That Erykah Badu is pregnant for her producer and rumored latest flame Jay Electronica.
Men would you date a woman with 3 baby daddies?
Men would you date a woman with 3 baby daddies?
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They do it all the time.
No. An Erykah has already expressed she wants a, " Tribe " from the top black personalities and artists.
So basically she's saying she will fuck anyone who she deems to have good genes!??
So basically she's saying she will fuck anyone who she deems to have good genes!??
Where and when did she say that??
Erykah Badu's a few pecans short of a fruit cake. How does a mother name her child Seven? Was he born on the 7th? If so it's a good thing he wasn't born on the 31st. Maybe she was scared she would run out of names. 
I love her music but that's where it ends with Erykah.
BTW it would take an exceptional woman to get me to date her if she had 3 baby daddies. Two maybe but not three.
I love her music but that's where it ends with Erykah.
BTW it would take an exceptional woman to get me to date her if she had 3 baby daddies. Two maybe but not three.
Erykah Badu's a few pecans short of a fruit cake. How does a mother name her child Seven? Was he born on the 7th? If so it's a good thing he wasn't born on the 31st. Maybe she was scared she would run out of names.
I love her music but that's where it ends with Erykah.
BTW it would take an exceptional woman to get me to date her if she had 3 baby daddies. Two maybe but not three.
@ boldedI think most men would probably agree with the section in red. . .
has this kooky bitch ever heard of condoms? and now were going to see jay electronica rocking dashiki's, a boat captain hat, and biker shorts. his career is over before it started. 
Erykah Badu's a few pecans short of a fruit cake. How does a mother name her child Seven? Was he born on the 7th? If so it's a good thing he wasn't born on the 31st. Maybe she was scared she would run out of names.
I love her music but that's where it ends with Erykah.
BTW it would take an exceptional woman to get me to date her if she had 3 baby daddies. Two maybe but not three.
You must not follow Badu because her first album was all about that. When she was into the whole 5 Percenter movement. The number 7 is tattooed on the back of her neck, could be henna though. I am very surprised she never got pregnant by the members of Dead President. I remember listening to her on Wendy Williams a couple of years ago with Dead President and Wendy was like "Well which one are you in a relationship with?" Her answer was "All of them". She didn't mean it literally, she meant you will have to guess. But I wouldn't have been surprised if she tested the waters with a couple of em.
But I agree that Jay Electronica may be ruined after this, if it is true. And given her past behavior, I wouldn't be surprised if it was.
Erykah Badu's a few pecans short of a fruit cake.
How does a mother name her child Seven? Was he born on the 7th? If so it's a good thing he wasn't born on the 31st. Maybe she was scared she would run out of names.
I love her music but that's where it ends with Erykah.
BTW it would take an exceptional woman to get me to date her if she had 3 baby daddies. Two maybe but not three.
That almost made me loose my lunch.
dont have any kids........................... and dont date women wit kids................... ok..... MAYBE...................... 1...
but definitely NOT 3..................................
and 3 baby daddies..................
your decision process is off...... you lookin for love in the wrong place............
where im at now all the available women have more than 1 baby wit more than 1 guy.........
shit is a hassle.......... they actually expect you to come alllllllllll the way in and do shit!!!!!!!!!!
dont have any kids........................... and dont date women wit kids................... ok..... MAYBE...................... 1...
but definitely NOT 3..................................
and 3 baby daddies..................
your decision process is off...... you lookin for love in the wrong place............
where im at now all the available women have more than 1 baby wit more than 1 guy.........
shit is a hassle.......... they actually expect you to come alllllllllll the way in and do shit!!!!!!!!!!
Seems like she just likes being a mother and has been with men who aren't the marrying kind (as most black men aren't). There's no evidence that she's only fucking men with "good genes" in order to create some super "tribe." That's yet another dumb, gossip blog rumor.
From 3/08:
She admits that she would love to be married, but it just hasn't been in the cards for her right now. "Marriage would be a wonderful thing, it's a beautiful thing. But you can't force it because everybody expects that of you. It has to be something that is real, natural and beautiful."
She continues, "I come from a long line of 'queendoms,' strong women who raised their children alone. I saw Black women who are resilient and strong. We are best with our mates, but we can make it without them, too, but we are best with them," she says.
Badu's father, William Wright Jr., died in 2001. "He was a beautiful person," she says.
