Sex...Slow And Calm Or Fast And Furious!!!

[Andeyhollawho]

When women complain about two minute brothers what does that mean? Is that the two pump chump? Is that the dude who take his time and fuck slow but can't last? Or is that the dude who fuck fast and hard for two minutes and that's that.

Which do you perfer and how exactly do you want a man to last? Do you want a man to fuck hard and vigourously for 30 minutes? Or do you want from the time he start the actual sex (not foreplay but sex) to the time he pull out to be 30 minutes total with intervals of soft to hard and in between.

Girl told me I last long but fuck slow? Didn't get that shit at all. I'll explain better later. Discuss.

 

[Mo-Better]

 

[JofromthaNO]

For me, I'd like a guy to last at least a good 30-40 minutes...that includes foreplay as well, mind you...occasionally having marathon sex can be fun, but, on the regular, I don't have time to do hour long marathons of love making...

Now, during that love making, we can switch it up...say, start really slow and sensuous...long, deep soft strokes and lots of kissing...

However, we don't usually last there. He or I may start speeding it up...our rhythym will probably become faster, and his strokes may become harder and more "furious," as you say...

I don't think sex under two minutes, though, is ever okay Two pump chump is the guy that, regardless, of how his stroke is, he's "done" in two strokes...I don't think it takes you 30 minutes for two strokes, does it?

 

[onyxfemme]

It depends on my mood; slow and sensual is good when I am in a romantic mood-fast and hard is good when I need to be fucked.

 

[Andeyhollawho]

For me, I'd like a guy to last at least a good 30-40 minutes...that includes foreplay as well, mind you...occasionally having marathon sex can be fun, but, on the regular, I don't have time to do hour long marathons of love making...

Now, during that love making, we can switch it up...say, start really slow and sensuous...long, deep soft strokes and lots of kissing...

However, we don't usually last there. He or I may start speeding it up...our rhythym will probably become faster, and his strokes may become harder and more "furious," as you say...

I don't think sex under two minutes, though, is ever okay Two pump chump is the guy that, regardless, of how his stroke is, he's "done" in two strokes...I don't think it takes you 30 minutes for two strokes, does it?

Nah. Here's the deal. Best way to describe it is by seconds sorry. If we fucking I might start out with a stroke every 2 seconds. Speed up to one every second. Get into it towards the end maybe two a second right? Count it out on your hand or something and it will become clear!

Aight so if I'm fucking constantly at two strokes every second pace of course I'm gonna climax quicker. If we start at that pace and keep that pace you might get a good 10 minutes out of me. That's some vigourous fucking for 10 good minutes and throw about 5 or 10 minutes of foreplay in that shit and we good.

She seem to think that I try not to rush because I can't last fucking fast for 30 minutes. You goddamn right I can't.

Do I need to step my shit up or what? Let me know? Seriously?

 

[Andeyhollawho]

It depends on my mood; slow and sensual is good when I am in a romantic mood-fast and hard is good when I need to be fucked.

So if you need to be fucked. I mean get it in there how long you expect that to last? Seriously. Do you expect to be pin to the wall for 30 minutes of "gimme dat". That's what I call it. That gimme dat sex!

This would have been in the other thread but...

"Gimme dat girl. Come on throw it back baby. Give it to me now. Arch that back. There it is. Um Hummmm. Ummmm Hmmm. Gimme dat right there girl DAMN!"

 

[onyxfemme]

I am now aroused Talk some more!

Ok the thing w/ that is if it is rough and rugged sex I cant go no hour to an hour and half of that! Shit I be all out of breath!
30 minutes is cool so I can take a dang nap!

But if its slow and sensual long strokes neck sucking and kissing..intimate whispers and passion...I can go as long as it takes..mmmmhmmm

So if you need to be fucked. I mean get it in there how long you expect that to last? Seriously. Do you expect to be pin to the wall for 30 minutes of "gimme dat". That's what I call it. That gimme dat sex!

This would have been in the other thread but...

