Relationships 101: Why Would A Woman Come Visit You While She Is On Her Period?

[Steelwill2006]

Relationships 101: Why Would A Woman Outta State Visit You While She Is On Her Period

Scenario....you've been courting this woman for quite some time. Better yet, you two are in a relationship, but yall never had sex. Yes, I know. But let's stick to the subject at hand. You haven't seen her in a good month, and sexual frustration is running high. You know in your mind from talking to her that the next time you're gonna see her, you are gonna tap the ass finally. But, a couple days before she is to arrive. She makes a comment about her cycle being on, and she has PMS. You tell her Well, I guess you better stay where the fuck you're at then" as a joke of course. But, she get's mad and say's "Oh, you can't just chill with me while I'm on my period"?

Was this a test?

Did the player in training fuck up?

Is she really on that bullshit?

I say, she's on the bullshit.

 

[bigirl]

Contrary to what you may think, you men are more than just walking dildos to us you know. You should be flattered. Sounds like she enjoys your company for real. You know what? I have had men get mad at me on the same type of shit "what am I just a dick?". Most of the men I have been with want to hang out sometimes without fucking too. The same applies for us. Also keep in mind we are more sensitive and emotional when we are PMSing. Tread lightly during those times even with the humor.

 

[Dwayne Wayne]

yeah bro you gotta take care of "Aunt Flo" until she leaves then she'll let you hit it. Play the game playa

 

[Steelwill2006]

Contrary to what you may think, you men are more than just walking dildos to us you know. You should be flattered. Sounds like she enjoys your company for real. You know what? I have had men get mad at me on the same type of shit "what am I just a dick?". Most of the men I have been with want to hang out sometimes without fucking too. The same applies for us. Also keep in mind we are more sensitive and emotional when we are PMSing. Tread lightly during those times even with the humor.

I'm not speaking from personal experience, this is a hypothetical situation of course. But, I know how women can be during that time. I just don't understand why any person that is sexually attracted to someone would visit them from another state while they are on their period. Yall dont have irregular cycles do you? A man could have bought condoms, KY Jelly, scrawberries, and downloaded Barry Whites greatest hits off the internet in anticipation.

Not right, Just ain't right.

 

[bigirl]

I'm not speaking from personal experience, this is a hypothetical situation of course. But, I know how women can be during that time. I just don't understand why any person that is sexually attracted to someone would visit them from another state while they are on their period. Yall dont have irregular cycles do you? A man could have bought condoms, KY Jelly, scrawberries, and downloaded Barry Whites greatest hits off the internet in anticipation.

Not right, Just ain't right.

sometimes they are quite irregular and they "sneak attack". at least she told you beforehand instead of just showing up and then dropping the bomb.

 

[redux]

well, she probably tossed that info out to slow your roll, but she does want to spend time with you. however, apparently, you've never earned your 'red wings'...... if you had, then this scenario wouldn't be a 'problem'....

 

[afroyale]

Contrary to what you may think, you men are more than just walking dildos to us you know. You should be flattered. Sounds like she enjoys your company for real.

Fuck that. We don't mind being walking dildos, but we do mind being walking wallets.

 

[Steelwill2006]

sometimes they are quite irregular and they "sneak attack". at least she told you beforehand instead of just showing up and then dropping the bomb.

Oh, okay. You're right about her telling me prior to getting here. I just couldn't believe what the fuck I was hearing when she told me that shit. Wait.....didn't I say this was make believe.

 

[elchoccolatte]

No sense in running the "Red Light"...

 

[Steelwill2006]

well, she probably tossed that info out to slow your roll, but she does want to spend time with you. however, apparently, you've never earned your 'red wings'...... if you had, then this scenario wouldn't be a 'problem'....

Naw, never got my red wings. But, in all seriousness. I don't mind spending time with her, but I did plan on getting some finally.

 

[LordSinister]

Shit, back in the day, my girl let me buy champagne, rent a suite with a jacuzi and all the extras knowing she was bleeding. I was sooo mutha fuckin mad homie.

I was like "we could have stayed home for new years instead of this punk shit".

Well, that's women for you.

 

[Mo-Better]

Strange question, this "Scenario" sounds very real. It happens! Look at it as a blessing. She could've came by and told you the dot was blue.

 

[Steelwill2006]

Strange question, this "Scenario" sounds very real. It happens! Look at it as a blessing. She could've came by and told you the dot was blue.

True, but I wouldn't be complaining about not having sex with her either. Which probably won't happen for another few weeks.

 

[DaleMabry]

Just get head and help her get herself off. What's the problem?

Chess not checkers dude.

 

[John_Gault]

True, but I wouldn't be complaining about not having sex with her either. Which probably won't happen for another few weeks.

A few WEEKS!!!! You're kidding right?

LOOK . . . a female KNOWS if she'll fuck you within the 5 mins of choppin' it up with you.