She is clear about what type of man she is seeking. "I wrote in my journal what an ideal man should be. Someone who is responsible, creative and accepting. Someone who is free. When I say free I mean not being a slave to anything or anybody."
http://findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_m1355/is_8_113/ai_n24921487/pg_1?tag=artBody;col1
From 3/08:
She admits that she would love to be married, but it just hasn't been in the cards for her right now. "Marriage would be a wonderful thing, it's a beautiful thing. But you can't force it because everybody expects that of you. It has to be something that is real, natural and beautiful."
She continues, "I come from a long line of 'queendoms,' strong women who raised their children alone. I saw Black women who are resilient and strong. We are best with our mates, but we can make it without them, too, but we are best with them," she says.
Badu's father, William Wright Jr., died in 2001. "He was a beautiful person," she says.
She is clear about what type of man she is seeking. "I wrote in my journal what an ideal man should be. Someone who is responsible, creative and accepting. Someone who is free. When I say free I mean not being a slave to anything or anybody."
http://findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_m1355/is_8_113/ai_n24921487/pg_1?tag=artBody;col1
fuck no. only a dummy would
Really? Even if she's a world famous artist who's wealthier than you'll ever be (and can take care of her kids on her own dime)?
Shit, how many famous, successful (black) men have children with 3 or more partners? Loads.
Femme as I've said I love her music but that's where it ends. I'm not one to immerse myself into the idiosyncrasies of what makes an artist who they are off stage. However the fact she has a different father for each child speaks for itself.
How many white men, have small, ineffectual penises.
How many white men reveal their anger at their predicament by trolling a black message board called black girl online?
Blunt, may I offer you some water melon . . .
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So why is Blunt co-signing this "ho-ish" behavior that it hates in black men?
If this was a black man with 3 baby momma's we would see an entirely different Blunt. And it's not like people have not tried to settle down with Erykah. It seems she is not the marrying kind herself there buddy.
If this was a black man with 3 baby momma's we would see an entirely different Blunt. And it's not like people have not tried to settle down with Erykah. It seems she is not the marrying kind herself there buddy.
So why is Blunt co-signing this "ho-ish" behavior that it hates in black men?
If this was a black man with 3 baby momma's we would see an entirely different Blunt. And it's not like people have not tried to settle down with Erykah. It seems she is not the marrying kind herself there buddy.
Uhhh, both Andre Benjamin and Common get around.
Such a sweeping generalization is just wrong.
A greater percentage of black men (than black women or any other group) have never married.
"Hoish" black men run from their offspring (physically and financially), Badu embraces them. Having sex whenever you want and with whomever you want isn't "hoish," but it IS hypocritical when these same men label women negatively for the behavior they CELEBRATE.
If the man isn't bitching about child support or denying his children (hello Eddie Murphy) or pretending he's morally superior to sexually-active women or single mothers, then I have no beef. It's not about having children or having sex, but rather about the sexist attitudes and lack of responsibility that male "baby daddies" show.
They're hypocrites (and cowards), just like you.
I see I struck a muthafucking nerve!
Tell 'em why you mad son! Tell 'em why you mad!
How about all of the HAPPILY married men in the world.
How about the one's who stepped up and took care of their responsiblity. Male or female. There are a lot of women out there who don't take care of they damn kids. I know this first hand.
And how in the fuck is having sex with whoever you want and whatever you want NOT ho-ish? It's ho-ish for males AND females. What happened to the family unit? What happened to marriage? Don't get me wrong if you can come to peace with it and not let it affect your life detremenatally then by all means do you. Men AND women do it everyday and are responsible. But let's call it what the fuck it is.
There are plenty of men who are happily married in every day life and plenty of men who would LOVE to have a wife by their side everyday all day. I'm sorry you haven't been able to find one yet, but don't stick up for people who don't give a damn about it either.
Tell 'em why you mad son! Tell 'em why you mad!
How about all of the HAPPILY married men in the world.
How about the one's who stepped up and took care of their responsiblity. Male or female. There are a lot of women out there who don't take care of they damn kids. I know this first hand.
And how in the fuck is having sex with whoever you want and whatever you want NOT ho-ish? It's ho-ish for males AND females.