"Gimme dat girl. Come on throw it back baby. Give it to me now. Arch that back. There it is. Um Hummmm. Ummmm Hmmm. Gimme dat right there girl DAMN!"

 

[JofromthaNO]

Nah. Here's the deal. Best way to describe it is by seconds sorry. If we fucking I might start out with a stroke every 2 seconds. Speed up to one every second. Get into it towards the end maybe two a second right? Count it out on your hand or something and it will become clear!

Maybe it was me, but I was trying to count that tap the seconds out on my computer desk and thrust my pelvis forward

I'm glad I live alone...

But, seriously, as long as she's into it and so are you, who cares how long you last or don't last at it? I'd say switch up the frequency of strokes every now and then, especially if you feel yourself about to cum...

So if you need to be fucked. I mean get it in there how long you expect that to last? Seriously. Do you expect to be pin to the wall for 30 minutes of "gimme dat". That's what I call it. That gimme dat sex!

This would have been in the other thread but...

"Gimme dat girl. Come on throw it back baby. Give it to me now. Arch that back. There it is. Um Hummmm. Ummmm Hmmm. Gimme dat right there girl DAMN!"

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[Andeyhollawho]

I am now aroused Talk some more!

Ok the thing w/ that is if it is rough and rugged sex I cant go no hour to an hour and half of that! Shit I be all out of breath!
30 minutes is cool so I can take a dang nap!

But if its slow and sensual long strokes neck sucking and kissing..intimate whispers and passion...I can go as long as it takes..mmmmhmmm

You got a man girl. That dude ain't running up on me!

See I will start with the slow and sensual and end with the gimme dat. Girl asking me why it taking so long to get to the gimme dat. She act like I'm cheating the system or some shit. I thought that's what ladies liked? I know how to get straight to the gimme dat but it ain't gone be 30 minutes of it.

 

[Andeyhollawho]

Maybe it was me, but I was trying to count that tap the seconds out on my computer desk and thrust my pelvis forward

I'm glad I live alone...

But, seriously, as long as she's into it and so are you, who cares how long you last or don't last at it? I'd say switch up the frequency of strokes every now and then, especially if you feel yourself about to cum...

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I like you Jo!

And that's how I talk for real though during sex.

The problem is she complaining. I don't know if she trying to bait me into tearing down some walls on her little ass or what but she say it take me too long to get to it. She want to start and finish at the same peak but I'm saying that it ain't gonna be the same time frame. Maybe I'm just too romantic or some shit?

I mean every once in a while we can do that but when we do it's always "damn that's it"! Goddamn we just fucked for 15 goddamn minutes like jack rabbits!

 

[onyxfemme]

Ok ok ok!
So she wants the "gimme dat" ok....She thinks she wants it..
Give her what she wants and when it is over in 15 minutes and she didnt cum be like...Sucks to be you...I thought that is what you wanted?

You got a man girl. That dude ain't running up on me!

See I will start with the slow and sensual and end with the gimme dat. Girl asking me why it taking so long to get to the gimme dat. She act like I'm cheating the system or some shit. I thought that's what ladies liked? I know how to get straight to the gimme dat but it ain't gone be 30 minutes of it.

 

[Andeyhollawho]

Ok ok ok!
So she wants the "gimme dat" ok....She thinks she wants it..
Give her what she wants and when it is over in 15 minutes and she didnt cum be like...Sucks to be you...I thought that is what you wanted?

That's what I been doing and now she talking shit. I'm like it's one way or the other. Can't do both!

 

[Mo-Better]

I never feel sex should be rushed. My motto has always been she cums first. But I do understand that there's times when a quicky is in order. So I tend to go with the flow.

So the deal is you have to know your mate. Like Onyx says it depends on her mood. An like JofromthaNO said marathon sex can be fun. As the man you need to be able to deliver for whatever mood she's in. You will know because her body will tell you.

 

[Andeyhollawho]

I never feel sex should be rushed. My motto has always been she cums first. But I do understand that there's times when a quicky is in order. So I tend to go with the flow.