NOW, you have some math homework to do young man.

I wish a GROWN WOMAN would try to play 'HOLD OUT' . . . she'd not only get demoted to little girl status, she'd also almost certainly get demoted and relegated to the 'friend' zone. In which case she'd never get any . . . and would be forced to deal with what she could've had IF she came correct in an exchange about what the deal is in terms of intimacy up front. . . instead of playing reindeer games. . .

Leave her alone . . . she'll straighten up or bounce. In any case, it will be better for the both of you. Water seeks it's own level grasshopper.

JG

 

[pornbrokerxxx]

Re: Relationships 101: Why Would A Woman Outta State Visit You While She Is On Her Pe

"Oh, you can't just chill with me while I'm on my period"?

bruh after she dropped that line you should of said;
"yeah we'll chill while you on your period, i wanna see what's going to happen after your period's done"

at that point small talk's over, it's either the bitch gets on or gets out. anyway she moves, you made your point. when you're going after pussy you have to let them know YOU ARE GOING AFTER IT. that gets the "just friends" shit outa the way and you don't waste your time. last fucking thing i'm gonna waste on a bitch is time. i'll treat you right and i'm not gonna be like some simp on you,but you're not gonna waste my time. there be other victims to go after,time is short.

 

[daLedurO3]

Re: Relationships 101: Why Would A Woman Outta State Visit You While She Is On Her Pe

lmaooo
Man....................

Bump.................

 

[Yogi Bear]

A few WEEKS!!!! You're kidding right?

LOOK . . . a female KNOWS if she'll fuck you within the 5 mins of choppin' it up with you.

NOW, you have some math homework to do young man.

I wish a GROWN WOMAN would try to play 'HOLD OUT' . . . she'd not only get demoted to little girl status, she'd also almost certainly get demoted and relegated to the 'friend' zone. In which case she'd never get any . . . and would be forced to deal with what she could've had IF she came correct in an exchange about what the deal is in terms of intimacy up front. . . instead of playing reindeer games. . .

Leave her alone . . . she'll straighten up or bounce. In any case, it will be better for the both of you. Water seeks it's own level grasshopper.

JG

This is real talk. Play the game. Maybe you are too available. If she thought that you didn't want her sexually anymore everything would change to her throwing the puss at you. If she had any intention of giving you any at all.

 

[Steelwill2006]

Well, it seems as if she wasn't on her period at all. Just didn't feel it was important for me to know if she was or wasn't. But, she finally broke down and told me of course. Now my problem is that we might be going our separate ways after last nights conversation that involved a bunch of other shit.

 

[KINGFROMQUEENS]

i dont know if this is for all women but i have found that a lot of the chicks i have been with in my day were "in heat" while on their period and wanted to get it on. i dont do that though. but i have had at least 3 chicks that would get off giving me head while on their period.i did not even have to ask for it. it was something they wanted to do.

 

[Riggz]

Re: Relationships 101: Why Would A Woman Outta State Visit You While She Is On Her Pe

Scenario....you've been courting this woman for quite some time. Better yet, you two are in a relationship, but yall never had sex. Yes, I know. But let's stick to the subject at hand. You haven't seen her in a good month, and sexual frustration is running high. You know in your mind from talking to her that the next time you're gonna see her, you are gonna tap the ass finally. But, a couple days before she is to arrive. She makes a comment about her cycle being on, and she has PMS. You tell her Well, I guess you better stay where the fuck you're at then" as a joke of course.

Fatal Error

 

[smiffnwessun]

No sense in running the "Red Light"...

I'm not gonna front I've run the red light raw a few times... but only with trusted partners....nah I'm bullshitting they weren't trusted partners but the bitch was so pretty i couldn't help it but it depends on how heavy her flow is if she sexci as shit and she with it i'll run that bitch, just keeping it real. It has only happened twice but i felt compelled because of the circumstances. sometimes your dick really gets the best of you.

 

[Steelwill2006]

Re: Relationships 101: Why Would A Woman Outta State Visit You While She Is On Her Pe

Fatal Error

I can't read the text on that shirt bruh.

 

[ANGRY MAN]

Re: Relationships 101: Why Would A Woman Outta State Visit You While She Is On Her Pe

You need a rotation of women young jedi..Then you wouldn't even care if she was on her period.Because you just got some ass the night before!

 

[mr_mantel_216]

and co-sign @ Angry man's comment

A few WEEKS!!!! You're kidding right?

LOOK . . . a female KNOWS if she'll fuck you within the 5 mins of choppin' it up with you.

I wish a GROWN WOMAN would try to play 'HOLD OUT' . . . she'd not only get demoted to little girl status, she'd also almost certainly get demoted and relegated to the 'friend' zone. In which case she'd never get any . . . and would be forced to deal with what she could've had IF she came correct in an exchange about what the deal is in terms of intimacy up front. . . instead of playing reindeer games. . .

