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ok a female friend has been to a decent brother for the last 4. She says he is a great guy and he treats her like gold,works hard, he is always home and he cares very much for her etec

BUT
Now she says that the this isnt enough for her and she claims to have completely lost the desire for this man. Yes she says she doesnt enjoy sex with him, it turns her off. So far she has cheated many times on him and by the her tone looks like she dont want to stop. I advised her to get counseling but the sista says she wont because this will mean that she will have to stop seeing her lover. In other words she wants the security of a marriage as well as the excitement and pleasure that she get from her lover...the sista wants it all. Ohh by the way the dude doesnt have a clue and they are both good family friends

I am curious to know if there are any other women or men out there who know their partner is genuinely a good person but they still cannot help but cheat on them because the desire has just vanished.
 
I KNOW THIS IS FOR THE LADIES BUT:

I know of few of them like this....

Kinda hard to trust the marriage bullshit when you hear these stories.

I had a friend call me from DC to tell me about her exploits with a lover up there. Her husband is taking care of biz at home, but according to her, he ain't feeling that need.

She tried to get at me but I told her I ain't getting in that shit. I was going to tell her hubby, but decided it was best I leave that shit alone.

I told her to keep that shit to herself.
 
Oh, I didn't mention that she lives here in NC, and grabbed a homegirl to go with her to justify the long distance booty call. :smh:
 
Yes I have met a few women who cheat on their husband and see no wrong in it. One woman called her husband the Alpha and her lover the Omega, saying her husband begins and trys to get her there but then she sneaks to see her lover and he ends it with pleasure. She was very open about how she dislikes her husband but didn't want to divorce.

Women feel that security in a marriage, that appearance, that feeling of family especially if they have kids, and the husband is taking care of business in 90% of the way but it may be that 10% that the women feel they HAVE to have. If you ever seen the movie "Why Did I get Married" it's that 20/80 rule and it applies both ways, women just know that they are seeking the 20 most of the time and they not dumb enough to leave their 80.
 
mzmillion said:
Yes I have met a few women who cheat on their husband and see no wrong in it. One woman called her husband the Alpha and her lover the Omega, saying her husband begins and trys to get her there but then she sneaks to see her lover and he ends it with pleasure. She was very open about how she dislikes her husband but didn't want to divorce.

Women feel that security in a marriage, that appearance, that feeling of family especially if they have kids, and the husband is taking care of business in 90% of the way but it may be that 10% that the women feel they HAVE to have. If you ever seen the movie "Why Did I get Married" it's that 20/80 rule and it applies both ways, women just know that they are seeking the 20 most of the time and they not dumb enough to leave their 80.
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Tell her not to be surprised when she finds out he is fucking around on her too.
 
This is why I don't believe in marriage. All I see is married people cheating. If you are going to do that why get married? :smh:
 
AristotlesOwn said:
And the incentives for marriage continue to plummet...
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:( Yes.

Its sad though to hear it. I'm going be optimistic- they need a want to be married registry for people that genuinely love to fuck and value sexual intimacy in a union.... not that tired e harmony we love the same color stuff.:confused:
 
Izayoi said:
:( Yes.

Its sad though to hear it. I'm going be optimistic- they need a want to be married registry for people that genuinely love to fuck and value sexual intimacy in a union.... not that tired e harmony we love the same color stuff.:confused:
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There are two ways in this issue. First of all we have to understand that being an adult isn't a matter of chronological age. It is a matter of understanding consequences and taking those consequences into consideration - its called a conscious.

Obviously the situation is all about the sista. This is called entitlement.

Half way through i thought whats the point in trying to explain color to someone who is color blind.
 
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All that's gravy, but just don't get married. You can raise your children without that shit. Then each of you can fuck whoever and whenever you want.
 
mzmillion said:
Yes I have met a few women who cheat on their husband and see no wrong in it. One woman called her husband the Alpha and her lover the Omega, saying her husband begins and trys to get her there but then she sneaks to see her lover and he ends it with pleasure. She was very open about how she dislikes her husband but didn't want to divorce.

Women feel that security in a marriage, that appearance, that feeling of family especially if they have kids, and the husband is taking care of business in 90% of the way but it may be that 10% that the women feel they HAVE to have. If you ever seen the movie "Why Did I get Married" it's that 20/80 rule and it applies both ways, women just know that they are seeking the 20 most of the time and they not dumb enough to leave their 80.
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Women who are like wont receive there blessings... they'll never learn... The same woman probably accuses her man of cheating all the time
 
Instead of putting all that effort into cheating, why doesn't she use that same energy to make sex with her husband desirable?
Sex takes practice for some people...not everyone is just naturally good at it. If she spent less time cheating and more time into making sex with her husband good, I doubt she would have this problem.
 
PrincessC said:
Instead of putting all that effort into cheating, why doesn't she use that same energy to make sex with her husband desirable?
Sex takes practice for some people...not everyone is just naturally good at it. If she spent less time cheating and more time into making sex with her husband good, I doubt she would have this problem.
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Co-Sign. I have heard about women that would be doing all the sexy shit for the other man and wont do that shit for her man. Makes no sense​
 

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