So the deal is you have to know your mate. Like Onyx says it depends on her mood. An like JofromthaNO said marathon sex can be fun. As the man you need to be able to deliver for whatever mood she's in. You will know because her body will tell you.

You got to read my stuff. She complaining because the quickie don't last as long as the full blown make love session. So I'm asking what the hell do she want? Ain't no way that's gonna happen.

 

[UnoBetter2]

It depends on my mood; slow and sensual is good when I am in a romantic mood-fast and hard is good when I need to be fucked.

Ever get fucked, slow and good? I love that shit especially when a sista know how to arch her back to met the dick and fuck me as I fuck her. I love it when she just clamp her ankles around the back of my knees and just thrust as I thrust!! I could fuck like that all night, hmmmm girl fuck me till my dick is sore, yeah work that shit!! Long as you want, just tell me when to nut!! I'm yo hoe fuck me!!! OK, DOWN BOY, JUST PLAYIN!!

 

[Chicutie]

Ever get fucked, slow and good? I love that shit especially when a sista know how to arch her back to met the dick and fuck me as I fuck her. I love it when she just clamp her ankles around the back of my knees and just thrust as I thrust!! I could fuck like that all night, hmmmm girl fuck me till my dick is sore, yeah work that shit!! Long as you want, just tell me when to nut!! I'm yo hoe fuck me!!! OK, DOWN BOY, JUST PLAYIN!!

I enjoyed reading that . . .

 

[wutdadeal3]

You have to learn to read her body movements...and you might have to find a middle speed and pace yourself. Something that's not too fast but not too slow. Don't hit it too hard...just hard enough to create a slight wave on her butt as you're hitting it. Don't thrust until you feel yourself building up towards the end. Her moans (if she moans), her inhale breaths, and how she moves (getting into it) will tell you if you're doing it right.

I was there once but the complaint I use to get was "You're not done yet?!?!" So, I had to learn her pace and make myself adapt you her. Honestly, it sucked for me but it worked for her. She made me enjoy fourplay more because I couldn't enjoy sex with her like I wanted.

Other than that...to bypass all of that...just turn her out with some freaky shit you don't normally do to her...just don't over do it because she's going to want more....but that's my opinion.

 

[Andeyhollawho]

You have to learn to read her body movements...and you might have to find a middle speed and pace yourself. Something that's not too fast but not too slow. Don't hit it too hard...just hard enough to create a slight wave on her butt as you're hitting it. Don't thrust until you feel yourself building up towards the end. Her moans (if she moans), her inhale breaths, and how she moves (getting into it) will tell you if you're doing it right.

I was there once but the complaint I use to get was "You're not done yet?!?!" So, I had to learn her pace and make myself adapt you her. Honestly, it sucked for me but it worked for her. She made me enjoy fourplay more because I couldn't enjoy sex with her like I wanted.

Other than that...to bypass all of that...just turn her out with some freaky shit you don't normally do to her...just don't over do it because she's going to want more....but that's my opinion.

I feel that. I mean the whole sex sucking for me part is what I am trying to avoid but I guess you can't always avoid it like that. I know I'm just gonna have to break it down and get her into foreplay more. She like it but she be anxious to get to it you know. She just impatient with shit all the damn time.

 

[UnoBetter2]

Ever get fucked, slow and good? I love that shit especially when a sista know how to arch her back to met the dick and fuck me as I fuck her. I love it when she just clamp her ankles around the back of my knees and just thrust as I thrust!! I could fuck like that all night, hmmmm girl fuck me till med y dick is sore, yeah work that shit!! Long as you want, just tell me when to nut!! I'm yo hoe fuck me!!! OK, DOWN BOY, JUST PLAYIN!!

I enjoyed reading that . . .

I enjoyed typing it!!
I always love the look on their face when I say "Fuck me till my dick is sore, I'm yo hoe tonight so tell me when to nut". Shits better than Astroglide!!!

 

[Mo-Better]

You got to read my stuff. She complaining because the quickie don't last as long as the full blown make love session. So I'm asking what the hell do she want? Ain't no way that's gonna happen.

