Serious question...HOW MANY OF YOU ARE YOUR FATHER'S BASTARD?

Were you born a bastard/illegitimate child?

  • Yes.

    Votes: 28 25.7%
  • No.

    Votes: 81 74.3%

  • Total voters
    109
I was very fortunate enough to have the angels I have for biological parents..

but there is no such thing as bastard children, only bastard societies..which treat children as pieces of shit... just look at all the children that go missing every year... that shit is an epidemic but does society ring the alarm.. nope....thats the way they planned it!

bastard society led by bastard people..

children are innocent!!
 
my son was born outta wedlock but damned if I'll say he's illegitmate fuck that...me and his mom's is getting married, can you "un-bastard" a child? :hmm:
 
Seriously. If someone was why would they answer here only to get ocked about it in the future. This is a question for someplace other than here :smh:
Okay, so basically you're saying BGOL is full of bastards who won't admit it?

I mean, it's no surprise. But the question was just asked to see what reaction would come. Cats acting like if they admit it HNIC gonna send them to BGOL @ Work and block their access to the main board...aka send them to The Wall.
:lol:
 
my son was born outta wedlock but damned if I'll say he's illegitmate fuck that...me and his mom's is getting married, can you "un-bastard" a child? :hmm:


I think OP is talking about niggas who dad made them and were never there from the get go. Born out of wedlock and bastard are different in my eyes. Your parents could raise you as excellent parents but not be married.
 
I am.

I have talked about this before on here.

I never met my father but talked(chatted) with him on AIM (circa '99-'00) when I was about 17-19.

It wasn't until I was 18 and I found out he was celebrating his 20th or 25th anniversary (either way it was longer than I had been alive) by remarrying his wife or re-exchanging vows or having some ceremony, that I learned that he was married before my my mother and while they were together.

I'm still not sure of his last name. I think I knew it around '99-'00, but I forgot since everybody stopped communicating (his sis sparsely kept in touch with my mama over the years).

The only pic I have of him is a polaroid, but I can't see his face. I'll post it if I can get it scanned.
 
so bgol amazes me again. they are rich, good looking and athletic, have both parents, however, it doesnt explain their hatred of black men and black women. Must be the enviroment of late.

I was a bastard from a basket.
 
How's your relationship with your mom(s)?




My relationship with my biological mother has been strained at best. It has improved since my father passed in 2010. My relationship with my step mother was good until my brother and sister were born then she replaced me and somewhat shunned me. I didn't call either one of them this past Mother's Day... My dad was all I really had and I had a great childhood for the most part
 
Only knew my father the first 5 or 6 years of my life. Never seen or heard from him until I was around the same age he was when he left me.

The sad thing is im about to follow in his foot steps and have a kid that I don't think Ill ever see until he comes looking for me.
 
WTF kinda question is this to ask & why do you wanna know?
Seriously. If someone was why would they answer here only to get ocked about it in the future. This is a question for someplace other than here :smh:

Not sure why it was asked (it don't really matter even though it was by Rocky), but I'll tell you why I answered.

I answered because a lot of members here have shared and through them sharing I have learned a lot....about life, about society, about people, about relations(hips). Also, I'm a candid person. I talk candidly to people(a good and bad thing at times) because I don't have that filter to help me judge who and when to be forthcoming with you, so I'm just honest with e'rybody with a "fuck it, get mad" attitude or a "deal wit it or don't" attitude.

I really DON'T give a fuck what any of y'all think of me or about me. And that wouldn't change even if I knew y'all in person. *shrug*

Lastly, I've learned that sharing hardships helps me learn from them, learn about myself, and address shit as it comes up. As well as, it helps me deal whatever fucked up thought s or feelings I may have about some shit, like Joe Hidden said, "pain shared is pain lessened".
*shrug*



Oh and ..... ock dis dick :hmm:
 
Only knew my father the first 5 or 6 years of my life. Never seen or heard from him until I was around the same age he was when he left me.

The sad thing is im about to follow in his foot steps and have a kid that I don't think Ill ever see until he comes looking for me.

It doesn't have to be that way man. Break the cycle. Be better.

See about yours!
 
Not sure why it was asked (it don't really matter even though it was by Rocky), but I'll tell you why I answered.

I answered because a lot of members here have shared and through them sharing I have learned a lot....about life, about society, about people, about relations(hips). Also, I'm a candid person. I talk candidly to people(a good and bad thing at times) because I don't have that filter to help me judge who and when to be forthcoming with you, so I'm just honest with e'rybody with a "fuck it, get mad" attitude or a "deal wit it or don't" attitude.

I really DON'T give a fuck what any of y'all think of me or about me. And that wouldn't change even if I knew y'all in person. *shrug*

Lastly, I've learned that sharing hardships helps me learn from them, learn about myself, and address shit as it comes up. As well as, it helps me deal whatever fucked up thought s or feelings I may have about some shit, like Joe Hidden said, "pain shared is pain lessened".
*shrug*



Oh and ..... ock dis dick :hmm:

Too many people hate me here I do not feel comfortable telling it since they like to post rocky from mask gifs of me already as it is I dont need to give them extra shit to throw back at me any time I say something they dont like. I will just say my story is a wild one and leave it at that. You braver than me. Props and respect.
 
Too many people hate me here I do not feel comfortable telling it since they like to post rocky from mask gifs of me already as it is I dont need to give them extra shit to throw back at me any time I say something they dont like. I will just say my story is a wild one and leave it at that. You braver than me. Props and respect.

Cool :cool:
 
I won't say I'm a bastard just didn't have a true relationship with my dad wish it was different but it is what it is
 
It doesn't have to be that way man. Break the cycle. Be better.

See about yours!

I think it's better off this way. I have two other kids I have an agreement with their mother. I pay for everything the kids need and she can claim one on her taxes. As long as I control the school, doctor activities and they live with me at least four days out of the week. Everything works fine.

This new chick does not want the kid with my last name. She says her mom is going to be the father. She also said I can't put him in private school because her other kid goes to public school. The dumb broad thinks buying Jordans for an infant is being a good parent. I can't put up with that dumb shit.

If I try to be their for him in the beginning I risk being able to protect my other kids. And she won't allow me to do right by him anyway.
 
I think it's better off this way. I have two other kids I have an agreement with their mother. I pay for everything the kids need and she can claim one on her taxes. As long as I control the school, doctor activities and they live with me at least four days out of the week. Everything works fine.

This new chick does not want the kid with my last name. She says her mom is going to be the father. She also said I can't put him in private school because her other kid goes to public school. The dumb broad thinks buying Jordans for an infant is being a good parent. I can't put up with that dumb shit.

If I try to be their for him in the beginning I risk being able to protect my other kids. And she won't allow me to do right by him anyway.

Bruh, you going for kid not having your last name?
 
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