It's all mental, brotha. Pills won't work if your mind isn't right. I was on a set one time and we gave this one guy 100mg of Viagra. Mind you, the average is 50mg tablet. This cat still couldn't get hard because his mind wasn't in it. The producer and I were like 
...then after wasting more time and money we were like 

My personal tip to staying hard is to jerk off before, then spend a LOT of time on foreplay and getting HER *mentally* ready. Foreplay doesn't just mean playing with her for 20 minutes either. Kissing, touching, nipple sucking, teasing, grinding - ALL of that with some sincere sensual primal 'talk', and she'll be a faucet if she's feeling you. It won't matter how long you last
Now if she just wants to FUCK, hell with the foreplay? Go to the bathroom, get ya' nut off, then go into power primal dog mode. Guarantee you won't nut because mentally, it's all about power and that sort at that point. You should be cool....
-Shola




My personal tip to staying hard is to jerk off before, then spend a LOT of time on foreplay and getting HER *mentally* ready. Foreplay doesn't just mean playing with her for 20 minutes either. Kissing, touching, nipple sucking, teasing, grinding - ALL of that with some sincere sensual primal 'talk', and she'll be a faucet if she's feeling you. It won't matter how long you last

Now if she just wants to FUCK, hell with the foreplay? Go to the bathroom, get ya' nut off, then go into power primal dog mode. Guarantee you won't nut because mentally, it's all about power and that sort at that point. You should be cool....
-Shola