my question is for the ladies how come some or most of u like to see things but dont want them at home? for instance alot of women go to male strip shows to see the men obviously but dont want their man that cut up or defined i mess wit my girl tellin her i'm gone get a pump or an extension and she b like who u gone use that on cause u go too deep now and my point is if u gone go to the length to pay to see it why not have it at home? cause i work out an she says she doesn;t want me getting too cut ive heard this from many different females on both subjects so ladies can u please explain this how come its good to look at and u go out of your way to see it but don't want your man to have it