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DWBass

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Hey fam, I know we fuck with each other every now and then but a brother needs some uplifting vibes. My mom passed away yesterday. She was terminal and in a facility. We knew she was going to die but didn't think it would happen so soon. She went downhill pretty quick in a months time. I visited her in February and she was mobile. Visited again in March and she could no longer stand or walk anymore. My brother works during the day so she could no longer be left alone at home so we made the decision to have her hospitalized. After a week or so in the hospital, she was moved to a hospice facility. She lasted about a month. She was no longer eating. She had total kidney failure and her organs began shutting down. She was ready to go though. Outside of my brother, she had no more friends and most of her friends had passed away. She was extremely lonely. I'm not sad though. I'm happy she is no longer in pain.

Just looking for positive vibes though.
 
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I'm so sorry that you've lost someone who you and your family loved so much.

Take comfort in knowing Ma Dukes is resting easy and no longer in this world of pain and suffering.

Her legacy lives on in you. Don't focus on the pain of losing her. Focus on all the good times that made you happy, brought a smile to your face and the gentle touch that warmed your heart.

God speed DWBass.

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DWBass said:
Hey fam, I know we fuck with each other every now and then but a brother needs some uplifting vibes. My mom passed away yesterday. She was terminal and in a facility. We knew she was going to die but didn't think it would happen so soon. She went downhill pretty quick in a months time. I visited her in February and she was mobile. Visited again in March and she could no longer stand or walk anymore. My brother works during the day so she could no longer be left alone at home so we made the decision to have her hospitalized. After a week or so in the hospital, she was moved to a hospice facility. She lasted about a month. She was no longer eating. She had total kidney failure and her organs began shutting down. She was ready to go though. Outside of my brother, all her friends had passed away. She was extremely lonely. I'm not sad though. I'm happy she is no longer in pain.

Just looking for positive vibes though.
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It wasn’t a terribly devastating time for me when Mom passed

She was slowly distancing from the person that I knew for almost fifty years.

The selfish me would’ve of loved for her to live forever….the Mamas boy in me knew that the time had come.

You’re sole purpose as a parent is to prepare your kids to survive in a world that you are no longer a part of.

My mother would’ve starved so her kids could eat.

I’m glad my Mom is at peace

Condolences my brother

Carry on…
 
Though it doesn’t sound like it but being able to be with her through all those phases let het know that she was loved, despite of all her loss. Her story ended with people she loved honoring her and I know she let this world go home knowing the people left she loved, loved her back.
Stay up, brother.
 
Man, thank you for sharing that. It takes strength to be that open, especially in the middle of something so heavy. I’m really sorry for your loss, but also glad she’s no longer suffering. Sounds like she lived a full life, and now she’s at peace. Sending you and your brother all the love and positive energy.
 
DWBass said:
Hey fam, I know we fuck with each other every now and then but a brother needs some uplifting vibes. My mom passed away yesterday. She was terminal and in a facility. We knew she was going to die but didn't think it would happen so soon. She went downhill pretty quick in a months time. I visited her in February and she was mobile. Visited again in March and she could no longer stand or walk anymore. My brother works during the day so she could no longer be left alone at home so we made the decision to have her hospitalized. After a week or so in the hospital, she was moved to a hospice facility. She lasted about a month. She was no longer eating. She had total kidney failure and her organs began shutting down. She was ready to go though. Outside of my brother, all her friends had passed away. She was extremely lonely. I'm not sad though. I'm happy she is no longer in pain.

Just looking for positive vibes though.
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Prayers to you, your family, and condolences for your loss. I know what that is like. The memories (for me) sustain me now after the fact. The good times. It'll be hard, but in my opinion, sharing and just talking with others who know helped me in so many ways. Mine happened in one day, and she was gone. The last thing my mom told me before she went was to enjoy your life, son. You deserve that. Just you doing whatever you could to make her transition easier speaks volumes about the woman she was and the man you are today. Peaceful journey for her, and know you have an outlet bro. Again, sorry for your loss.
 
Thanks fam! Mom was 92. She lived a full and happy life!! I just hated to see her so defeated and helpless at the end especially when you remember how beautiful and full of life she was when she was younger! And she was still sharp up until the very end when she just stopped talking and eating.
 
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It's never easy losing your mother, grieve until you feel better and never allow someone to tell you to get over it..Your mother seem to have lived a full life, living for as long as she did which is a blessing. She's no longer in pain becoming an ancestor now.

Condolences to you and your family.

May our ancestors welcome your mother with open arms.

Godspeed..
 
DWBass said:
Hey fam, I know we fuck with each other every now and then but a brother needs some uplifting vibes. My mom passed away yesterday. She was terminal and in a facility. We knew she was going to die but didn't think it would happen so soon. She went downhill pretty quick in a months time. I visited her in February and she was mobile. Visited again in March and she could no longer stand or walk anymore. My brother works during the day so she could no longer be left alone at home so we made the decision to have her hospitalized. After a week or so in the hospital, she was moved to a hospice facility. She lasted about a month. She was no longer eating. She had total kidney failure and her organs began shutting down. She was ready to go though. Outside of my brother, all her friends had passed away. She was extremely lonely. I'm not sad though. I'm happy she is no longer in pain.

Just looking for positive vibes though.
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I'm sorry for your loss and I'm also happy to hear that she's no longer in pain

It sounds like she was suffering and ready to go, may she Rest In Paradise...
 
DWBass said:
Hey fam, I know we fuck with each other every now and then but a brother needs some uplifting vibes. My mom passed away yesterday. She was terminal and in a facility. We knew she was going to die but didn't think it would happen so soon. She went downhill pretty quick in a months time. I visited her in February and she was mobile. Visited again in March and she could no longer stand or walk anymore. My brother works during the day so she could no longer be left alone at home so we made the decision to have her hospitalized. After a week or so in the hospital, she was moved to a hospice facility. She lasted about a month. She was no longer eating. She had total kidney failure and her organs began shutting down. She was ready to go though. Outside of my brother, all her friends had passed away. She was extremely lonely. I'm not sad though. I'm happy she is no longer in pain.

Just looking for positive vibes though.
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Keep your head up fam. Going thru it with my aunt now.
 
My prayers are with you, brother. I'm the last one standing from my immediate family. My dad's been gone for more than 30 years, my mom passed 20 years ago, and my younger brother passed in 2018, so I can speak from experience when I say that the pain eventually subsides, but the memories don't, especially if you were fortunate to have had a loving, close-knit family as I did. Sounds like you had a wonderful mother who lived a long and active life. Rest in the fact that her pain and suffering is over, and that before long your thoughts of her will bring you joy and peace and not sadness. And if you're a spiritual person at all, know that she's never been freer, and that she'll always be with you.
 

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