I did read it Andy, you need to do some educating. This girl must be very young or inexperienced. Take her to Sex Education 101 - A quickie by the definition of the word quick means, it's only going to take a few minutes.

She also needs to understand sex can never be on a set time frame. If she wants a quickie make her understand that a quickie is only foreplay to whats coming later. Personally I don't believe in quickies, I don't believe in rushing my lady for my own satisfaction. If I approach my lady she knows we will be awhile. But she also knows we both will be very satisfied when we finish.

Adjust your game and roll with her pace. If you don't get yours let her know she's got work to do later, let her know why. But don't let her set unreal time frames on sex.

 

[Mo-Better]

I feel that. I mean the whole sex sucking for me part is what I am trying to avoid but I guess you can't always avoid it like that. I know I'm just gonna have to break it down and get her into foreplay more. She like it but she be anxious to get to it you know. She just impatient with shit all the damn time.

Ah this is what I suspected. That rushing through sex comes from sneaking to have sex. You need to take her to a new level. Make her slow down sex is not a race. Your idea to get her into foreplay is the right start. But take control of the love making also. Slow down the pace, alternate from the intercourse and go back to the foreplay make it different. Teach her another way.

 

[doggish_098]

this reminds me of a vacation i was on and the cab driving was telling us how he doesnt like to buy younger hookers because they like to fuck like rabbits.

 

[LoneStar29]

A 2 minute brotha is a guy who busts quickly ... doesn't matter if he's going fast or slow the point is he finished before I started sooooooooooooooooooooo that's not good

I like slow, fast, hard, gentle, grinding, thrusting, pumping, fucking, making love, bouncing ... I mean we have all night so why just stick to one?

 

[MrMotivator]

breaks out my Clark Kent note pad to takes notes

 

[onyxfemme]

Oh my dayum!!!!! talk that talk!!!!!!!!!

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Ever get fucked, slow and good? I love that shit especially when a sista know how to arch her back to met the dick and fuck me as I fuck her. I love it when she just clamp her ankles around the back of my knees and just thrust as I thrust!! I could fuck like that all night, hmmmm girl fuck me till my dick is sore, yeah work that shit!! Long as you want, just tell me when to nut!! I'm yo hoe fuck me!!! OK, DOWN BOY, JUST PLAYIN!!

 

[wutdadeal3]

A 2 minute brotha is a guy who busts quickly ... doesn't matter if he's going fast or slow the point is he finished before I started sooooooooooooooooooooo that's not good

I like slow, fast, hard, gentle, grinding, thrusting, pumping, fucking, making love, bouncing ... I mean we have all night so why just stick to one?

That's what I'm talking about...co-motherfucking-sign

 

[wutdadeal3]

breaks out my Clark Kent note pad to takes notes

 

[sean69]

Oh my dayum!!!!! talk that talk!!!!!!!!!

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OMG!

did your water just br--

 

[onyxfemme]

I hate you!!!!!!!!
Dayum it

OMG!

did your water just br--

 

[pornbrokerxxx]

A 2 minute brotha is a guy who busts quickly ... doesn't matter if he's going fast or slow the point is he finished before I started sooooooooooooooooooooo that's not good

I like slow, fast, hard, gentle, grinding, thrusting, pumping, fucking, making love, bouncing ... I mean we have all night so why just stick to one?

You know you gonna be walking funny the next day right? Or would that be me?

 

[shywriter]

It's literally different strokes for different folks. Some women only can get off from slow stroking, other women damn near need their pelvic bone cracked to nut. From the sound of it Andey, this is a youngin' you're dealing with, so if she has the potential to learn and accept different ways, go for it. If not, oh well.

 

[sean69]

I personally suscribe to the 2-3-1 stutter-quick-stroke. Hit her with 2 strokes with the head followed by 3 rapid strokes to the mid length then the 1 stroke deep-pump action finish ... preffly at 125-150 s.p.m F.D.A.U.


... so to speak.