Seriously how do you deal with children that were told you were a no good father

[Top_Bunk]

There isn't a book on this earth to teach you how to deal with a child that has been coached by his/her mother to hate your daddy, and you daddy aint no good, and your daddy with this other woman.

And now you child hates you for that or because you are trying to get custody of it.

Really how do you deal with that when they only 10 and you come over and they frown up and you dont know what the baby mama is teaching that child.

I mean i know kids that love their mother/father and they allways on drugs and shit.

FYI even if the man is a dead beat women you should still teach you kids better then that. To love your father regardless

 

[destrehan]

nah if the nigga's a deadbeat he deserve for his child to not fuck with him at all.

 

[DLateshow]

You can love a father but a sperm donor. Kids are smarter than we give them credit for. As they get older they know if dad is a dead beat or not. They will resent the mother if she portrayed the dad as a deadbeat and he was not. With kids it not what you say but what you do that matters.

Dlateshow

 

[kidmegaii]

nah if the nigga's a deadbeat he deserve for his child to not fuck with him at all.

You can love a father but a sperm donor. Kids are smarter than we give them credit for. As they get older they know if dad is a dead beat or not. They will resent the mother if she portrayed the dad as a deadbeat and he was not. With kids it not what you say but what you do that matters.

Dlateshow

^^Pretty Much

 

[Steve Lurkle]

Dont give your child a reason to hate you. I told my BM from the get that I wanna see my daughter errryday. I pick her up from school everyday and we eat dinner together every day. I dont say shit, I do shit. But her moms has her on the weekdns, so she only has a limited window to hate on me.

 

[charlie dark]

Be a good father and it won't matter what anyone says!!!

 

[sean69]

dudes need to stop fucking with yamps.

 

[flipflop]

I tell them to find a quiet place to relax and to find all of the great memories they have hidden in thier mind......then ask their mama about it....if that fails......go ask a friend of ya mom....cuz the only one that dont know...is ya mom....

of course for this to work you have to have really been a good dad!

 

[Andeyhollawho]

 

[Dragon_My_Balls]

Dont give your child a reason to hate you. I told my BM from the get that I wanna see my daughter errryday. I pick her up from school everyday and we eat dinner together every day. I dont say shit, I do shit. But her moms has her on the weekdns, so she only has a limited window to hate on me.

 

[HALO2]

don't have any kids yet, after I get married, I want 3.

 

[ronmch20]

You can love a father but a sperm donor. Kids are smarter than we give them credit for. As they get older they know if dad is a dead beat or not. They will resent the mother if she portrayed the dad as a deadbeat and he was not. With kids it not what you say but what you do that matters.

Dlateshow

Well said...

 

[kjxxxx]

Dont give your child a reason to hate you. I told my BM from the get that I wanna see my daughter errryday. I pick her up from school everyday and we eat dinner together every day. I dont say shit, I do shit. But her moms has her on the weekdns, so she only has a limited window to hate on me.

that is one way to do it. Since you don't have custody like he (Hedo Lurkaglu)does then you start by picking at least one day a week where you take the kid to dinner then take her back home. You can walk her home from school or go help her with her homework (don't have to be every day, you can do it the day when you take her to dinner. Here in GA, Picadelli have like kids eat on Thursdays for cheap and kids love it there. Take her for ice cream if you don't want to do dinner and make sure you talk to her. Ask her bout her day. What happened in school, in class. How she getting on with her teacher. Ask her teacher about her so you can know how she is behaving in class and her performance. You can talk to her about it. Tell her you spoke with her teacher and she said ... (make sure you tell her about the good things the teacher said).

 

[Acur]

dudes need to stop fucking with yamps.

Niggas need to stop thinking about getting theirs. Niggas never think about getting married they always want to be a player. I find a lot of this stuff funny. Kats getting screwed because they got theirs and ran like they had robbed a store. Kats don't think for the future having a baby momma is cool that's nigga hood shit. Marriage is a strange concept to most folks these days. Thankfully my Married Parents raised me better. I'm glad I didn't grow up like a lot of these hood losers today.