do your job like a man and be a father to that kid you helped bring into the World.:hmm: Next time use a rubber!
 
Stay away from her and sever all means of contact. I know it seems fucked up but don't concern yourself with her conscience. You never lied to anyone about the kid being theirs. Seems like she's got the ole, "a nigga about to get outta prison soon", jitters. Fuck all that shit.

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dats sum real shit... but this dude is a sex offender... and i remember him popping up one day wen i was kickin it wit her and i thought da nygga was gay, and this kid guna be round this dude coz he got the paperwork
 
Move to another apartment Quick as you can ! !

Think about 12+ years of back child support
How much will that be ?
You know they will take your drivers licence the day you walk into family court

Stay far away from her

Move to another state
 
move out of state, get rid of your facebook or anything she can use to track you down
 
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shit is is crazy they already BAMMED this nygga now they would try me... shit i aint moving tho fuck dat if i can get sum verification im guna do wat i gotta do
But sum1 already paid that debt to society, so why they guna want 2 prees me
 
she is a little nervous about the guy getting out, and him finding out that he went away all that time for a kid that wasn't his, and his family who i think plays a part in his life still (i think).

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Why put this child in the middle? Be a man get a dna test and find if this child is your and if so start trying to be there for the child he or she did not ask to be born
 
that kid aint his , this chick is trippin and if that other guy already signed the birth certificate leagally its his kid
 
niggas always talk about single mothers and how bad they are (on here) yet there first advice to dude is to run

running is why our community is so fucked up as it is

get a dna test and protect your seed(if it s yours) from that predator

its time you manned up!!!!

if u have to pay back support....so be it

a real man handles his responsibilities

but only if this kid is really yours

if she was fucking two dudes at once, it was probably three or four

dont trust these hoes...get that DNA test ASAP

the local courts can start the process for you
 
wear a condom if you don't want kids now.

get a vasectomy if you don't want kids ever


get out your checkbook if you don't listen
 
1 word transforms into 2 - Analyze! Nigga Ana-lyze! Anna Lyze! Anna Lies! Nigga ANNA LIES!!!!! RUN RUN RUN FOR YA DEAR LIFE!!!!! :giggle:
 
niggas always talk about single mothers and how bad they are (on here) yet there first advice to dude is to run

running is why our community is so fucked up as it is

get a dna test and protect your seed(if it s yours) from that predator

its time you manned up!!!!

if u have to pay back support....so be it

a real man handles his responsibilities

but only if this kid is really yours

if she was fucking two dudes at once, it was probably three or four

dont trust these hoes...get that DNA test ASAP

the local courts can start the process for you



THIS!


what the fuck is wrong with some of you cats?
 
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dats sum real shit... but this dude is a sex offender... and i remember him popping up one day wen i was kickin it wit her and i thought da nygga was gay, and this kid guna be round this dude coz he got the paperwork

Unless you have the means to financially and mentally entertain her shenanigans I'd stay clear of her. From what I am reading the woman has a husband now. If she doesn't want some homothug excon around her son let her tell that man he is not the father and confirm it with a DNA test. Then and only when she has settled that reality with ole short eyes it is up to you whether or not you want to entertain the notion of a DNA test.
 
niggas always talk about single mothers and how bad they are (on here) yet there first advice to dude is to run

running is why our community is so fucked up as it is

get a dna test and protect your seed(if it s yours) from that predator

its time you manned up!!!!

if u have to pay back support....so be it

a real man handles his responsibilities

but only if this kid is really yours

if she was fucking two dudes at once, it was probably three or four

dont trust these hoes...get that DNA test ASAP

the local courts can start the process for you

C/S. First get the DNA test to determine if the kid is yours, and the whole back child support shit should be out the window as you never knew the kid was yours, and you were just recently notified of this.

Good luck.
 
appreciate the feed back... im not trying to run away tho... and the only reason i aint make any moves towards DNA yet is because im paying mad shit to the court and probation now and i hear them test are expensive shit i wish the govt could jus let me get one for free!!! and i dont have problem paying the support when i get off PAPERS!!!!! if the kid is mine
 
Did they have a DNA test to prove that the child was not his while he was in jail? Or she is just going thru her life saying, "What If?" So this person was fucking you and him, maybe others, at the same time on different days or the same day. Calls you out blue because she knows the current dad getting out of jail will not have any money but maybe you do.
 
I'm all for manning up, but this just sounds like one of them decisions that can potentially ruin the rest of your life. This bitch obviously made a ton of wrong choices and will probably just bring you HELL. You would never know about That kid if you simply didn't answer the phone.

I SAY RUN NIGGA RUN!
 
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