Leave her alone . . . she'll straighten up or bounce. In any case, it will be better for the both of you. Water seeks it's own level grasshopper.

JG

!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Cha-ching!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[geist]

Sorry I jumped on this kinda late. Assuming you been going out with her for a while, and she didn't let you smash it already. It's time to move on and find a chick that will let you smash. I don't know what "a while" means, but I'm guessing it means you've been in a relationship capacity situation for some time. No pussy after a certain period of time= walk the fuck away.

Let's look at the red flags:

1) You're in a relationship....no pussy.

2) It's been a few weeks...a month and a half to two months....no pussy.

3) She's playing some bullshit "I'm on my period" game.....dick tease....no pussy.

That's strike three. So yes, she is on that bullshit. It's time to kick her ass to the curb. See here's the thing, she's teasing you with the sex thing. Because if it wasn't like that before, why should she need to tell you that now? To fuck with your head. I'm pretty sure she tried to twist it around on you. Just tell her to step the fuck off.

 

[Steelwill2006]

Sorry I jumped on this kinda late. Assuming you been going out with her for a while, and she didn't let you smash it already. It's time to move on and find a chick that will let you smash. I don't know what "a while" means, but I'm guessing it means you've been in a relationship capacity situation for some time. No pussy after a certain period of time= walk the fuck away.

Let's look at the red flags:

1) You're in a relationship....no pussy.

2) It's been a few weeks...a month and a half to two months....no pussy.

3) She's playing some bullshit "I'm on my period" game.....dick tease....no pussy.

That's strike three. So yes, she is on that bullshit. It's time to kick her ass to the curb. See here's the thing, she's teasing you with the sex thing. Because if it wasn't like that before, why should she need to tell you that now? To fuck with your head. I'm pretty sure she tried to twist it around on you. Just tell her to step the fuck off.

No, it is much more complicated then that. She actually has morals, which is why she and I have never had sex. But, to touch on sex issue. After she finally told me she was not on her period, she just didnt seem as interested. I know I'm a man, but damn. You claim you haven't had sex in a minute, and the issue we had is no longer valid. I would think that she would want to have sex as bad as did. But, that wasn't the case. She basically said it could go either way. Meaning, we may or may not have sex when she comes. Which I though was some str8 up BULLSHIT! Now, It doesnt look like she is visiting at all. Gotta man up on this one I guess and let her go.

 

[malaki]

No, it is much more complicated then that. She actually has morals, which is why she and I have never had sex. .

nah, thats not why.

 

[Steelwill2006]

nah, thats not why.

Why?

 

[Twistyaaliyah]

Why?

what woman has sex with a man after a month knowing him ... or a month in a relationship with him?? That is some ho-ish shit!

 

[Steelwill2006]

what woman has sex with a man after a month knowing him ... or a month in a relationship with him?? That is some ho-ish shit!

I've known this woman over a year! Reltionship, 2 months.

 

[femmenoire]

I don't know about other women but if I mention being on my period to a man it's because I'm on my period.

 

[Steelwill2006]

I don't know about other women but if I mention being on my period to a man it's because I'm on my period.

Seriously fem? Was I wrong for asking?

 

[jjUSTAZZ]

No, it is much more complicated then that. She actually has morals, which is why she and I have never had sex. But, to touch on sex issue. After she finally told me she was not on her period, she just didnt seem as interested. I know I'm a man, but damn. You claim you haven't had sex in a minute, and the issue we had is no longer valid. I would think that she would want to have sex as bad as did. But, that wasn't the case. She basically said it could go either way. Meaning, we may or may not have sex when she comes. Which I though was some str8 up BULLSHIT! Now, It doesnt look like she is visiting at all. Gotta man up on this one I guess and let her go.

Will is the same chick you was talking about a couple of months ago? The one that has been there for you even though you was in a "situation" with another female? If so, then the answer to your question was that she was testing you and you FAILED. If the two of you have still been in contact all this time and you haven't had sex yet, she did this becuase she wanted to know if you were still around just to fuck her so you could say that you had or if you were still trying to be with her on a higher level than just the sex. So maybe you should figure out if all you want now is to fuck her or if you want her still like you was talking a few months ago. You need to tell her either way cause it sounds like she was close to giving in to you and making that decision to do the sex thing even though you got that "situation". By acting like it was okay to just chill with her while she was on her period what you were really telling her was that she had mad ethe right decision to go ahead and have sex with you....

I know I know... That's real fucked up and silly but it's what some females do!

 

[femmenoire]

Seriously fem? Was I wrong for asking?

Nothing wrong with asking.

But personally, I don't expect men to be spooked by that. If I want to have sex during my period I will. If I don't I won't. That flow doesn't influence my other flow.

Now if you're the kinda dude that doesn't have sex while a woman is menstruating, and she picked up on that then perhaps she is cock-blocking.