Rape(hit close to home)
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I am so sorry for them...
I told my mom and dad about what happened to me @ 4,5 & 17 when I was 25 years old. My dad, brothers & boyfriend at the time lost it. You feel the rage you feel because you love that person and you cant stand the thought of no one hurting them and causing them any kind of pain.....
Trust me KARMA is a bitch...The adult who did the things that they did to me is sitting in a penitentry(sp)nursing home paralyzed from the neck down. He killed his girlfriend in front of her teenage son, then tried to turn the gun on himself...
The other person mysteriously ended up in White River here in Nap
The best thing you can do for your loved one, is just be there for them for support.
I told my mom and dad about what happened to me @ 4,5 & 17 when I was 25 years old. My dad, brothers & boyfriend at the time lost it. You feel the rage you feel because you love that person and you cant stand the thought of no one hurting them and causing them any kind of pain.....
Trust me KARMA is a bitch...The adult who did the things that they did to me is sitting in a penitentry(sp)nursing home paralyzed from the neck down. He killed his girlfriend in front of her teenage son, then tried to turn the gun on himself...
The other person mysteriously ended up in White River here in Nap
The best thing you can do for your loved one, is just be there for them for support.
I am so sorry for them...
I told my mom and dad about what happened to me @ 4,5 & 17 when I was 25 years old. My dad, brothers & boyfriend at the time lost it. You feel the rage you feel because you love that person and you cant stand the thought of no one hurting them and causing them any kind of pain.....
Trust me KARMA is a bitch...The adult who did the things that they did to me is sitting in a penitentry(sp)nursing home paralyzed from the neck down. He killed his girlfriend in front of her teenage son, then tried to turn the gun on himself...
The other person mysteriously ended up in White River here in Nap
The best thing you can do for your loved one, is just be there for them for support.
only a few know....
i am trying my best to support her and hide my anger but now my heart and head hurt. the type of shit that make me just want to grab my pistol for a damn ride.
I am so sorry for them...
I told my mom and dad about what happened to me @ 4,5 & 17 when I was 25 years old. My dad, brothers & boyfriend at the time lost it. You feel the rage you feel because you love that person and you cant stand the thought of no one hurting them and causing them any kind of pain.....
Trust me KARMA is a bitch...The adult who did the things that they did to me is sitting in a penitentry(sp)nursing home paralyzed from the neck down. He killed his girlfriend in front of her teenage son, then tried to turn the gun on himself...
The other person mysteriously ended up in White River here in Nap
The best thing you can do for your loved one, is just be there for them for support.
Agreed. Its not easy being in that type of situation, its good that she is able to actually speak on these things Definitely not easy to do.
Be a source of strength and comfort for her its some of the best medicine you can give.
Peace
Dont do it papi...Trust me who ever hurt her, has a fate worse than anything you could do to them. Believe me. I will tell you what I told my fam-If you grab your pistol and go for a ride-things turn bad and then she wont have you around to protect her and be there for her. You could end up in jail or worse...
Just be there for her..She is going to need you. Also she is lucky to have someone who cares so much for her.
im not a man that likes to tell a lie.
im deployed right now and im got this info through my im. something just told me to ask if nething ever happened like that. i didnt think i would be this angry. i think im more angry now becuz i cant be home to hold her. i hope i dont end up being over protective to my daughters.
The thing is you will be over protective most good daddies are
. As well you should be. The world we live in is not always filled with positive vibes and we have to prepare our lil ones for the dark side of things way too early.. Its hard when we know that the ones we love have been hurt. You have reason to be angry but you can't let that get you down bredren. You gonna need to take that anger and let it motivate you to love her more. Its that love and support even though you aren't near her that gives her strength.Peace
The thing is you will be over protective most good daddies are
Peace
You need to be overprotective to your daughters. I had a very overprotective father. He didn't let us spend time around people we didn't know. We couldn't spend the night at friends homes. I didn't even get to know my grandfather until I was about 16 because he was an alcoholic and my father didn't want us around him. This man wanted me to become a model and my dad said no. He wouldn't even let me join the girl scouts because some girl scouts were killed on a camping trip. I used to hate being brought up in such a sheltered home until I got out into the real world. So many people I have met in my life have been raped (males and females). I now realize how fortunate I was to have a father who looked out for me. Had I had a different father or no father at all there are so many terrible things that could have happened to me. Times are even worse now, so be protective, be very protective.
why is it that you seem to derive pleasure from trying to push buttons? A child gets raped @ 12 grows up and what you figure just get over it? What is wrong with you? Is this the type of attitude you'll teach your sons to carry with them regarding women? how did i know when i saw your screen name as the latest response when i looked in my cp that it would be a psychoanalysis and overreaction to my tasteless post? some things you just have to NOT take seriously.
I find rape of any kind a very "serious" matter. Especially when it involves a child. It NOT something one just "gets over".
This thread is not the place or time to say something so insensitive...
i didn't mean the rape i meant my comment. damn...
*giggles*
I'm niiiiice right now, fuckin sue me.
I'm niiiiice right now, fuckin sue me.
i just found out someone i love was raped 16 yrs ago at the age of 12. thats all imma share....
im so hurt that i want to just kill this dude. i wish i knew who it was. Why do i feel so much anger for something that happen to someone else that long ago.
Because dude violated a loved one. It doesn't even matter if it happened before you knew her.