What happened to the family unit? What happened to marriage? Don't get me wrong if you can come to peace with it and not let it affect your life detremenatally then by all means do you. Men AND women do it everyday and are responsible. But let's call it what the fuck it is. There are plenty of men who are happily married in every day life and plenty of men who would LOVE to have a wife by their side everyday all day. I'm sorry you haven't been able to find one yet, but don't stick up for people who don't give a damn about it either.
YOU'RE WRONG AGAIN, INTERNET CHARACTER. Ju posted stats to the contrary.
wow it doesnt take long for shit to get on the net
i know someone who is friends with her...he told me today
3 babies daddies...im sorry but its not a good look
This thread is over a month old.
Nope.
(Fewer black women are currently married, due to more frequent widowhood and such. But fewer black men have ever been married. As if you need statistics to tell you something so obvious. Black men are allergic to marriage and/or commitment.)
The same way how you are allergic to women and common sense right?
you grew up in a single parent home?
Look like your father really dog your mother for you to be so cynical.
It took you a month to come up with that lame retort??? Smh. What happened to you??
dont have any kids........................... and dont date women wit kids................... ok..... MAYBE...................... 1...
but definitely NOT 3..................................
and 3 baby daddies..................
your decision process is off...... you lookin for love in the wrong place............
where im at now all the available women have more than 1 baby wit more than 1 guy.........
shit is a hassle.......... they actually expect you to come alllllllllll the way in and do shit!!!!!!!!!!
Your not looking for love at all at that point.
But why? If she knows them and they are involved in the kids' lives? Who is to say that one man & one woman is the only correct way to have kids? At least it's not a case of 3 kids and not being sure who the fathers are. Or a woman who got married, had kids, and then got pregnant out of an affair...
For the record, most single men would be reluctant to date a woman with 3 kids who are NOT HIS OWN... because he will no doubt have to deal with the 'baby daddy' issues, at some point in the relationship.
Now multiply all those 'potential headaches' X 3.
That's WAY TOO MANY grown-ass men / issues involved in ONE relationship, imo.
It's hard enough dealing with only ONE 'baby daddy'.
Sure the woman herself could be 'cool as hell', but you neva know when one of those mofos might start tripping.
No man (in his right mind) wants to have 3 different conversations / agreements about 'child care' issues.
And the minute the mother says 'you don't have to worry about raising my kids. I'll handle them. Thank you very much'.... he is put in a position of weakness. She 'wears the pants' and he becomes just another 'dependent', so to speak.
He can NEVER truly be 'the man of the house'.
Just some dude who either pays for everything.... or only satisfies the woman's 'emotional needs'.... but 'has no real authority'.
So he can't even rectify 'the smallest' household situation without input / consensus from a GROUP.FOR EXAMPLE:
Whenever little Jo-Jo starts 'acting the fool' late at night and the mother can't handle it... she gotta reach across her boyfriend's MANHOOD (in bed) to pick up the phone on the nightstand and call Jo-Jo's REAL father.
Sure it takes 'a village' to raise a child....
But it should NOT take multiple voicemails between multiple parents to get his little ass to 'put the garbage out', or 'clean his room' on the regular.
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For the record, most single men would be reluctant to date a woman with 3 kids who are NOT HIS OWN... because he will no doubt have to deal with the 'baby daddy' issues, at some point in the relationship.
Now multiply all those 'potential headaches' X 3.
That's WAY TOO MANY grown-ass men / issues involved in ONE relationship, imo.
It's hard enough dealing with only ONE 'baby daddy'.
Sure the woman herself could be 'cool as hell', but you neva know when one of those mofos might start tripping.
No man (in his right mind) wants to have 3 different conversations / agreements about 'child care' issues.
And the minute the mother says 'you don't have to worry about raising my kids. I'll handle them. Thank you very much'.... he is put in a position of weakness. She 'wears the pants' and he becomes just another 'dependent', so to speak.
He can NEVER truly be 'the man of the house'.
Just some dude who either pays for everything.... or only satisfies the woman's 'emotional needs'.... but 'has no real authority'.
FOR EXAMPLE:
Whenever little Jo-Jo starts 'acting the fool' late at night and the mother can't handle it... she gotta reach across her boyfriend's MANHOOD (in bed) to pick up the phone on the nightstand and call Jo-Jo's REAL father.
Sure it takes 'a village' to raise a child....
But it should NOT take multiple voicemails between multiple parents to get his little ass to 'put the garbage out', or 'clean his room' on the regular.
That was deep bro