Question- Do the needs of your wife come before the needs of your child?
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No.
Impossible one might be able to reason with their wife just barely but you ain't reasoning with the kids.
Fuck kinda question is this? If you got kids you know the answer.
One of my friends arguing on facebook. He stance is that if he goes on vacation the kids should come also. His wife said they need to stay behind. He then stated when it comes to money the kids come first and if any is left over she gets
Damn lol
The answer is easy for someone who can drop their kids off every Friday with grandma so mommy and daddy can step out alone. The other side, for those who don't have a steady support system, the need for parental alone time can cause friction. Its possible the wife is tired of kids only activities and wants to do things with her man.
That’s not a need. Mom and dad need alone time. Vacations are perfect for that.
We are so soft now we don’t really know what needs are.
Yeah he’s wrong
Yes, the needs of my wife comes before the kids. Without me and her the shit don't work. If a women is telling you that then you might want to listen. She just might be smarter than you. Not to mention it's better for the kids.
The vows make it clear that the relationship comes first. It's one of the biggest reasons why your spouse should come first. Putting the children first diminishes the commitment and dishonors your wife. Putting each other first creates the kind of confidence that causes love to thrive and children to feel secure.
The vows make it clear that the relationship comes first. It's one of the biggest reasons why your spouse should come first. Putting the children first diminishes the commitment and dishonors your wife. Putting each other first creates the kind of confidence that causes love to thrive and children to feel secure.
Bingo/thread
In theory, this is correct.
No, the kid is my DNA
Would you rather your wife put your grown ass before your children?
Boom! This is very hard for some folk to understand. I listened to a counselor talk about the most frustrating thing in his job and he said it was parents saying their kids came before their relationship. He simply asked who provided the safe, loving environment required for kids to flourish? They don't pay bills, they don't have wisdom and they don't set the example....parents do. They will learn from ya'll's example....put your spouses first and that creates an environment for the raising of children.
A lot of dudes have complained about the woman putting too much time into the kids and not into them.
Depends on what the need is. Being in a household with two highly emotional and sensitive women can be a challenge. Having a mentally healthy wife/mother to your child is important for a healthy relationship, imo.
I know some kats situation is different, but for mine, there has to be a balance. When my wife had surgery and was recovering, I had to care for her and my daughter had to be more independent. However, there are time I need to be there for my daughter and have to set aside my wife’s needs.
So situations are fluid. Ultimately, there is a level of sacrifice that has to be made from your own needs. I’m not always great at that, and I see the negative side effects from it.
I know some kats situation is different, but for mine, there has to be a balance. When my wife had surgery and was recovering, I had to care for her and my daughter had to be more independent. However, there are time I need to be there for my daughter and have to set aside my wife’s needs.
So situations are fluid. Ultimately, there is a level of sacrifice that has to be made from your own needs. I’m not always great at that, and I see the negative side effects from it.
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